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Any advice on how to talk to my husband kindly

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EmberR · 25/09/2025 17:40

I’ve been with my husband 6 years. Last few months have felt really hard we are just not on the same team. He’s not been very kind to me with things I’m upset about (when I’m crying he just doesn’t help / hug /console me). It hurts.

Also he is just so stubborn and thinks he’s right about everything. I am always apologising for my opinion and what I think. Things to do with money, our home, our child. I just get vetod all the time.

I really love him and he’s a good man. I just can’t find a way to bring this up positively. I either get upset and angry and ignore him (doesn’t help) or I try and raise it and he can’t see my perspective.

I’m sure this is a tale as old as time. But any advice please?

OP posts:
cestlavielife · 25/09/2025 17:43

really love him and he’s a good man

This statement does not go with the rest of your post.
Maybe his nastiness is increasing.
Bring good sometimes is typical bully behaviour

Go talk to a counsellor on your own
Take a break away for the weekend

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