Husband vaginal thrush treatment?

Fucking hell. I mean he might be having an affair, who knows, but a used vaginal pessary is still baffling.

I mean, 'hold on a minute love, I've just gotta shove this cannestan pessary up me vag before we get going' doesn't exactly scream sexytime does it?

How would vaginal pessary work on a male for athletes foot??? Mind boggling

I think "man buys slightly wrong product for his athletes foot" is more likely than "woman applies thrush medication in her boyfriends car and then leaves the used pessary in the glovebox". Especially when you add into the mix he might have been embarred and rushing when he bought it

People are suggesting it was deliberately left for OP to find, wouldn’t she leave a lacy thong or something rather than medical paraphernalia? You'd have to assume he would me more likely to find it there than the wife in his own glovebox

Duplicate post sorry

"Men can also get thrush under the foreskin"

This. The cream in these packs is twice as strong as off the shelf stuff.

It's possible he used the applicator with the cream bit and disposed of the pessary. Women's cream is often 20% strength. Pharmacists won't normally sell cream higher than 10% to men.

Treatments can include a suppository?

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22907-anal-yeast-infection

No teenager is getting dad to buy one of those then using it in his car. EVER.

Ask him

I mean it’s possible he bought the pack in error but having been cheated on, I wouldn’t believe that bollocks.

I agree with others that maybe he wanted it for the cream. Not beyond the realm of fantasy to think a man might have wanted to see what the applicator was. I’ve known a few who would probably think it’s to put the pessary tablet down their throat to swallow it 🤦‍♀️.
I can’t imagine many women in long term relationships would insert a pessary in the passenger seat, let alone a woman doing that in front of her affair partner - and then putting it in the glove box instead of a bag/bin. Would be very surprised if he doesn’t casually say he was using the cream himself

I don't think it suggests cheating either. He's likely bought the wrong cream.

He wouldn't leave that in his car if he was up to no good, surely

But defo ask him - hey what's this I found in your glove box?!

Men can also get thrush under the foreskin. Are you 100% sure the pessary was ‘used’ as in the tablet’s empty wrapping was there and there was no pessary in the applicator? Because I’d have thought the most likely explanation was that he wanted the cream and bought the combi pack by mistake.

If he was having an affair, it seems tremendously unlikely that his other woman would be a) using a thrush pessary in his car and b) leaving it there. That’s really not a thing that any woman would do.

Don't start the mental gymnastics some posters are coming up with (athletes foot?!). It's a pessary for a vagina. It hasn't gone up yours so just ask him straight out.

As others say, don't be tempted to fill the silence. Wait him out. And if he gives you an obvious baloney story ask to see his phone.

Oh OP. I always say don’t jump to conclusions but at a loss with this one.

Sending strength.

This sounds weird but was it definately used? Or did he get the box with the pessary and maybe just used the cream on himself?

I missed that bit 😳

I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt but......

You cannot treat athletes foot with a pessary 🤣

I know a few men who have developed thrush on their skin from sweating at the gym, that's been resolved with cream.

Im so sorry OP but its very likely another woman has been intimately involved with your husband. If he's turned off his location, that supports the possibility he's cheating. Have you noticed anything else different with him recently?

If its another woman leaving a calling card...jesus, she could have left a lipstick the filthy cow. I'd be getting myself checked out for STIs to be on the safe side.

Im sorry OP. From someone who has been cheated on, stay cool even though you're raging. Think about the end game and what you want from this and work towards that.

Take care x

If that's your full name and year of birth as your username OP you might want to get the thread deleted, you could repost it under a more anonymous username.

@ItsFridayIminLoveJS OP wrote it's the vaginal pessary that's used.

If it's the pessary that's left.. maybe he's just used the cream for jock itch if he's a gym goer?
My ex used it for that.
But didn't buy the combi.. maybe your husband bought the combi by mistake.

Do you have a teenage daughter @Laurawhitty94 ? That would the only other logical possibility.

A vaginal pessary is not used to treat athletes foot.

no one holds a vaginal pessary between their toes!! how can people be so dense!! no vagina- no pessary needed!

@Laurawhitty94 well he doesnt have a vagina so there is no way it belongs to him and if it doesnt belong to his wife then the only other alternative is that it belongs to his girlfriend. no one carries a used applicator around and given given that it has been inserted, it is safe to presume that it has be inserted in your dh car!!!