Husband vaginal thrush treatment?

I’m incredibly close to my husband, he’s bought this exact thrush treatment for me before, I’ve applied the pessary while he’s in the room and he’s applied cream for me. I have never and can’t ever imagine a scenario where I apply a pessary in his car.

Yeah I get that. It does seem a bit brash for an affair partner, doesn’t it?

Although I can’t add an explanation why he turned his location off.

I don't understand people leaping to affair! If it were a lipstick or a lacey thong, then yes, but no-one would 'accidentally' leave thrush treatment for their partner's spouse to find.

I'm having intrusive thoughts of OP's husband getting all pervy about his affair partner's thrush treatment - you know, "I wish I was your tampon" vibes.
Oh, hold on, he's not the King of England, is he?!

very plausible! I would then tell my wife though like you never guess what stupid thing I’ve done. Unless he hasn’t realised!

You know what men are like probably opened the silver foil wondering what it was. It’s a possibility. A lot of men may not even know what a pessary is so look. If it were a woman. She’s a very strange one!! To be leaving thrush treatment in her affair partners vehicle.

Surely OP would have noticed if her DH had thrush? They wouldn’t be having sex and his Willy would be quite sore and dry looking? It doesn’t go away straight away either even with treatment and more to the point wouldn’t he have told her?.

If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it’s probably a duck.

Sounds reasonable but where’s the pessary?

I went to boots for the cream and a chemist and the only option was to buy the combi pessary as no creams on their own were available. I didn’t want the pessary. So maybe he wanted the cream for himself and just didn’t mention it?? I didn’t constantly tell my partner about all my health issues

Does the School curriculum still include reading & comprehension because reading some of these replies they aren’t practising enough of it!

I can’t wait to read your next novella 😂

it wS for his gym partner 😀

He probably did it in the loo at work and didn’t want to leave it in the bin there

He wouldn’t necessarily know that, though. You can buy it online without speaking to a pharmacist.

Last time I bought Canestan I said ‘Do you have anything to treat thrush?’ and the woman in the pharmacy just said ‘Yes, do you want just the cream or the combi pack?’ and that was literally the extent of the conversation. So it would be very easy for a man to buy the combi without really understanding what he was buying.

You can also buy it online with zero conversation at all. I’ve bought it off Amazon before.

I’m a little confused OP but even more suspicious.
I have had to use a pessary when I was put on antibiotics for a nasty chest/throat infection. It gave me the most horrendous thrush in every orifice including vaginal. It was really bad in fact. It’s now noted on my medical records as an allergy.

I cannot imagine anyone putting a pessary in situ in a car unless

A. Person was at home and not in a car and didn’t want anyone to find but why would u not put in a bag and then at least put in a bin at the bottom. why would you go to the effort to put in the glove box.
B. If having sex in the car, would you have a pessary before or would you have this afterwards? I can’t see a pessary being inserted before. In which case you must know the person has thrush so wouldn’t you use a condom?
Why wouldn’t the other person wait till they were home to have the said pessary and therefore not need to leave in the car.
C. Husband is the user of the pessary and this could be a genuine medical reason such as an allergy like myself had above or even diabetes and maybe your husband could be worried and didn’t want to worry you.

Hope you get to the bottom of it OP

And me too

If it was anal it would be a tablet in the mouth.

Pessary is to help get rid of it vaginally.

Clearly an affair.
there's nothing more erotic than vaginal thrush cream!

Wouldn't that be difficult to do sat in his car?

I'm just trying to imagine if I was screwing someone else's husband, why I wouldn't just wait until I got home...

I’m leaning towards whoever used the pessary did so in a location where they couldn’t leave the rubbish (eg work). So, for example, inserted it in a bathroom at work and then put the rubbish straight in the glovebox and forgot it was there. I find it hard to believe anyone would insert a pessary in a car. The lack of privacy!
I also think a woman would be able to deal with thrush at home without having the hide the rubbish as it’s quite a common infection, affair or not.

Tell him you have thrush, which is very unusual for you, and watch his reaction.

I’m trying to mentally work through the circumstances. To be clear, this is 100% speculation!

I’m going with affair. She’s a married woman who confided in your husband about having thrush. They discussed what this could mean for their partners. Decided to buy the pessary and deal with it there and then so she didn’t have to risk taking it home. They meet in secluded car parking areas so it was no problem to do it secretly. He forgot to get rid of it, or shoved it in the glove compartment until he could dispose of safely… then forgot.

If my husband innocently had anal thrush I’m sure he’d be so freaked out he would mention it! I genuinely don’t think he’d know what it was or what to do about it. The athletes foot thing doesn’t wash.

I genuinely hope I am wrong! Good luck OP

I thought maybe he used the pessary up his bum too as it was itching.

She said it was used