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Violet Affleck and mask mandates

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aold · 24/09/2025 09:44

AIBU think that this shouldn’t be encouraged? Violet Affleck advocating for mask mandates. Daughter of Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck. Speaking about the importance of masks. Says we should still be wearing them to curb the spread of Covid 19.
Shouldn’t a young privileged woman be enjoying her youth? Is there a reason for fit healthy people like her to still walk around in masks?

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15127909/violet-affleck-mask-mandates-long-covid-ben-jennifer-garner.html

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:52

Needmorelego · 24/09/2025 13:51

I assume she's studying about it as part of her Yale education.

Perhaps one of her teachers would be better placed to address the UN about it then.

HermioneWeasley · 24/09/2025 13:51

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:42

I think masks etc should be enforced on things like public transport, in hospitals, etc. Especially during cold and flu season.

I used to get really unwell when I got a cold. My dad gets very unwell from bugs, even if the rest of us are fine. A sniffle for me could end up putting him in hospital. I’m fed up of being surrounded by people who are coughing their lungs up on the bus (and don’t say I should just put a mask on - it doesn’t work like that, they’re to keep bugs IN, not out).

It’s a small thing that doesn’t affect the vast majority of the population and it would make us all healthier.

this an argument for you and your family to wear masks around your dad if you believe they’re effective, not for the whole population to mask up

Needmorelego · 24/09/2025 13:51

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:48

And her qualifications are what, exactly? What legitimacy does the teenage daughter of two actors have to talk about this?

I assume she's studying about it as part of her Yale education.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:50

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:48

I certainly didn't get repeat COVID infections and neither did my husband, but we certainly caught other things more easily after social distancing.

FuzzyWolf · 24/09/2025 13:50

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:38

Masks were worn in 2020-2021, by some adults and pupils in secondary schools. Not at home. And primary schools and nurseries had no mask mandates for adults or children. Can you explain how you think that caused speech and language delays in children under 5? I'm also interested in how the children who were not yet born during the era of covid precautions were affected?

I think the charity Speech and Language UK have been very vocal about this. This link shows show stats which might be useful for you: speechandlanguage.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/speaking-up-for-the-covid-generation-i-can-report.pdf

Ihatetomatoes · 24/09/2025 13:49

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:48

And her qualifications are what, exactly? What legitimacy does the teenage daughter of two actors have to talk about this?

A mega dose of self importance.

Ihatetomatoes · 24/09/2025 13:49

HermioneWeasley · 24/09/2025 09:54

She can wear what she wants but needs to stop preaching to the rest of us about her beliefs. It’s tiresome.

This.

She'll be the mask because breathing is dangerous (she can wear if she wants but leave the rest of us alone), the free Pal (ignoring the terrorists who run the place and what they did and do), save the planet (whilst swanning off for hols with the parents), TWAW (ignoring the real concerns of biological women. This type are so privileged they are completely up their own asses.

Meep2024 · 24/09/2025 13:49

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:45

She was advocating for hepa air filters in public buildings and masking in medical facilities not "everyone masked up all the time". No need for such a hysterical reaction.

Sounds reasonable enough to me. Our A&E all started masking back up when flu went through it like wildfire. GPs did the same when Covid ripped through it leaving it with 2 staff who could still come in.

The HOP had HEPA filters installed before any MP would go back to work in person.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:48

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:45

She was advocating for hepa air filters in public buildings and masking in medical facilities not "everyone masked up all the time". No need for such a hysterical reaction.

And her qualifications are what, exactly? What legitimacy does the teenage daughter of two actors have to talk about this?

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:48

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:45

I'm not convinced it does though. Everyone's immune systems seemed to be weakened after masks and social distancing. We aren't supposed to lead sterile lives.

People's immune systems are weakened because of repeat covid infections, which suppress the immune system. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/news/newsroom/news-releases/2025/05/study-shows-sars-cov-2-corrupts-some-white-blood-cells-to-suppress-immune-system-suggesting-a-path-to-severe-covid

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:47

DontCallMeLenYouLittleBollix · 24/09/2025 13:46

Who do you think should bear the responsibility and costs for enforcing masks on public transport, and what do you think should happen when the public aren't having it?

Because having a mask mandate and having a general public who'll accept it are not the same thing. The first doesn't create the second.

And actually, a good quality well fitted mask does offer a decent degree of protection to the wearer.

It should be a fine, or refusal to board.

I find anti-maskers hilarious at best and downright childish at worst.

JenniferBooth · 24/09/2025 13:46

I remember seeing clips from an awards ceremony. None of the celebs were wearing masks but the help were The people waiting on them. It was not great optics and gave off a protecting our betters vibe.

Theyreeatingthedogs · 24/09/2025 13:46

My DP is deaf and relies mainly on lipreading. Masks are a nightmare for them as they can't understand anyone. It's not just the lipreading , the mask also muffles the sound. There are clear masks to help lipreading. Is Affleck wearing one? No. She is quite happy to alienate deaf people.

DontCallMeLenYouLittleBollix · 24/09/2025 13:46

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:42

I think masks etc should be enforced on things like public transport, in hospitals, etc. Especially during cold and flu season.

I used to get really unwell when I got a cold. My dad gets very unwell from bugs, even if the rest of us are fine. A sniffle for me could end up putting him in hospital. I’m fed up of being surrounded by people who are coughing their lungs up on the bus (and don’t say I should just put a mask on - it doesn’t work like that, they’re to keep bugs IN, not out).

It’s a small thing that doesn’t affect the vast majority of the population and it would make us all healthier.

Who do you think should bear the responsibility and costs for enforcing masks on public transport, and what do you think should happen when the public aren't having it?

Because having a mask mandate and having a general public who'll accept it are not the same thing. The first doesn't create the second.

And actually, a good quality well fitted mask does offer a decent degree of protection to the wearer.

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:46

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:45

I'm not convinced it does though. Everyone's immune systems seemed to be weakened after masks and social distancing. We aren't supposed to lead sterile lives.

It’s not a sterile life.

the issue is, after Covid, people resent staying home. So they go out in public when they’re really unwell.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:45

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:42

I think masks etc should be enforced on things like public transport, in hospitals, etc. Especially during cold and flu season.

I used to get really unwell when I got a cold. My dad gets very unwell from bugs, even if the rest of us are fine. A sniffle for me could end up putting him in hospital. I’m fed up of being surrounded by people who are coughing their lungs up on the bus (and don’t say I should just put a mask on - it doesn’t work like that, they’re to keep bugs IN, not out).

It’s a small thing that doesn’t affect the vast majority of the population and it would make us all healthier.

I'm not convinced it does though. Everyone's immune systems seemed to be weakened after masks and social distancing. We aren't supposed to lead sterile lives.

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:41

Do any of these idiotic mask advocates ever consider the environmental waste that would be generated if everyone masked up all the time?

Or the impact on babies and children's social development?

Only a complete and utter lunatic would advocate for people to wear them when there is no longer a pandemic.

She was advocating for hepa air filters in public buildings and masking in medical facilities not "everyone masked up all the time". No need for such a hysterical reaction.

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:43

aold · 24/09/2025 09:44

AIBU think that this shouldn’t be encouraged? Violet Affleck advocating for mask mandates. Daughter of Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck. Speaking about the importance of masks. Says we should still be wearing them to curb the spread of Covid 19.
Shouldn’t a young privileged woman be enjoying her youth? Is there a reason for fit healthy people like her to still walk around in masks?

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15127909/violet-affleck-mask-mandates-long-covid-ben-jennifer-garner.html

Maybe she realises that it’s not about her, but protecting those who have poor immune systems.
I’m immune compromised due to medication I take, I got Covid more than 2 months ago and the fatigue is still kicking my arse, and my chest feels like someone took sandpaper to the inside of my lungs.

GPproblems · 24/09/2025 13:42

I think masks etc should be enforced on things like public transport, in hospitals, etc. Especially during cold and flu season.

I used to get really unwell when I got a cold. My dad gets very unwell from bugs, even if the rest of us are fine. A sniffle for me could end up putting him in hospital. I’m fed up of being surrounded by people who are coughing their lungs up on the bus (and don’t say I should just put a mask on - it doesn’t work like that, they’re to keep bugs IN, not out).

It’s a small thing that doesn’t affect the vast majority of the population and it would make us all healthier.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:41

Do any of these idiotic mask advocates ever consider the environmental waste that would be generated if everyone masked up all the time?

Or the impact on babies and children's social development?

Only a complete and utter lunatic would advocate for people to wear them when there is no longer a pandemic.

LindorDoubleChoc · 24/09/2025 13:39

I think let people choose. In Japan and no doubt other countries people wear masks just for a common cold, out of consideration for others. I wouldn't mind if we had this sort of use of masks over here, colds can be nasty and result in time off work.

BananaPeels · 24/09/2025 13:39

She has no qualifications to be given this platform. That is what annoys me the most. She’s honestly speaking into thin air though so complete waste of her time.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/09/2025 13:38

Absolutely batshit.

Turningworld · 24/09/2025 13:38

FuzzyWolf · 24/09/2025 13:23

"As Dr. Akiko Iwasaki says, at this point, the whole population is the control group, and after only five years, long COVID has surpassed asthma as the most common chronic illness in children in five years and under," she explained."

This is the same age group most impacted with speech and language delays as a direct result of people wearing masks.

Masks were worn in 2020-2021, by some adults and pupils in secondary schools. Not at home. And primary schools and nurseries had no mask mandates for adults or children. Can you explain how you think that caused speech and language delays in children under 5? I'm also interested in how the children who were not yet born during the era of covid precautions were affected?

Woompund · 24/09/2025 13:38

Overtheatlantic · 24/09/2025 09:50

I guess she’s using her immense privilege for good, although lecturing the UN seems like a right she hasn’t yet earned.

What's good about this?