I didn't work for a long time because of health issues. Now I'm earning again, I want to travel while I still can.
I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to come on a long haul trip, and I would pay. (he'd taken me on a couple of hols when I was skint). He said No.
I said OK, booked my flight and went alone. He said I was selfish.
I asked him why. We don't live together or have kids, we have separate finances, I pay my way and have no debt.
He said "because there was no discussion. you just did what you wanted to do and cleared off." I disagree. I asked him if he wanted to come and I'd pay.
When we first met I told him I loved travelling and wanted to do more. I've never pretended otherwise.
AIBU?