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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer

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strangerandstranger · 21/09/2025 23:22

To people who said her husband was hateful and what they preached was hateful, she just forgave the killer, as God would. Powerful speech.

The messed up young man who thought shooting man he didn't like was the answer, will go to prison and no longer be with his boyfriend. Erika Kirk no longer has her husband and her children have list their father.

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Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 21:15

@BerylSnowbut everyone looks the other way to some degree. I mean, many of us chat and debate on here but go to work, do our normal jobs, look after our families. At least he was really DOING something. Standing up and talking to people who not only disagreed with him but really and truly hated him, over and over again. He had a vision and belief he wanted to inspire in others, and I don’t agree with everything he said but I think that’s really admirable. And absolutely terrifying and impossible for 99% of people to ever imagine doing. But i think it’s a big thing to hold him accountable for all wrongs inflicted by guns because he is pro guns.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 21:15

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 21:12

What on earth are you talking about?

Nothing you’ve said makes the slightest bit of sense.

Well, it does. But I can see why you don't want it to make sense!

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 21:12

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 21:05

You said as much in retrospect. It's all a little disingenuous.

What else will you tell us that you were 'joking' about when your hypocrisy is highlighted?

What on earth are you talking about?

Nothing you’ve said makes the slightest bit of sense.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 21:09

Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 21:03

@BerylSnowyes because logically power and freedom trumps everything.
His argument was if we talk then we don’t need to resort to violence. He didn’t condone violence just that it’s the price we pay in todays world. I think he would say to follow the teachings of Christ is the most important thing to give people a moral code/ sense of purpose, and in theory that should equal less violence and shootings.
If his teachings led some people to lead good lives who otherwise wouldn’t have, does that mean he’s also pro-goodness? I don’t think words are literal violence and if they are then are they also literal goodness if they inspire good things..?

'Good' is a judgement, and I'm sure we all have a different measure on what is 'good'.

I'm sure Kirk didn't actively go out inciting violence, but he was clearly willing to look the other way if and when it took place. Anti-violence, really?

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 21:05

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 20:55

I’ve explained why. It’s funny to parrot the left’s narrative back to them now the boot’s on the other foot.

You said as much in retrospect. It's all a little disingenuous.

What else will you tell us that you were 'joking' about when your hypocrisy is highlighted?

Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 21:03

@BerylSnowyes because logically power and freedom trumps everything.
His argument was if we talk then we don’t need to resort to violence. He didn’t condone violence just that it’s the price we pay in todays world. I think he would say to follow the teachings of Christ is the most important thing to give people a moral code/ sense of purpose, and in theory that should equal less violence and shootings.
If his teachings led some people to lead good lives who otherwise wouldn’t have, does that mean he’s also pro-goodness? I don’t think words are literal violence and if they are then are they also literal goodness if they inspire good things..?

awkwardasfuck · 22/09/2025 21:00

labtest57 · 22/09/2025 20:57

Childish insults again. How original.

Mate. Give up.

Plastictreees · 22/09/2025 20:57

It’s like the twilight zone on MN recently. Religious zealots, racism denial and outright lunacy. I truly believe some posters have lost their grip on reality. Thoughts and prayers 😄

labtest57 · 22/09/2025 20:57

awkwardasfuck · 22/09/2025 17:12

No labtest, you grow up. Although I imagine you will fail at that.

Childish insults again. How original.

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 20:55

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 20:51

You don't agree with the phrase, yet use it? So, you don't sctually believe what you are writing here? Do I have that correct?

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I’ve explained why. It’s funny to parrot the left’s narrative back to them now the boot’s on the other foot.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 20:54

Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 20:48

Americans are pro guns because of the history of their country, because they hold a power that we in this country do not - the country was founded by people fleeing from religious persecution and so the right to bare arms means that you (in theory) hold power, autonomy and in that sense (positive) freedom. To give up guns is to give up that power/ freedom.
It’s a belief that logically makes sense.
Of course, taken to the extreme the constitution contradicts itself because of the clash between positive and negative freedom. But surely people can understand the history and why it is held so fundamental to many Americans? I hate guns and disagree with them overall, but I get it. It’s such a complex thing.
Charlie Kirk was anti-violence though. He didn’t go around shooting people.

But is quoted as saying gun deaths are worth it if it meant holding up the second amendment.

I'm not entirely certain if that qualifies as anti violence.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 20:51

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 20:09

I don’t agree with the phrase, but it was so often used by the left against those they had fired/cancelled/pushed out of public debate, that it’s quite funny to say it now and watch them squirm. They’re getting a taste of their own medicine.

You don't agree with the phrase, yet use it? So, you don't sctually believe what you are writing here? Do I have that correct?

Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 20:48

Americans are pro guns because of the history of their country, because they hold a power that we in this country do not - the country was founded by people fleeing from religious persecution and so the right to bare arms means that you (in theory) hold power, autonomy and in that sense (positive) freedom. To give up guns is to give up that power/ freedom.
It’s a belief that logically makes sense.
Of course, taken to the extreme the constitution contradicts itself because of the clash between positive and negative freedom. But surely people can understand the history and why it is held so fundamental to many Americans? I hate guns and disagree with them overall, but I get it. It’s such a complex thing.
Charlie Kirk was anti-violence though. He didn’t go around shooting people.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 20:48

RingoJuice · 22/09/2025 08:06

Taking a colorblind approach in the justice system will lead to a disproportionate amount of African Americans in prison, and we need to be okay with that and stop making excuses for it.

It is a fact that 1 in 5 African American males will be in prison at some point in their life, versus 1 in 25 for white American males.

I’m tired of the excuses. There is a reason families choose to leave urban school districts, and it’s not down to racism. It was always the violence.

So despite being a non-Christian and pro-choice, I have voted Republican since the Trump era because I want to see harsher penalties towards crime.

You do know this is more to do with socio economics and education than race? You know this, right?

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 22/09/2025 20:09

CK should not have been shot. I am sure his wife is sincere in her grief. But if you think this speech was not entirely performative and about protecting the brand, I have a bridge to sell you.

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 20:09

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 19:55

Then it's not free speech, is it? That lady over here (UK) spouted some hateful stuff towards immigrants and was then jailed for it.

Is that both freedom of expression, and freedom of expression with consequences?

I don’t agree with the phrase, but it was so often used by the left against those they had fired/cancelled/pushed out of public debate, that it’s quite funny to say it now and watch them squirm. They’re getting a taste of their own medicine.

BlueandPinkSwan · 22/09/2025 19:59

RingoJuice · 22/09/2025 10:46

Gun ownership percentages by state is actually not correlated with gun-related homicides. It’s only directly linked to gun-related suicides.

So going into schools and shooting kids is okay then? If someone wants to kill themselves that's that but there are too many shootings everywhere else and mainly innocent victims.
Why does the average Joe and Jane need assault rifles and heavy duty weapons in their homes? I know someone in the Stateswho has enough weapons to start a fucking war! All legal and he thinks it's pkay and right.

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 19:55

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 22/09/2025 01:30

If they considered Kimmel’s comments to be reasonable and measured, perhaps ABC might have resisted such pressure and fought his corner? Evidently this was not the case.

Kimmel was free to express his views, but they came with consequences.

Then it's not free speech, is it? That lady over here (UK) spouted some hateful stuff towards immigrants and was then jailed for it.

Is that both freedom of expression, and freedom of expression with consequences?

Wishing14 · 22/09/2025 19:54

He was a very good man from what I can see who on the whole wanted to talk and spread a certain message. He was confident, bordering on arrogant and cocky at times which rubbed people up the wrong way. But I don’t believe he was hateful. He had ‘extreme’ views to some, but they were based on moral, religious teachings - eg evangelical Christianity. Not so extreme to others. Mostly based on rationality and reason - eg the abortion debate, so they’re difficult to stomach for many people. But his main message was listen and talk. Unfortunately many people are incapable of that, it seems.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 22/09/2025 19:29

Plastictreees · 22/09/2025 19:22

Ah that makes a lot of sense. Good luck with your x ray! 😆

Ah thank you.

Plastictreees · 22/09/2025 19:22

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 22/09/2025 19:19

Aren’t the left the ones that are hell bent on pigeon holing and abuse.
Ah you are projecting, with yourself, looking for attention and making bizarre unfounded statements.I hardly post ….you actually do seem to be the one looking for attention.
Sweetie I am out in the real world, sitting in hospital waiting for an x ray.
It might help if you speak to your doctor about your derangement.

Ah that makes a lot of sense. Good luck with your x ray! 😆

strangerandstranger · 22/09/2025 19:21

Icon15 · 22/09/2025 18:58

I'm not sure about that. How would anger and revenge make anything better? It certainly wouldn't bring the dead person back. He's gone - and his widow needs to be able to live the rest of her life without being consumed by hatred and anger and a desire for retribution. She's done the right thing for herself and her children. Forgiveness extinguishes the hate.

Indeed she has.

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awkwardasfuck · 22/09/2025 19:20

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You too mate, you too.

ThatBlackCat · 22/09/2025 19:20

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 22/09/2025 19:19

Aren’t the left the ones that are hell bent on pigeon holing and abuse.
Ah you are projecting, with yourself, looking for attention and making bizarre unfounded statements.I hardly post ….you actually do seem to be the one looking for attention.
Sweetie I am out in the real world, sitting in hospital waiting for an x ray.
It might help if you speak to your doctor about your derangement.

Yes you completely nailed that one.

Plastictreees · 22/09/2025 19:19

ThatBlackCat · 22/09/2025 18:32

One would think a certain unhinged poster would learn and stop posting their extreme vile psychotic hatred.... Their posts never stand. I wonder why. It might be helpful to reflect and learn not to be so combative and spiteful.

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Oh dear 🤣🤣🤣👏