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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer

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strangerandstranger · 21/09/2025 23:22

To people who said her husband was hateful and what they preached was hateful, she just forgave the killer, as God would. Powerful speech.

The messed up young man who thought shooting man he didn't like was the answer, will go to prison and no longer be with his boyfriend. Erika Kirk no longer has her husband and her children have list their father.

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Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:54

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:48

Ok. But no one mentioned Democrats. Only that ICE was brought in Democrat leaning states.

No one mentioned Democrats........Democrat leaning states?
Ok then

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:54

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:50

Upthread Charlie Kirk's views on guns (amongst other things) was described as hate.

Can you quote the post?

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:51

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:48

Ok. But no one mentioned Democrats. Only that ICE was brought in Democrat leaning states.

Yes, I wish they would go to my home state but I haven’t heard of any widespread action.

Pity, we are the ones who actually voted for it … it’s probably because they are starting in so-called sanctuary states and cities

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:50

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:41

I have and I still don't get your point!

The poster claimed there was some agenda from the current office towards dem cities because they voted dem as if armed guards were going in for no other reason than they voted dem ignoring the absolute shitshow the dems have made of their cities with their policies. Clear enough for you now?

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:50

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:49

Who is accusing who of hate because of their views on guns?

I've missed that bit.

Upthread Charlie Kirk's views on guns (amongst other things) was described as hate.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:49

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:46

No one is ever going to get rid of guns in the USA. If Sandy hook didn't change minds nothing will.

There is no point in asking what number of deaths are acceptable, the answer is clearly zero.

The right to bare arms is a mainstream position in the USA. Accusing one man of hate for holding a mainstream opinion on this is absurd.

Who is accusing who of hate because of their views on guns?

I've missed that bit.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:48

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:39

Charlie Kirk's argument.

That's a risk v benefit debate. Surely the benefits of motor vehicles far outweigh the risks.

In your view, what are the benefits of having guns? The risks are obvious.

I grew up with a gun in the home (I have no idea where my dad kept it) so it’s completely normal to me. It was a somewhat rural area, no telling when cops would arrive if a home
invasion took place

(and it had happened in my area, it’s not beyond the realm of possibility)

AzurePanda · 23/09/2025 08:48

@BerylSnow I am totally anti gun (like most non Americans) but it doesn’t take much effort to see why Americans are so keen on them. Obviously the whole point of the second amendment is to enable citizens to fight back against government tyranny and overreach, then there’s the long tradition of hunting and sporting endeavours. Then there’s the much touted deterrence and defence factor against criminals and finally of course, they see gun ownership as emblematic of liberty.

The US isn’t the only country with widespread gun ownership.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:48

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:38

That Democrats are not credible on this issue, for one. They have had plenty of chances to show progress on the issue and they have not. Where is the Rudy Giuliani of the left?

Ok. But no one mentioned Democrats. Only that ICE was brought in Democrat leaning states.

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:46

No one is ever going to get rid of guns in the USA. If Sandy hook didn't change minds nothing will.

There is no point in asking what number of deaths are acceptable, the answer is clearly zero.

The right to bare arms is a mainstream position in the USA. Accusing one man of hate for holding a mainstream opinion on this is absurd.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:41

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:38

Read the post I was quoting

I have and I still don't get your point!

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:39

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:33

No.

Because the acceptable number is as low as you can get it. Like car deaths. How many are acceptable? You could get to zero if you took all cars away, but it’s not a realistic measure, is it?

Charlie Kirk's argument.

That's a risk v benefit debate. Surely the benefits of motor vehicles far outweigh the risks.

In your view, what are the benefits of having guns? The risks are obvious.

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:38

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:34

And the point here is what?

Read the post I was quoting

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:38

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:34

And the point here is what?

That Democrats are not credible on this issue, for one. They have had plenty of chances to show progress on the issue and they have not. Where is the Rudy Giuliani of the left?

Lou7171 · 23/09/2025 08:37

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 23/09/2025 07:56

But it is now clear that the radicalised leftists are the party of murder and the dangerous side of the equation. Centrist and right wing people are generally amenable to discussion.

Entirely wrong. Right-wing extremist killings outpace the left consistently and by a wide margin.

This. It's not hard to find the stats to back up this statement. I'm so sick of right wing politicians/media lying and getting away with it.

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:37

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:31

So, you won't give me your view of an acceptable figure of annual gun deaths?

Edited

What's the acceptable figure of road traffic accidents per year or should we ban cars?
What's the acceptable death rate per year for obesity and cancer before we ban processed food?
What's the acceptable death rate per year from alcohol issues before we ban it?

AzurePanda · 23/09/2025 08:35

@Poetnojo I travel extensively around the US regularly and you can always immediately identify a red or a blue city from the state of the streets and in particular signs of crime and disorder.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:34

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:32

You do know that the top 10 most violent cities in the US are All Democratic led so it would stand to reason that there should be state sponsored armed guards on the streets.
Thats not an agenda it's a fact.
Where is the agenda?
Just to reiterate every last one of the top ten most violent cities are led by Democrats.
Every.
Last.
One

Edited

And the point here is what?

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:33

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:31

So, you won't give me your view of an acceptable figure of annual gun deaths?

Edited

No.

Because the acceptable number is as low as you can get it. Like car deaths. How many are acceptable? You could get to zero if you took all cars away, but it’s not a realistic measure, is it?

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:32

TankFlyBossW4lk · 23/09/2025 07:11

Honestly, this made me laugh. This thread is actually about forgiveness (apparently) and non violence. If the hypocrisy of non violence and state supported execution doesn't strike you as odd, then I bring you state sponsored armed guards on the (democratic states voting) streets. I bring you masked ICE agents abducting ethnic minorities and imprisoning them.

Honestly, I don't even believe you are deluded, I think it's worse, you have your own agenda.

You do know that the top 10 most violent cities in the US are All Democratic led so it would stand to reason that there should be state sponsored armed guards on the streets.
Thats not an agenda it's a fact.
Where is the agenda?
Just to reiterate every last one of the top ten most violent cities are led by Democrats.
Every.
Last.
One

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:31

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:30

We would have to see what effects mass incarceration, stop and frisk, and stricter standards for gun ownership would be. Personally I feel it would massively cut back on gun deaths, but we will have to see the results

So, you won't give me your view of an acceptable figure of annual gun deaths?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:30

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 23/09/2025 08:27

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Surely no-one is surprised by this!

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 08:30

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:25

What's an acceptable number of annual gun deaths to you? If that 40k figure was brought down to 10k, would you deem that as an acceptable figure?

We would have to see what effects mass incarceration, stop and frisk, and stricter standards for gun ownership would be. Personally I feel it would massively cut back on gun deaths, but we will have to see the results

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 23/09/2025 08:27

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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer
Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 08:25

5128gap · 23/09/2025 08:16

I'm referring to his behaviour and the level of courtesy I observed in his attitude and tone. Which in my opinion fell well short of the level of respect I'd expect from a man claiming Christian values and polite open debate. You may of course apply different standards.
The first young woman, the Asian woman, asked him why he wouldn't debate a certain individual. His response was to sneer at her and say "I've travelled all the way here for you to ask me that?" In a rude and belittling manner.

I agree. I personally find him to be utterly condescending, glib and unlikeable. And that’s without even considering his abhorrent views!