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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer

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strangerandstranger · 21/09/2025 23:22

To people who said her husband was hateful and what they preached was hateful, she just forgave the killer, as God would. Powerful speech.

The messed up young man who thought shooting man he didn't like was the answer, will go to prison and no longer be with his boyfriend. Erika Kirk no longer has her husband and her children have list their father.

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Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 09:20

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:05

Maybe it's just right wingers, then!

So what did I say that was aggressive?
Or are you just mud slinging?

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 09:19

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:17

Did you mean to quote me?

One example of what?

Yes because you claim no one on this thread has said that his views on gun ownership was hateful and you are wrong.

Going to apologise?

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 09:18

BerylSnow · 22/09/2025 20:54

But is quoted as saying gun deaths are worth it if it meant holding up the second amendment.

I'm not entirely certain if that qualifies as anti violence.

Edited

I'm not sure that bussing insurrectionists to the Capitol is anti-violence either.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 09:17

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:16

What steps could the Mayor take?

Get rid of guns? 😁

Yes. Unlicensed guns to be specific.

Stop and frisk is very effective. And I have said this is a great strategy, over and over again in this thread.

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:17

Australian gun stats for example. Long term trends.
1 in 100,000 people die from firearms per year, most of those are suicides. A few accidents. 1 in a million people die from firearm murder.
USA firearms are the leading cause of childhood death. Nowhere else has school shootings like the USA nor does anywhere else have the mass public shootings like the USA.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:17

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 09:14

HaveItOffTilICough · Yesterday 07:43

awkwardasfuck · Yesterday 07:37
What narrative is that then
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The one where, despite preaching hate, saying they’d force raped minors into giving birth and claiming it’s worth a few deaths to allow any Tom, Dick or Charlie to own a gun, they present themselves as loving and kind Christians.
And people will swallow it. Look at this thread.

Just ONE example.

Did you mean to quote me?

One example of what?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:16

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 09:15

Crime is already down in DC. I think it’s acceptable to let the national guard take over if the local government is unable or unwilling to take action. He’s threatened to do the same in Chicago. Let’s hope that gets the mayor to actually take steps to make the city safer.

(but considering it’s Brandon Johnson, probably not)

Edited

What steps could the Mayor take?

Get rid of guns? 😁

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 09:16

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:10

The right to BEAR arms

Did that make you feel better????

I'm dyslexic. So well done you!

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 09:15

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 09:09

You want the President to do something about crime? What part of pardoning insurrectionists, pardoning rich fraudsters, and crashing the economy while embezzelling a fortune for himself will achieve that?

Crime is already down in DC. I think it’s acceptable to let the national guard take over if the local government is unable or unwilling to take action. He’s threatened to do the same in Chicago. Let’s hope that gets the mayor to actually take steps to make the city safer.

(but considering it’s Brandon Johnson, probably not)

mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/09/2025 09:14

This is off topic but if I get shot to death and my husband just 'forgives the killer' after a week, I will COME BACK AND HAUNT THE BASTARD

Omg at least try to avenge my death for a little while 🙄🙄🙄

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 09:14

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:04

So you can't back up your claim? Hmmm...

Charlie Kirk did have hateful views. But I think people were probably referring to his anti gay, black and trans stances. I'm not sure any would claim a pro gun stance is hateful. A pro gun stance is seemingly stupid, though! You can quote me on that one.

The gun death question wasn't a gotcha. It's a logical conclusion to the debate. Well it is to anyone not blinded by their second amendment rights!

HaveItOffTilICough · Yesterday 07:43

awkwardasfuck · Yesterday 07:37
What narrative is that then
Show quote history
The one where, despite preaching hate, saying they’d force raped minors into giving birth and claiming it’s worth a few deaths to allow any Tom, Dick or Charlie to own a gun, they present themselves as loving and kind Christians.
And people will swallow it. Look at this thread.

Just ONE example.

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:13

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:08

It's not self evident at all.

As I said above, it's risk v benefit. What are the benefits of having guns? Genuine question. The risks are obvious.

Livestock need to be shot. Livestock predators need to be shot.
Sporting competitions.
A few people need them for their work (police, security guards, etc.)
Other than that, not much.

AzurePanda · 23/09/2025 09:12

@DdraigGoch how is Trump crashing the economy? You do know that Biden issued over 4,000 pardons, the vast majority relating to criminal convictions?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:12

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:10

The right to BEAR arms

She's referring to the American right to sunbathe. The lesser known 101st amendment.

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:10

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:46

No one is ever going to get rid of guns in the USA. If Sandy hook didn't change minds nothing will.

There is no point in asking what number of deaths are acceptable, the answer is clearly zero.

The right to bare arms is a mainstream position in the USA. Accusing one man of hate for holding a mainstream opinion on this is absurd.

The right to BEAR arms

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 09:09

RingoJuice · 22/09/2025 16:28

I’m not voting who has the best character. One of our best presidents (Clinton) had bad character and one of our worst (Carter) was a very good man.

I prefer someone who will be effective in the direction I want the country to go.

You want the President to do something about crime? What part of pardoning insurrectionists, pardoning rich fraudsters, and crashing the economy while embezzelling a fortune for himself will achieve that?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:08

AzurePanda · 23/09/2025 09:06

I’m very surprised that people have focused on Kirk’s statement that a certain number of gun deaths is an acceptable price to pay for gun ownership. That’s a completely self evident statement and applies to pretty much everything in society from all forms of transport, alcohol, cigarettes, various sporting pursuits and so on.

It's not self evident at all.

As I said above, it's risk v benefit. What are the benefits of having guns? Genuine question. The risks are obvious.

AzurePanda · 23/09/2025 09:06

I’m very surprised that people have focused on Kirk’s statement that a certain number of gun deaths is an acceptable price to pay for gun ownership. That’s a completely self evident statement and applies to pretty much everything in society from all forms of transport, alcohol, cigarettes, various sporting pursuits and so on.

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:06

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 04:33

@MeTooOverHereCan you provide examples/ quotes?

Sorry? Quotes about what? Convos about guns?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:05

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:58

I'm not American and in what way was I aggressive?

Maybe it's just right wingers, then!

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 09:04

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:58

No I'm not trawling back through hundreds of posts for you.

Are you denying that people on this thread have expressed that they found Charlie Kirks views hateful because that's as absurd as asking how many gun deaths are acceptable over and over again as though it is some kind of gotcha?

Edited

So you can't back up your claim? Hmmm...

Charlie Kirk did have hateful views. But I think people were probably referring to his anti gay, black and trans stances. I'm not sure any would claim a pro gun stance is hateful. A pro gun stance is seemingly stupid, though! You can quote me on that one.

The gun death question wasn't a gotcha. It's a logical conclusion to the debate. Well it is to anyone not blinded by their second amendment rights!

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 09:03

@5128gapMy perspective is that he answered her but thought it was a bit of a waste if a question (I agree) - I mean compare it to the first question asked by the young lady in the Oxford debate which was thoughtful and well put together. It’s a very strong feeling to have about a person based on their tone and stance. If you can’t provide a credible justification for your arguments such as quotes and detailed discussion it does unfortunately make it difficult to have a meaningful debate with you.

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:58

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:56

You right wing Americans are quite aggressive!

But, yes, I see the point. And I'm not really close enough to the data to see the impact of Dem policies. Or even what the policies are.

Obviously, like everything, there will be nuance with the crime stats in these cities.

I'm not American and in what way was I aggressive?

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 08:58

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:54

Can you quote the post?

No I'm not trawling back through hundreds of posts for you.

Are you denying that people on this thread have expressed that they found Charlie Kirks views hateful because that's as absurd as asking how many gun deaths are acceptable over and over again as though it is some kind of gotcha?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 08:56

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:50

The poster claimed there was some agenda from the current office towards dem cities because they voted dem as if armed guards were going in for no other reason than they voted dem ignoring the absolute shitshow the dems have made of their cities with their policies. Clear enough for you now?

You right wing Americans are quite aggressive!

But, yes, I see the point. And I'm not really close enough to the data to see the impact of Dem policies. Or even what the policies are.

Obviously, like everything, there will be nuance with the crime stats in these cities.