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Anyone trying not to have heating on

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TheOpalFox · 21/09/2025 20:21

Anyone else tried to not have heating on? Even tho your cold? It’s 8 degrees and I’m cold but can’t afford to have heating on all the time :( what a way to live!!!

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NoWordForFluffy · 22/09/2025 18:30

ManteesRock · 22/09/2025 18:23

Heating on in September when the temperature is still in double figures?? Why??

Because the house is cold? It was 1° here this morning. If we'd been in our old house (Victorian semi) we'd have definitely had the heating on today. However, we're now in a new build, so the temp is fine, even with the window vents open.

WhereAreMyAirpods · 22/09/2025 18:29

cardibach · 22/09/2025 12:14

In many posters’ case it does, because their post isn’t just that statement. It includes clearly judgemental language about being ‘far’ too hot in other people’s houses and people ‘swanning about’ in inappropriate clothing. I’ve no idea why those posters care, but they do.

Also posts about how heating is "vile" and how anything over 13c is unbearable.

EverythingElseIsTaken · 22/09/2025 18:27

Teddybear23 · 22/09/2025 18:17

Just had an update from my energy provider. The standing charge for both gas and electricity has gone up by £7 PER DAY!! £210 a month before I even turn anything on!😡😡 Robbing bar stewards.

Are you sure? My standing charge has just gone up to 80.5p per day. That’s a (roughly) 8p per day increase. Add on the rate change and my provider reckons I’ll pay about £30 more for electricity and £12.85 for gas per year (based on last years usage).

Horsie · 22/09/2025 18:25

Waiting until November is really spartan, in my book!

MauveExpert · 22/09/2025 18:24

I had to put ours on low as it was just too cold! We are in Scotland in a fairly large, ground floor flat which does get cold. All electric so our heating bill can go up to £400 in dec and jan ! I can’t bear to be cold though

Packetofcrispsplease · 22/09/2025 18:23

I’ve had heating on once for an hour as inside our house was only 16.5c and I wasn’t feeling well .
Then we had some sun for a few days so I haven’t needed to have it on yet .
We are now away from home in an old cottage far North , heating seems to be pre set and it’s coming on and off depending on indoor temperature.
It is cold though at nights here .

ManteesRock · 22/09/2025 18:23

Heating on in September when the temperature is still in double figures?? Why??

OddBalling · 22/09/2025 18:23

No heating on here yet either, it's currently 14 degrees (6:30pm) but trying to wait until October before it goes on. We're having a wood fire stove installed next month which I hope will keep the ground floor warm, and my son's room, which the chimney breast goes through. We have an electric heater in the living room but haven't needed to use it yet. I have been using a blanket upstairs though in the evenings when I'm reading on top of the bed covers.

It's a sad existence but having the heating on bare minimum as it is costs a small fortune 🥶

gandeysflipflop · 22/09/2025 18:20

Teddybear23 · 22/09/2025 18:17

Just had an update from my energy provider. The standing charge for both gas and electricity has gone up by £7 PER DAY!! £210 a month before I even turn anything on!😡😡 Robbing bar stewards.

that cannot be right surely?

Wrenjay · 22/09/2025 18:20

We are in our late 70s/early 80s and are in credit on our fuel. Consequently we have the heating on when we feel chilly. Both of us have been cold as children and when we were first married, but regard warmth as a necessity now in older age.

Redragtoabull · 22/09/2025 18:19

In our house, if you're cold, stop walking around in battyriders and crop tops, get some proper clothes on, start with a T and some light pj bottoms and as it gets colder migrate to jumpers, socks, a blanket as the heating only I pay for goes on in November, as late in November as possible, no wriggle room for a warm room here, and I earn well, it's not a stingy thing, it's not having heating as a kid, getting warm by the hob as there was no money for a cozy pj set for £10 from Shein

gandeysflipflop · 22/09/2025 18:19

Catsknowbest · 21/09/2025 20:40

Always makes me 🙄 this. Our seasons are up the creek yet people still insist on this no heating until....as if its 30 years ago.

I think people are reluctant to put their heating on mainly due to the cost. Thats the reason im holding out as long as possible anyway, as its just too expensive. im dreading my winter fuel bill this year. Its such a shame that having a warm home has become such a luxury in the UK.

EverythingElseIsTaken · 22/09/2025 18:18

My heating system is never turned ‘off’ it is on a timer and thermostat system. The first I know of the heating coming ‘on’ will be one morning when I go into the bathroom and feel some heat in the radiator. Heating is timed to come on at 0530 if the temperature is below 17 degrees. The house thermostat says it is currently 20 degrees in the house and my outdoor thermometer shows 16.5 degrees.

Teddybear23 · 22/09/2025 18:17

Just had an update from my energy provider. The standing charge for both gas and electricity has gone up by £7 PER DAY!! £210 a month before I even turn anything on!😡😡 Robbing bar stewards.

staringatthesun · 22/09/2025 18:13

I haven't found it cold enough for the heating to be on yet. We have lots of cosy blankets for the sofa for when it starts getting cooler in the evenings.

MD86 · 22/09/2025 18:13

Had the woodburner lit for the last three evenings. Temperature dropped from 32°C to 17°C at the weekend. And it's raining

Strawberrypicnic · 22/09/2025 18:13

I can just feel the nasty nip in the air in all the houses of the competitive no heating people

MiddleAgedDread · 22/09/2025 18:13

It was 13.6 degrees in my living room this morning, the heating went on for an hour and I've been wfh with the heated blanket over me.

Newmeagain · 22/09/2025 18:12

Symposium123 · 22/09/2025 18:10

Not sure where you are, OP, but it’s very warm in England. We had the air con on over the weekend.

Air conditioning? Seriously? I am in London and it’s been sunny but also quite chilly. Max of 15 degrees yesterday.

Starlight7080 · 22/09/2025 18:12

Not the heating but I have got in and put my fire on . Its super cosy . Quite chilly here today

Symposium123 · 22/09/2025 18:10

Not sure where you are, OP, but it’s very warm in England. We had the air con on over the weekend.

Granof5 · 22/09/2025 18:09

Yes I put the heating on today it’s currently 10° here

DoubleShotEspresso · 22/09/2025 18:04

It’s been chilly where we are today. Caved and put heating on for half an hour mid morning as homeschooling here…
By mid afternoon it was glorious outside, much less chilly. We have fluffy blankets rolled up in storage baskets by sofas and are very much “autumn ready”, extra layers and our tumble drier helps warm tbings up a but, but our house is very old with high ceilings, so we really feel season changes.
Haven’t used it yet, but also have a little oil filled radiator that we move about the house as needed.

catlover123456789 · 22/09/2025 18:04

Heated blankets are also an awesome way to keep warm if you don't want to heat the whole house. I live under them in winter.

paddlinglikecrazy · 22/09/2025 18:03

Caved this morning & stuck it on timer for couple of hours am & pm if temp dips below 19 in the house. It came on this morning but the house warmed up and won’t come on tonight.
we never need the heating on upstairs though, always warm enough for sleeping year round.