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To think I'm out the other side already?

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themimi · 21/09/2025 17:59

I am early 40s. Haven't had a period in about a year (defo not up the duff 🤣). Could it be that I have gone through the menopause and it just hasn't massively affected me? Or is that too good to be true?

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TheChosenTwo · 21/09/2025 22:12

Happened to my sil, literally sailed through it without even realising what was actually happening to her.

cygnusgenie · 21/09/2025 22:12

Broadly this happened to me. Looking back I see I had irregular periods and rage, but was oblivious to this being peri menopause as it was 20 years ago, and there was much less information on menopause then. But I had no real hot flushes or other symptoms.

Owly11 · 21/09/2025 18:02

See your GP. It would be an early menopause and that can be problematic in its own right. The GP can do blood test to check your hormone levels.

Blarn · 21/09/2025 18:01

Have you been to the GP? Would the osteoporosis risk dlfrom menopause at 40 be something to be wary about?