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Modesty in young girls’ fashion?

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Mel15sa · 21/09/2025 17:06

I’m honestly quite shocked at what I keep seeing lately. So many young girls from those walking with their mums to groups of older teens wearing these high-waisted, skin-tight gym shorts that are basically leggings chopped off mid-thigh. They leave nothing to the imagination.

When I was that age, yes, we wanted to look fashionable too. We wore jean shorts, maybe a crop top on a hot day, but there were still some boundaries. Now it feels like modesty has completely gone out the window.

I can’t help but think: is this really just “fashion”? Or are girls dressing like this for attention, because it certainly draws the eye? It makes me sad that such young girls feel they have to put their bodies on display like this.

I know people will say “times change” but is this really a change for the better?
Are we doing girls any favours by normalising clothes that show off absolutely everything?

For context, I’m not bitter or jealous. I get compliments, and I could wear the same if I wanted to. But I choose not to, because I believe in dressing modestly. Even in the gym, I don’t dress in skin tight clothing. What worries me is seeing younger and younger girls thinking this sort of exposure is the norm.

What on earth has happened to modesty? Am I the only one concerned about this?

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mamagogo1 · 21/09/2025 17:15

They are fine, not revealing anything, around here they are shorter than that, as bum cheek revealing. Nike pros I think

LeonMccogh · 21/09/2025 17:15

I think those shorts might be the wrong choice of image to try and make your point. They look fine to me.

SusiQ18472638 · 21/09/2025 17:13

I agree to an extent, as I don’t let my young teen daughter wear things I would consider too old for her in that way, and I hate this trend of rolling up school skirts so short that their bum cheeks literally show. I don’t actually see anything wrong with those shorts though!

AffableApple · 21/09/2025 17:13

YABU. I'm guessing you judge people who wear appropriately "skin tight clothing", or, ya know, gym clothes at the gym too.

There's nothing wrong with the shorts pictured, so to me your argument is lost.