Never having sex again

To me its all about the right partner. Its taken me until I met my now husband 8 years ago to find the right one. I've never been uninterested in sex but definitely put off by incompatible partners. My first marriage was 20 years and was a sexual desert after the first couple of years. I'm now 50 and my husband is 62 and we have an incredible time..I think there are a lot of factors involved its not a simple issue.

That strikes me a similar to men telling gay women they just need a good seeing to!

I’m 43 and have no plans to stop any time soon! My husband has a vasectomy last year so that’s made things even more fun not having to worry about unwanted pregnancy etc.

Ive never been in to sex and if i never have it again it wlont bother me.
Ive been single 12 years.

I completely lost my sex drive around the menopause but, now that’s past, I’m still very much enjoying it and I’m 56.

I hope I never reach this point! I don’t want to imagine a life without it.

What do you mean "what age were you? That presupposes that everyone gets to a point where they feel like that, some do, some don't. I am 62 and have sex regularly. Hopefully to continue doing so. No judgement on people who feel differently.

My brother asked me if I was seeing anyone recently. I am not the type for hook-ups but my marriage ended two years ago and to be honest, after all the terrible things that went on within it, I have put the walls up somewhat. Also, perimenopause (possibly menopause, I’m waiting to see what surprises my body gets up to next). I do want a partner, but at the same time, not. Any man who likes me is going to have to be bloody special for me to let him be intimate with me, put it that way.

I'm over 60 and I get recurrent UTIs. I get a UTI if I even think about having sex, so it looks like that's it for this lifetime. To be honest, I'm not really sad. I liked it ok when I was younger but I don't miss it now. My current partner isn't particularly interested either, it all falls a bit by the wayside as one ages - sad but true. Have loads of sex when you're younger would be my advice.

Mid 40s.

Was different before as I knew I wanted to be a mum.

Now I'd quite happily sew it shut. I've found my peace.

It certainly wouldn't be top of my list to find another partner if my husband wasn't in the picture anymore and I'd be very happy in life without a romantic partner. I'm not sure I've ever felt that drive to pursue men in that way though. I never had that many boyfriends and have always been very happy pursuing my own interests and life.

I do however really enjoy sex (im 33) still find people attractive so currently I'd be interested in keeping that part of my life going buts it not all consuming.
Realistically I don't meet many men I'd be remotely interested in. I'd be more likely to try to pursue women. I really value my time and so many men would be an absolute waste of time to me. I certainly find older women more attractive than older men. Does seem to be a trend that men don't look after themselves.

My sex drive is through the roof since I turned 40! I think about it and want it constantly, its quite an affliction!

I think you haven’t found the right partner. I’m 55 and never want to stop.

I’m 47, nearly 48 and haven’t had sex in about 6 years despite living with someone!
tbh now it’s been this long I can think of nothing worse and on reflection, I don’t think I like sex very much but that’s probably due to the crappy sex I’ve had as I do very much enjoy other stuff and am very much attracted to men still.

I get what you’re saying though as I sort of have an acceptance that this is my life and there’s no pressure on me whatsoever. I love romance and stuff and am fiercely independent but dont “need” a man for anything.

33. My sex drive has been dead in the water for years.

I honestly hope I never get to this point! I'm heading towards late 40s. It's still a big important part of my life. Romance, intimacy, cuddling, sex...it adds a lot to my life.

Do you think you may be asexual OP or are you just choosing celibacy?