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Rejected from Scottish nursery - please help!

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PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 11:47

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My DD has just been rejected from our local nursery (literally a 2 minute walk from home) due to capacity. I called to ask about alternatives and was told the 2 other nurseries in our village are also full. The only option the could offer was a nursery 10 miles away.

I’m really upset and worried about this. It’s not at all practical for us to be driving 10 miles each way before work every morning, and I’m also anxious that if she can’t get into a local nursery now, she may struggle to get into the local primary when the time comes.

Has anyone been in this situation? What did you do? Is there anything I can do to challenge this and push for a place locally?

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PartyRingaRosie · 22/09/2025 16:49

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HerNeighbourTotoro · 22/09/2025 16:38

PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 12:12

Sorry, I feel I maybe only gave half the story in my OP.

In Scotland, children are entitled to 30 hours free childcare after they turn 3. My DD turns 3 in October, but the government recently cut the October intake, so she now has to wait until the January 2026 intake to receive her space and funding. We followed the process of applying to 3 places (2 LA, 1 private) during the application period and have been rejected from all 3.

What has really gotten my back up is that a new builder moved in locally with the promise of a new school and nursery. They’ve now pulled that plan, and all the children that have moved in are now zoned to the school my DD will go to. I’m not saying my DD should have priority, but surely the government has to provide enough places for all local residents?

They are entitled to 30 hours just like kids anywhere in England, but that does not mean you are guaranteed a place in a nursery of your choice.. I think you need to read up about it as you come a bit uninformed and entitled.

Mumstheword1983 · 22/09/2025 12:31

FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 06:38

I find this all fascinating.

So does Scotland not have maximum numbers for the first year of school?

If it does, what happens when there is one or four extra children? Do they go over numbers or employ a new teacher .

What happens in older years?

Employ a new teacher. Our small village school changes staffing each year dependent on the intake numbers. If an extra classroom and teacher is required it's arranged. Some years we have 4 classes and some years it's 5 (composite classes).

CecilyP · 22/09/2025 10:19

Hedgehog23 · 21/09/2025 18:42

i’m in Scotland. My kids only went to private nursery. But the local authority nurseries around me (city), don’t have catchments like schools do. They also prioritise on age so I think some children don’t get a place until the year before they start school, primary schools are catchment based and if you apply by the deadline you are supposed to get a place at your catchment school.

Yes, that would seem obvious as the nurseries have a staggard entry point whereas the schools have a fixed entry point. The existing nursery classes have children who turned 3 from January 2024 to August 2025. The oldest cohort will start school next August 2026 so there should be places then. The only thing OP can do is remain on the waiting lists in the hope that there may be a child who drops out for another reason.

Needspaceforlego · 22/09/2025 09:08

The whole school catchment thing is complicated further by a juggle of 'placing requests' families who want a different school to their catchment school.

But I agree 10miles can be 30-40 minute journey.

It takes me 20 minutes to go 6 miles and thats not even volume of traffic, or allowing for rural traffic thats just driving through one small town.

MotherOfShihTzus · 22/09/2025 08:52

Can you try for a nursery close to yours / your partners work instead?

FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 08:42

Thanks @WhereAreMyAirpods @Needspaceforlego really interesting.

WhereAreMyAirpods · 22/09/2025 08:23

Also on the 10 miles isn't that far - comparing apples and oranges. Many parts of the US with their big wide, straight roads where you can cover 10 miles in 10 minutes. Many parts of Scotland with narrow, winding roads where you get stuck behind a tractor, or a flock of sheep, or is single track with passing places, or crowded with tourists bimbling along looking at the scenery, or has multiple junctions with traffic lights. 10 miles could easily take you three times that.

Needspaceforlego · 22/09/2025 08:11

FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 06:38

I find this all fascinating.

So does Scotland not have maximum numbers for the first year of school?

If it does, what happens when there is one or four extra children? Do they go over numbers or employ a new teacher .

What happens in older years?

LA generally won't go over the legal max unless its exceptional circumstances. I know exceptions can be made for military children moving mid year and some other categories.

However a P1 class is max 25, P2 & P3 is max 30, P4-P7 is max 33.
A composite of 2 years so say a P1/P2 or P5/6 is max 25
A composite of 3 or more years is 19.
Going by another thread England and Wales don't have reduced limits for composite classes.

LA will make the numbers work for those classes, using composite classes where they need to.
The LA will tell the school what their classes sizes / year groups are then the school decide whos going in what class.

If the LA can't get a child into a school but have space in another they might put transport on for them but thats pretty rare. And that's usually a child whos moved mid year.

FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 08:08

@LakotaWolf as @HauntedHero says, completely different (although I imagine US cities are the same? Maybe not)

I'm currently working in Southampton, this is two random points on a map near where I'm staying. 19 minutes for 3 miles (my guess at distance was rubbish 😂 I was aiming for 10miles)

Rejected from Scottish nursery - please help!
WhereAreMyAirpods · 22/09/2025 08:00

FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 06:38

I find this all fascinating.

So does Scotland not have maximum numbers for the first year of school?

If it does, what happens when there is one or four extra children? Do they go over numbers or employ a new teacher .

What happens in older years?

They have maximum recommended numbers yes but those can be breached. It doesn't mean you have a P1 class of 40 though. Local councils have a rough idea of how many children they are expecting in the intake because they know how many children were born in the area, how many are in pre-school, how many are registered with the local GP etc.

Parents go in January to the local school to register their child to start the following August. If there has been a miscalculation then a few things happen. First, the school will refuse all placing requests which are applications from parents to go to a school which isn't their catchment school to make sure all catchment children get a place. Then they will look at shuffling numbers in the rest of the school - making composite classes etc. Then if they are still struggling for space or teachers, a temporary classroom goes in the playground and they recruit another teacher.

In many areas though this is not an issue as schools were built at a time where birth rates were higher and there is space in school buildings.

If you move into an area after that January before your child starts school, the local authority does not have to find you a space in your catchment school if it is full. They will put your child in the nearest school with space within that local authority and arrange transport if it is more than 3 miles. Then you're on a waiting list for a place. In practice, it all works fairly well and on the rare occasion that a child can't get into a catchment school it's in the newspapers because it's so unusual. We also don't have the complicating factor of schools operating outwith the local authority system other than private schools. There are some schools called "Academy" but they are not academies in the way that English people would understand the term.

HauntedHero · 22/09/2025 07:41

LakotaWolf · 22/09/2025 01:40

I live across the pond - in the US - so to me it’s completely baffling that OP says a 10-mile drive to another nursery is “not at all practical”. Is driving 10 miles somehow drastically different in Scotland than it is in the US? Could OP/their DP not simply leave earlier in the morning so as to have time to drop off DD at the nursery 10 miles away?

At certain times of day, a 10 mile drive would take me over an hour.

Driving in the UK is generally not at all comparable to the US, and that's before even thinking about the cost of it. I've lived in the Midwest, 10 miles is practically a neighbour but it doesn't translate this side of the pond at all.

mamagogo1 · 22/09/2025 07:29

@TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne

my niece’s nearest school is 8 miles away, if they wanted her to go to nursery it was drive or don’t go! Now at school and there’s a school bus to take them but not for preschool. Takes around 10 minutes unless very cold and you need to defrost the car

Sleeposaurus · 22/09/2025 07:22

If it ismyour catchment school you will get a place for school. Nursery don't have catchments like the school, anyone can apply to any nursery. Also in some areas siblings of children in the school have a higher priority than other children. So siblings first, then others by birth date.

The school may also have a smaller nursery than P1. So our school has 40 nursery places vs about 100 P1s. Because siblings take priority (plus a few other narrow categories like looked after children) then a child without an older sibling in school.is very unlikely to get a nursery place in school, but will get a place in their catchment P1.

It is frustrating. Made worse by the intease to 30 hours from 15, as now instead of 80 places in nursery (morning and afternoon) there are only 40 (though much better if you actually want to use the school nursery and work).

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FightingInAVatOfJellyBabies · 22/09/2025 06:38

I find this all fascinating.

So does Scotland not have maximum numbers for the first year of school?

If it does, what happens when there is one or four extra children? Do they go over numbers or employ a new teacher .

What happens in older years?

Tiredofwhataboutery · 22/09/2025 05:28

LakotaWolf · 22/09/2025 01:40

I live across the pond - in the US - so to me it’s completely baffling that OP says a 10-mile drive to another nursery is “not at all practical”. Is driving 10 miles somehow drastically different in Scotland than it is in the US? Could OP/their DP not simply leave earlier in the morning so as to have time to drop off DD at the nursery 10 miles away?

I think it depends where you live in Scotland. I’m relatively rural and everything is a minimum 10 mile drive. Town traffic can be brutal it takes me about 25 minutes to drive the 20 miles to nearest city then about 20 minutes to do the last mile or so due to traffic. It’d be massively inconvenient to go ten miles in wrong direction for work every day.

Barnbrack · 22/09/2025 05:00

HereLiesBetelgeuse · 21/09/2025 18:20

IME i've heard of a few kids not getting their place for the ante pre school year at the catchment nursery but when it comes to the pre school year they've been offered the catchment school.

Your child will get catchment primary.

I don't know why folk are still answering with comments of poor planning etc when the system doesn't work like that in Scotland at all. There are set dates when you can apply for things here, its not poor planning and folk seem to be giving you a kicking for no reason.

The system in Scotland for nurseries and schools is completely different and I think the school/ LA just expect you to know all the rules!

Might be worth emailing the nursery contact at the LA and clarifying the intake process for the pre school nursery year. Their details should be on your LA website.

You might get more relevant relies on Scotsnet

I live in Scotland and the system does work like that, yes you apply for council nurseries at set time but you have a private nursery as back up way in advance

Bobiverse · 22/09/2025 02:16

LakotaWolf · 22/09/2025 01:40

I live across the pond - in the US - so to me it’s completely baffling that OP says a 10-mile drive to another nursery is “not at all practical”. Is driving 10 miles somehow drastically different in Scotland than it is in the US? Could OP/their DP not simply leave earlier in the morning so as to have time to drop off DD at the nursery 10 miles away?

You have a very different culture. We wouldn’t, as standard, pick a nursery with that sort of distance in the way. It’s just not how it is here.

In Scotland, 10 miles away could be several towns away from your own. It’s just not really normal.

We do drive less than you do in the US generally though.

LakotaWolf · 22/09/2025 01:40

I live across the pond - in the US - so to me it’s completely baffling that OP says a 10-mile drive to another nursery is “not at all practical”. Is driving 10 miles somehow drastically different in Scotland than it is in the US? Could OP/their DP not simply leave earlier in the morning so as to have time to drop off DD at the nursery 10 miles away?

Needspaceforlego · 22/09/2025 00:14

Different councils work differently even within Scotland.
Not all councils give a choice in the hours they offer, some will only offer the 4hrs a day, either morning or afternoon.
Partly because they don't have enough space to accommodate kids all day. And the 4hrs is effective for staffing 8-12 then 1-6.

I definitely have heard someone having a rant about only being able to get afternoon sessions and them not ending until 6pm. It being a PITA dragging a young school child out at 6pm to collect the younger sibling from nursery. And then having to get them both dinner and bed then up for the morning school run, it was a single parent without a car.

TeaCupTornado · 21/09/2025 23:58

Barrenfieldoffucks · 20/09/2025 11:53

It may well be very different in Scotland, but surely nurseries are private businesses (even if attached to a school) and as such have numbers and don't need to exceed them? How would you push them? It isn't like school where they can massage ratios if they want to, they are restricted by numbers per adult.

Most nurseries have waiting lists for this reason, how far in advance have you started getting organised?

10 miles isn't far either, I'd just get on with it.

In Scotland not all nurseries are private businesses no.

There's council run nurseries that you are catchmented for just like schools.

Also someone was saying registering years in advance, again not possible with council, you apply around 3rd birthday for a place and they generally start 3.5years old and do 1 or 2 years, so go to school 4.5 or 5.5 if deferred.

Quite a lot of newer schools have nursery attached in the same building now too. So there might be "Leafy park campus" with a door for leafy park primary school and a door for leafy park early learning and childcare centre but it's council owned and run.

Some of them are open the school year and others 52 weeks so you can take the hours either 6hr per day or 4hrs over 52 weeks.

Its very hard to get places now in some areas and it's a points system. I think 1st is looked after kids, then health issues, then single parents and then last address proximity. I'm pretty sure kids of non-english speakers get put ahead too so they can have a bit of English for starting school.

I've known people who've had to travel even though they live a short walk away and so have to travel by car for a 10 minute drive, which isn't helpful for school as then kids don't have friends from nursery to start school with, when others do.

Ladydish · 21/09/2025 20:52

PartyRingaRosie · 21/09/2025 10:26

I can see why my first post read as if I only started thinking about nursery at 3, but that’s not the case. I looked into it when I was pregnant, but we decided against private nursery. Then I checked out LA nurseries and saw you can only apply via the council and once your child is nearly 3. Because they’re attached to primaries, I assumed (wrongly) that it worked the same way as school places and would be based on catchment.

The only other option would’ve been to sign DD up to a private nursery years before we actually needed it, pay eye watering fees for childcare we didn’t need, just to hold a space for when the ELC funding started. Maybe that’s “how it works”, but honestly I don’t think it should be.

Saying LAs can’t predict demand doesn’t wash with me. Every job/sector has fluctuating demand but planning still happens. The reality is there aren’t enough places, so loads of parents (usually women) end up cutting back or quitting work. If we had proper, affordable ELC in place, more parents could stay in work. Look at the Nordics, huge uptake from age 1 because it’s well funded and accessible. Here, the costs are sky high and access is patchy, so the cycle continues.

And judging by replies here, the “choice” for a lot of families seems to be either run yourself into the ground financially/physically to hang onto your job, or step out of the workforce to look after your child. That’s exactly what ELC is meant to prevent, which is why I think it’s completely fair to expect LAs to make it more accessible.

We absolutely should be challenging this or nothing will improve. It’s no wonder the birth rate is declining.

Private nurseries in Scotland still honour the free hours. Your LA will pay them. Our (Scottish) town has a mix of LA and private nurseries. Most of the LA ones are attached to schools which makes them popular due to continuity of care & sibling drop offs. Private ones are still free to use through the funded hours though.

You are entitled to the free hours but not at any particular nursery. There is nothing to challenge, you can still have the hours at a nursery which has a place.

pollymere · 21/09/2025 20:33

It's not helpful but I put mine down for a nursery place when they were a year old. I would go on the waiting list and hope a place becomes available.

WhereAreMyAirpods · 21/09/2025 20:32

None of the gov.uk links are relevant to Scotland where education/Early Years is devolved and managed by the Local Authorities and the Scottish government.

As others have said, the lack of nursery place will have no bearing on school places.

We live in East Dunbartonshire. Many of my friends have children at nurseries or other childcare settings in other local authority areas because it's nearer grandparents, or nearer work, or for a myriad of other reasons. And similarly, one nursery near here is filled with children of parents who work in the science park offices but who come from all over west central Scotland.

You have misunderstood what you are entitled to, which is funding, not a place. Depending on setting, it is worth asking whether they have any part time places. This used to be super common, children who go monday-wednesday or whatever as parents don't work Thursday or Friday. So they would be more than happy to have your child in on those two days to fill the space.