Friend of 30 years.
She has repeatedly given me a list of her expectations from me - is always telling me what she thinks friendship should be. Has recently told me that I have not been sufficiently excited about her new house to meet her expectations.
Thing is - amongst her constantly telling me how I am not meeting her friend expectations, she’s been a terrible friend to me. Constantly critical of my life, my parenting, the things I do.
I am being ghosted at the moment for something - not quite sure yet as she hasn’t informed me what I have done wrong yet.
Aibu to have absolutely had a fucking gutful? I really have- I think I am a bit of a people pleaser but menopause has taken that a way- a lot.
She just makes me feel shit about myself and like I am waiting for the next list of things that haven’t met her expectations.