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AIBU for taking being dumped like a champ?

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Cantgetausername87 · 19/09/2025 20:48

Posted here for traffic and maybe to get some support/ have a laugh and a bit of a chat.
Been seeing this guy for 6months ... seemed to be going well and then he hit me with "I'm just not emotionally invested anymore." It was a weekend thing but I was actually quite happy.
All I said back was OK you've made your mind up and it was nice to meet you, see you around!
Pretty gutted to be honest. AIBU to front it the fuck out, and avoid blocking him to just have an air of indifference, so as to not inflate his ego.
Seeing as it's literally outta the blue I can only imagine he's seeing someone else.
Wise mumsnetters what to do?!

OP posts:
KilkennyCats · 19/09/2025 20:53

What to do?
Just move on, what else would you do?!

SlashBeef · 19/09/2025 20:51

Yanbu I think it's perfect. Im sorry you're feeling crappy but it'll feel great when you're past this yucky bit and you know you didn't kick off or grovel or any of that stuff. Dignity fully intact. Onwards and upwards.