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Think it's odd I've been left out ??

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PeacheyPeach · 19/09/2025 17:27

Have been good friends for about 8 years with someone who is getting married this year. They are having a destination wedding which I'm not attending but it is only family going
Looking through my Instagram this week and noticed she has had a hen weekend with a large group this was the first id heard about it!
There was a few people there that I know she doesn't even like and has had nothing but bad things to say about them!!
Sort of can't believe I've not been invited, especially when I have been there for her a lot over the years and thought we had a nice friendship!
AIBU ? Has anyone else been in this situation?

OP posts:
Squiggles23 · 19/09/2025 17:37

Sorry OP - can imagine that hurt,

Are you a similar age to her friends?
Was it a night out and if so is there any previous issues she might have thought of? E.g causing a scene!
Anyone else in the group not like you?
Could they all be local people and you further out?

Are you going to ask about it? Tricky one.

abouttimetoo123 · 19/09/2025 17:36

When someone shows you who they are, listen. And remember, if someone is talking about others to you, they’ll be talking about you to others.

Take this as a lesson learned and step back from the friendship xx

Jeska7 · 19/09/2025 17:33

Has someone organised it on her behalf?

SpongeKnobNoPants · 19/09/2025 17:30

It is odd

Any disagreements? Difference of opinions? A long time between seeing each other? Long distance between the two of you?

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