Husbands chastity cage

Something is going on. Any chance he could have bought it a while ago thinking he could use it with you? Any other signs of cheating? Could be some weird type of masturbation aid like a turn on for him or something. Weird AF though I think you should just ask him!!

Lock away your best clothes, undies & makeup if he's getting into sissy porn.

I have googled them. How do they stay on?

Same this made me LOL 😂

I might be very naive but what’s it for? Doesn’t sound very sexy to lock it all away, surely the idea would be getting it all out??

Well this thread has been an educational experience for me, I must admit.

OP, I’d remove it, photograph it, and get rid of it. If he says anything I’d say that nothing like that should be in a house with DC. I’d definitely do something at least to make sure he knows I’ve seen it.

@didntlikeanyofthesuggestions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ZOMBIE THREAD.

Oh good Lord! It seems that I will never cease to be demoralised and disgusted in equal measure by porn addled men trying to find new ways to pleasure themselves.

The current libertarian trend of absolute permissiveness to all things sexual just depresses me, we live in a society where we have now pathologised and denigrated so much of what is normal human behaviour and normalised so much of what was once considered paraphilia it is having a terribly detrimental effect on our collective morality, creativity and productivity.

It makes me think human beings have way too much time on their hands and have little desire to accomplish anything outside their own self gratification. Just because you can really doesn't mean you should. The only consolation I have is that from reading MN I feel that there are less women clambering over themselves to indulge this than popular culture would have you believe.

How did this end????

Wrap it in Xmas paper and put it under the tree for him.

I laughed out loud too. 😂

Hey, BSPL, I really felt for you, hence my longish reply. Just wondering how things worked out?

Whoops! Apologies for double post.

Hey, BeShy
Sorry to arrive rather late to this discussion. I have a keen interest in men's kinks and fetishes and my research has been both academic and "practical".
I haven't read every single post in this thread so apologies if I repeat things that have already been said.

Firstly, discovering that a man owns a chastity cage indicates that he has an interest in having his penis locked up so that he can't get an erection. This isn't as daft as it sounds- a sort of low key arousal that goes on for hours or days is allegedly better than a few seconds of pleasure followed by the male post orgasm "low".

It does not indicate that he is gay, submissive, strange, perverted, or anything else. It absolutely does not make him a man to be scared of (unless you are scared of him for other reasons).

Additionally, it does not automatically indicate that he is in another relationship. Many men carry a fantasy about being locked and controlled, but they enjoy the fantasy by self locking. The reality would be way too scary for them.
If you want to start a discussion without being found guilty of snooping in his wardrobe, your best bet is probably to discover the cage when he is wearing it. If you have the patience, check whether it is present in his wardrobe. If it is not there, he is probably wearing it. You are then in a position to discover it by accident, brushing against him, or commenting on the unusual bulge in his pants.

You then have a number of options depending on which way the discussion goes. If he is seeing another woman, or indeed paying a dominatrix to hold the key for him, you have said that those might well be dealbreakers in your marriage. If he is self locking, that might still be a dealbreaker, but on the other hand, you might be inclined to discuss and explore together. You might ask him how he would feel about you holding the key (and the spare keys- they always have a spare or two).

Being a keyholder is huge fun if the person locked is a man that you love, or at least fancy. For a man that you don't love or fancy, the appeal is less, but there are still advantages to being his keyholder. Firstly, it prevents anyone else from being his keyholder. Secondly, you will discover the most amazing change in his attitude towards you which will invariably be positive.
Good luck, and try to have fun with this, whatever the eventual outcome for your marriage. Tell us how it goes.

Alex :-)

Hey, BeShy

Sorry to arrive rather late to this discussion. I have a keen interest in men's kinks and fetishes and my research has been both academic and "practical".

I haven't read every single post in this thread so apologies if I repeat things that have already been said.

Firstly, discovering that a man owns a chastity cage indicates that he has an interest in having his penis locked up so that he can't get an erection. This isn't as daft as it sounds- a sort of low key arousal that goes on for hours or days is allegedly better than a few seconds of pleasure followed by the male post orgasm "low".

It does not indicate that he is gay, submissive, strange, perverted, or anything else. It absolutely does not make him a man to be scared of (unless you are scared of him for other reasons).

Additionally, it does not automatically indicate that he is in another relationship. Many men carry a fantasy about being locked and controlled, but they enjoy the fantasy by self locking. The reality would be way too scary for them.

If you want to start a discussion without being found guilty of snooping in his wardrobe, your best bet is probably to discover the cage when he is wearing it. If you have the patience, check whether it is present in his wardrobe. If it is not there, he is probably wearing it. You are then in a position to discover it by accident, brushing against him, or commenting on the unusual bulge in his pants.

You then have a number of options depending on which way the discussion goes. If he is seeing another woman, or indeed paying a dominatrix to hold the key for him, you have said that those might well be dealbreakers in your marriage. If he is self locking, that might still be a dealbreaker, but on the other hand, you might be inclined to discuss and explore together. You might ask him how he would feel about you holding the key (and the spare keys- they always have a spare or two).

Being a keyholder is huge fun if the person locked is a man that you love, or at least fancy. For a man that you don't love or fancy, the appeal is less, but there are still advantages to being his keyholder. Firstly, it prevents anyone else from being his keyholder. Secondly, you will discover the most amazing change in his attitude towards you which will invariably be positive.

Good luck, and try to have fun with this, whatever the eventual outcome for your marriage. Tell us how it goes.

Alex :-)

Do you find female sex toys to be similarly bizarre or shocking or what have you?

I had no clue what a fleshlight was. Now I know, but am not the better for it.....😆😎😇

It has been said that "no day is ever wasted if one has learned something".

I might take issue with that now. 🙃🍆
Also, the song, "Don't Fence Me In" is now an earworm. I wonder why?🤔

This ☝️ 💯 😆
My vanilla life has been shaken to it's very core 😨
I even discovered the term 'flesh light' this week 🔦 🍆 👀

Dear me. One, it’s another reason, by which I mean ‘in addition to the present reason’.
Also, and more important, I was responding to the mention of chaps being out shopping for the things, and how tiresome it is for them. I was unwillingly imagining this taking place where women (and indeed other blokes!) are trying on shirts etc.
It just struck me as 😳, though of course it’d not happen at all, and I WAS JUST MESSING ABOUT, for the love of God!

Though not necessarily true of yourself, there are a lot of rather po-faced responders here who seem to go in for the ‘treat any bizarro or startling thing mentioned in a general public forum with the utmost solemnity’.

Oh hi tech!

Cellmate 2.0 Chastity Cage, App Controlled, Electric Shock Cage.
"The 6-speed adjustable snap ring, no matter whether your testis is large or small, it is very comfortable."
Cellmate 2 Features:
Electric Shock
Timed Shock
Three shock Modes
vibration, tremor, and tingling.
Ring adjustment
APP Remote Control
Timed Unlock
Stomatal Design
Multiple ventilation holes design, not afraid of heat.
Urinating Mouth
Large opening urinary tract design.
Matte Material
IPX6 Waterproof
Upgraded water resistance, no matter sweat, spray or bathe, it's all ok. It can be worn for a long time.
USB Charging

There is some serious education for all of us who led sheltered lives until 2 days ago. Who would have thought?

I just had to go there, didn’t I… 😂 Half of those look like Slinkies! Or those desk toys made of twisting metal…

Such a wide range, though, that it makes me think these practices are perhaps more mainstream than one might assume…

A ferret embryo clutching two full bags of laundry..?