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Husbands chastity cage

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BeShyPlumLeader · 18/09/2025 21:21

I recently found a metal chastity cage (for a males anatomy) in my husbands cupboard. Obviously a bit of a shock.

For background - marriage isn't good, no sex for over 2 years, separate beds, talk of separating. Stayed together because of the kids tbh. I wouldn't be surprised if he was getting it elsewhere tbh. But a .... cage!? Wtf...

What would u think? I don't want to tell him I've found it (yet)

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BeShyPlumLeader · 18/09/2025 21:32

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 21:24

Is it definitely a chastity cage? Do you have any pets? Could it be to transport a small rodent?

Bit of a shock for you but it sounds like you may soon be going your separate ways so I'd decide beforehand how much of an issue this is for you.

Thank u for your comment but this did make me laugh 🤣. Nope no pets. And it is a very obviously phallic shaped CAGE with a padlock on it. I had to Google it myself but it was clearly penis shaped!!!

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IndigoBluey · 18/09/2025 21:31

Where can I buy a small rodent cage? Asking for my pet gerbil 🐹

ButSheSaid · 18/09/2025 21:31

EchoedSilence · 18/09/2025 21:30

It looks like a small hamster cage. Without the hamster wheel.

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Does it have the water dispenser bottle and some enrichment textures and toys inside? A little bell, etc.
Hopefully the hamster isn't included.

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BeShyPlumLeader · 18/09/2025 21:30

HelloHattie · 18/09/2025 21:28

Picture or it didn’t happen! I want to see what one looks like

I actually posted a link to it in an earlier post but MN blocked it!!!!!

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EchoedSilence · 18/09/2025 21:30

HelloHattie · 18/09/2025 21:28

Picture or it didn’t happen! I want to see what one looks like

It looks like a small hamster cage. Without the hamster wheel.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/09/2025 21:29

Gay and into s&m xx

ButSheSaid · 18/09/2025 21:29

Mymanyellow · 18/09/2025 21:28

Transport a small rodent? What small rodent and where are you transporting it!

a Naked Mole Rat.

HelloHattie · 18/09/2025 21:28

Picture or it didn’t happen! I want to see what one looks like

Mymanyellow · 18/09/2025 21:28

Transport a small rodent? What small rodent and where are you transporting it!

IsThisLifeNow · 18/09/2025 21:28

Ask now. I found a douche bulb in my house. He said it was for constipation, but he came out as gay 4 months later.

We were married for almost 8 years and have 2 young kids. It's destroyed my life

CalzoneOnLegs · 18/09/2025 21:27

🐄💩

EchoedSilence · 18/09/2025 21:27

I think it's definitely a small rodent cage 😂

Whenthetimeisright · 18/09/2025 21:27

@didntlikeanyofthesuggestions

Is it definitely a chastity cage? Do you have any pets? Could it be to transport a small rodent?

Burst out laughing when I read this!

HollywoodTease · 18/09/2025 21:26

Sissy porn.

SereneCoralDog · 18/09/2025 21:26

Is it definitely a chastity cage? Do you have any pets? Could it be to transport a small rodent?

I can't even work out if this is a serious comment but 😂

TheCurious0range · 18/09/2025 21:25

Maybe he's really leaning in to abstinence as a choice

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 21:24

Is it definitely a chastity cage? Do you have any pets? Could it be to transport a small rodent?

Bit of a shock for you but it sounds like you may soon be going your separate ways so I'd decide beforehand how much of an issue this is for you.

EchoedSilence · 18/09/2025 21:24

Oh really?

MessageMystery · 18/09/2025 21:23

Well it’s a bit weird. Personally I doubt I could resist asking him about it.