Page 2 | to ask you to tell us something you’d never admit IRL Thread 2

GooseAndSandals · 2025-09-17T22:24:47+00:00

Continuation of previous thread.

Scoobydoobydoo19 · 30/09/2025 10:05

GoldWhiteandBlue · 29/09/2025 22:45

I hate being short

Same! My life would be so much easier if I was a few inches taller.

GoldWhiteandBlue · 29/09/2025 22:45

I hate being short

Intheenditdoesntevenmatter2 · 29/09/2025 21:33

I hate myself and that I'm a horrible ugly fat person. Everything I've been through this year (it's been tough) I believe that I am everything everyone has said about me when actually it couldn't be more further away from the truth. I wish I weren't here anymore.

HectorPlasm · 29/09/2025 10:47

Forgot one - I couldn't care less about Jay Slater

RedTreeLeaf · 27/09/2025 19:32

IRL I'd never tell anyone how many crushes I've had over the years, on men who are not my husband.

I'd also never tell anyone that sometimes I feel like walking out of my boring, middle-class life and doing stupid things, maybe robbing a house, taking heroin, something to make me feel alive and awake. Or grabbing an attractive man off the street and having sex with him somewhere.

It's just the idea of these things that has some kind of appeal, the reality would be grim and I would never do any of them.

GoldWhiteandBlue · 27/09/2025 15:24

Dear Aunty stop telling me I should have another child incase my only dies. That's fucking weird

YumYa · 27/09/2025 14:15

@usedtobeaylis sorry the lettuce thing made me laugh. But totally agree. Lots of migrants live in our town. Ironically the ones I know all work. The ones with the flags outside don't. You see them sitting on their fronts smoking and talking shit.

All those years of never bothering about st Georges day. Hmm .

usedtobeaylis · 27/09/2025 13:34

Catwalking · 27/09/2025 07:50

I never wash our lettuce - i recon if the outside leaves are removed (& chucked to compost) how/why would the inside leaves need rinsing?

Nobody has been poisoned by it in 49yrs married, but i’ve never dared to say it!

I cried my eyes out when I saw a street two away from me covered in union flags and saltires. I'm was so angry, and so sick of people pretending it's some kind of innocent pride and patriotism. I felt it absolutely in the pit of my stomach. We live in an area with a lot of migrants and it absolutely crushes my soul to think about how hostile this all is for them. From people who in same breath wank on about 'British values'. I'm in Glasgow and there's no illusions about who's doing it and what their politics is. It's the same vicious, vacuous right wing people it always is.

I would never let on to anyone that it affected me so deeply as I'm known for being fairly stoic. Maybe it was just one more thing in a long line of shit things that are happening in the world but it really got to me. It affected me more negatively than a migrant living on my street ever has.

SORRY I have got no idea why a quote about lettuce is in this, I can't seem to remove it 😆

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:31

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:25

I won't miss you.

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Likewise 👋🏻

Bookaholic73 · 27/09/2025 13:29

I’m desperately unhappy in my marriage and am having to bide my time before I can leave.
No abuse or violence, but he changed the minute I married him.
I need to save up as much money as I can before leaving.

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:25

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:24

I can see your post has been deleted for obvious reasons. I shan’t be engaging with you further.

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I won't miss you.

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:24

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:21

They could have claimed asylum legally in one of the many countries they've had to cross to get to Calais if that's all they were desperate to do.

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I can see your post has been deleted for obvious reasons. I shan’t be engaging with you further.

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:21

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:12

Many of these people are desperately seeking asylum…

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They could have claimed asylum legally in one of the many countries they've had to cross to get to Calais if that's all they were desperate to do.

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:12

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:12

If they were trying to illegally enter another country, yes.

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Many of these people are desperately seeking asylum…

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 13:12

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:06

Would you have your same lack of empathy if it was British people dying falling off the boats? Or is your apathy saved for migrants?

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If they were trying to illegally enter another country, yes.

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 13:06

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:55

ODFOD. And maybe take your own advice about opinions on open forums.

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Would you have your same lack of empathy if it was British people dying falling off the boats? Or is your apathy saved for migrants?

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:55

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:53

Yes.

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ODFOD. And maybe take your own advice about opinions on open forums.

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:53

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:51

Are you the empathy police?

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Yes.

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:51

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:50

Are you the thread police? I am commenting that it seems like you struggle with empathy as you feel no empathy for migrants who die trying to make it over here on the boats. If you don’t want opinions, perhaps don’t post on open forums?!

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Are you the empathy police?

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:50

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:46

Are you sure this is the right thread for you when you're so judgemental?

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Are you the thread police? I am commenting that it seems like you struggle with empathy as you feel no empathy for migrants who die trying to make it over here on the boats. If you don’t want opinions, perhaps don’t post on open forums?!

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 27/09/2025 12:49

I think many women don't think ahead when having sex. I know I didn't and I've just been lucky, which not every woman will be. But if you're fertile, you're having sex with someone you aren't in a solid relationship with, then you're a complete nutter not to be using contraception. And yes I realise some methods aren't fully effective.

Following on from this, I kind of think women who aren't capable of financially supporting a new baby, should be freely offered abortion , day after pills etc, no quibbles. Abortions, within whatever the term is generally accepted by the medical profession. I think bringing kids into the world in our so-called advanced society when you can't afford to raise them is crazy.

I've probably got a few other offensive views up my sleeve but can't think of them now.

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:46

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:40

You clearly massively lack empathy.

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Are you sure this is the right thread for you when you're so judgemental?

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:40

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:38

I know thanks for pointing out the bleedin' obvious. You don't have to be one to feel that way.

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You clearly massively lack empathy.

PocketBattleship · 27/09/2025 12:38

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:30

Funny, that’s exactly what you sound like.

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I know thanks for pointing out the bleedin' obvious. You don't have to be one to feel that way.

Plastictreees · 27/09/2025 12:30

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Funny, that’s exactly what you sound like.