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Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
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usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:35

OwlBeThere · 23/09/2025 23:43

Which is great and I’d always encourage people to learn the language of where they are living, but it’s also true that not everyone can do that. Learning a language requires a certain level of intellect. It also requires a chance to practise to be any good at it.

The last census showed that 90% of immigrants speak English well or very well, 52% speak it as their main language and 38% speaking it well despite it not being their main language. That’s pretty good imo.

It’s hard to find any definitive figures on how much is spent on interpretation services because different services keep their own records, but good old Google seems to indicate around £100mn a year between the NHS, policing, and DWP. That’s only the direct cost, it doesn’t count the indirect cost such as appointments taking longer due to three-way conversations.

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:15

OwlBeThere · 23/09/2025 23:39

Migrants to the U.K. have no recourse to public funds until they are granted indefinite leave to remain. That means 5 years here on a qualifying visa at least. You also have to
meet other criteria like language tests.

You’re referring to migrants, but this thread is specifically discussing asylum seekers, who are supported from public funds as soon as they arrive. Once their claim is processed and if they are accepted as a refugee or given other humanitarian protection, they have the same access to public funds as any other citizen.

Refugees are less likely to work and if they do it’s more likely to be in low paid jobs, so are a net-drain on the economy. There are some exceptions, as there are in everything, and some will be highly skilled and highly paid and net contributors, but for the majority, that’s not the case.

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 09:12

Didn't I already mention the woman at the GP who struggled with the receptionist because she just couldn't speak English

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:08

SleeplessInWherever · 23/09/2025 16:39

That’s fair enough, but my view is that you should learn the language of the country you live in, but don’t have to speak it in your own community or with fellow speakers of your home language.

I’d learn French if I moved there, but I’d speak to my family and other English speakers in English. Why would I speak French to my English speaking partner? 😂

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I may have missed it, but I haven’t seen anybody suggesting that immigrants should speak the language of their host nation all the time, in private and with friends or relatives; only that they learn to do so to communicate with people in the host nation, in public, medical, education settings etc. We spend an eye watering amount on interpretation services, far beyond the time when it would be reasonable to expect an adult to have a fair grasp of the language. IIRC the government was looking to cap the length of time that interpreters can be funded for, but not sure whether that ever happened.

Papyrophile · 24/09/2025 09:02

Retired British people who decide to settle overseas, for whatever reason, are not entering those countries via subterfuge. They come with return tickets and money to buy or rent property, and are required to have a minimum income (generally at least equivalent to local minimum wage) plus funding their own healthcare. It's possible to cope without more than a smattering of the language -- until you develop complex health problems.

We have both been migrants before, in our 20s and 30s, one in the US, via a first marriage, and t'other in the Middle East for work/travel/adventure, and were planning to retire in Portugal on a D7 visa. I am good at languages, but we have decided against moving since DH has twice been blue-lighted to hospital.

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 08:50

Toastandbutterand · 23/09/2025 00:09

Today reform has said people like us will be deported. Still agree?

Where did he say that? I was born in the UK, and hold a UK passport. Other than a couple of spells of mat leave, I’ve worked all my life, and not claimed state support even when “entitled” to, because we had enough money (I know, what a mug!). Where did Farage say he wanted to deport me?

Sunnysardines · 24/09/2025 07:47

OwlBeThere · 23/09/2025 23:43

Which is great and I’d always encourage people to learn the language of where they are living, but it’s also true that not everyone can do that. Learning a language requires a certain level of intellect. It also requires a chance to practise to be any good at it.

The last census showed that 90% of immigrants speak English well or very well, 52% speak it as their main language and 38% speaking it well despite it not being their main language. That’s pretty good imo.

So 62% don’t speak English well if it’s their second language?

OwlBeThere · 23/09/2025 23:43

PurpleNurple23 · 23/09/2025 20:16

If I moved to any country I'd spend time learning how to speak the language there.

Which is great and I’d always encourage people to learn the language of where they are living, but it’s also true that not everyone can do that. Learning a language requires a certain level of intellect. It also requires a chance to practise to be any good at it.

The last census showed that 90% of immigrants speak English well or very well, 52% speak it as their main language and 38% speaking it well despite it not being their main language. That’s pretty good imo.

OwlBeThere · 23/09/2025 23:39

usernamealreadytaken · 23/09/2025 16:07

I guess fewer Brits would worry about immigrants here if they were being supported by benefits from their home country.

Retired Brits living in Spain are generally seen as contributors to that economy. You have to have worked for at least a year in Spain to be able to claim unemployment support, and must be looking for a job and not turn one down if you're offered. It's harder for immigrants to access benefits in most European countries, and France sites this as one of the pull factors of the UK for the current increasing wave of irregular migrants.

Migrants to the U.K. have no recourse to public funds until they are granted indefinite leave to remain. That means 5 years here on a qualifying visa at least. You also have to
meet other criteria like language tests.

PurpleNurple23 · 23/09/2025 20:16

SleeplessInWherever · 23/09/2025 20:04

That’s very specific.

If I moved to any country I'd spend time learning how to speak the language there.

SleeplessInWherever · 23/09/2025 20:04

PurpleNurple23 · 23/09/2025 19:51

If I moved to Spain every day I'd spend 1 hour learning Spanish

That’s very specific.

PurpleNurple23 · 23/09/2025 19:51

Terrribletwos · 23/09/2025 18:16

I would think that if people are buying a place in Spain they have money and the means to support themselves. And when they get older they have to head back to the UK for support.

If I moved to Spain every day I'd spend 1 hour learning Spanish

Terrribletwos · 23/09/2025 18:16

I would think that if people are buying a place in Spain they have money and the means to support themselves. And when they get older they have to head back to the UK for support.

38thparallel · 23/09/2025 18:09

. Never heard anyone defend the Brits in Benidorm before! But I guess most are coming from a relatively wealthy nation and support themselves, so that's a positive.

Also, afaik if they need interpreters for legal or medical reasons they have to pay for them and the tax payer doesn’t pick up the tab.

SleeplessInWherever · 23/09/2025 16:39

usernamealreadytaken · 23/09/2025 15:41

Funny, most left-of-centre people on here seem to use UK pensioners in Spain as a gotcha when anyone suggests that migrants to the UK should learn English. Never heard anyone defend the Brits in Benidorm before! But I guess most are coming from a relatively wealthy nation and support themselves, so that's a positive.

There has, however, been a significant backlash from some Spanish citizens to British tourists and immigrants in recent years.

My personal opinion, fwiw, is that you should learn the language and integrate if you plan to live somewhere for permanently, or for a significant amount of time.

That’s fair enough, but my view is that you should learn the language of the country you live in, but don’t have to speak it in your own community or with fellow speakers of your home language.

I’d learn French if I moved there, but I’d speak to my family and other English speakers in English. Why would I speak French to my English speaking partner? 😂

JamieCannister · 23/09/2025 16:24

Answer - exactly the same reason some people are rude to shop staff. We can't take out the abysmal service on the CEO who earns £4m per year and wouldn't meet one of his own regional managers let alone the public, because he is in head office in London laughing his head off.

usernamealreadytaken · 23/09/2025 16:07

OwlBeThere · 22/09/2025 22:24

The Brits in Spain are often claiming British benefits like pensions and PIP.
I don’t care if people in Spain don’t learn Spanish, but I don’t care if immigrants here learn English either. Most of the ones I know are at least trying to learn some. But learning a new language as an adult is very difficult.

I guess fewer Brits would worry about immigrants here if they were being supported by benefits from their home country.

Retired Brits living in Spain are generally seen as contributors to that economy. You have to have worked for at least a year in Spain to be able to claim unemployment support, and must be looking for a job and not turn one down if you're offered. It's harder for immigrants to access benefits in most European countries, and France sites this as one of the pull factors of the UK for the current increasing wave of irregular migrants.

usernamealreadytaken · 23/09/2025 15:41

SleeplessInWherever · 22/09/2025 14:05

May I present to you… Benidorm. Britain, but in Spain.

So yes. People in Benidorm can and do speak English to each other, and have anglicised the area. Famously. Something we’re all aware of.

I do think it’s fine for people to live closely and speak their own language in their own communities, with others that speak that language.

Funny, most left-of-centre people on here seem to use UK pensioners in Spain as a gotcha when anyone suggests that migrants to the UK should learn English. Never heard anyone defend the Brits in Benidorm before! But I guess most are coming from a relatively wealthy nation and support themselves, so that's a positive.

There has, however, been a significant backlash from some Spanish citizens to British tourists and immigrants in recent years.

My personal opinion, fwiw, is that you should learn the language and integrate if you plan to live somewhere for permanently, or for a significant amount of time.

SleeplessInWherever · 23/09/2025 15:35

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/09/2025 13:38

Be careful not to say anything mean about him online. You will get 2.5 years inside.

Do you mean Lucy Connolly?

I hope not, because she literally posted about setting human beings on fire.

Didn’t get long enough in my opinion, should have left her there.

HelenaWaiting · 23/09/2025 14:46

MsJinks · 23/09/2025 13:40

Oh indeed
Harold Shipman - your average GP
Jimmy Savile - your average tv host
Beverley Allitt - your average nurse
Peter Sutcliffe - your average lorry driver

Oh, I have absolutely nothing against refugees and asylum seekers. The point is, this guy very clearly isn't either.

MsJinks · 23/09/2025 13:47

Is there no end to the ‘reasons’ asylum seekers shouldn’t come here - well not just asylum seekers now is it.
PE - RE - many people here for the 1000s of years that are deemed acceptable have reasons to not want their kids in classes.
Also if you’re so worried that Muslim girls are missing out on equality wouldn’t it be kinder to want them to stay to show them good ole U.K. equality 🤔
The attempts to avoid real reasons are hmm interesting though remain disappointing.

MsJinks · 23/09/2025 13:40

HelenaWaiting · 23/09/2025 13:17

The migrant accused of the sexual assault of a 14 year old girl has been convicted and jailed today. His lawyer says he hopes to be deported to his home country as soon as possible. That's your desperate person fleeing persecution.

Oh indeed
Harold Shipman - your average GP
Jimmy Savile - your average tv host
Beverley Allitt - your average nurse
Peter Sutcliffe - your average lorry driver

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/09/2025 13:38

HelenaWaiting · 23/09/2025 13:17

The migrant accused of the sexual assault of a 14 year old girl has been convicted and jailed today. His lawyer says he hopes to be deported to his home country as soon as possible. That's your desperate person fleeing persecution.

Be careful not to say anything mean about him online. You will get 2.5 years inside.

HelenaWaiting · 23/09/2025 13:17

The migrant accused of the sexual assault of a 14 year old girl has been convicted and jailed today. His lawyer says he hopes to be deported to his home country as soon as possible. That's your desperate person fleeing persecution.

Vindaloro · 23/09/2025 09:51

I remember back in primary the Muslim parents wouldn't let their DC socialise with non Muslims outside of school.