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Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
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BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 23:09

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 23:02

I think Scotland might be my (only) best hope. I’m disabled from cancer and still undergoing treatment so there’s nowhere that’s gonna take me. My kids thankfully have Irish passports. I’m making plans for them.
I hope you will be ok also.

I'm sorry to hear that. It must be scary to think about what Reform might do to the NHS. Scotland sounds like a good plan, and it's good that your kids will have options.

We will be OK too, thanks. DH and I have options, and dd will be a doctor by that time so she should also have options, hopefully. I'm worried about my elderly dad though. If he is still alive at that point, I don't think I'll be able to just abandon him.

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 23:02

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 22:40

Make plans to leave if you can. It isn't going to be pretty when people realise that Reform isn't going to fix anything for them.

I think Scotland might be my (only) best hope. I’m disabled from cancer and still undergoing treatment so there’s nowhere that’s gonna take me. My kids thankfully have Irish passports. I’m making plans for them.
I hope you will be ok also.

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 22:59

ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmmmmmmm · 17/09/2025 20:27

Credible sources , lol. Just had a look at both of them. Both pro migration orgs, it seems. I particularly enjoyed the cover illustration of a tiny pair of hands grasping a strand of barbed wire, and the immediate pop up for Amnesty. Perhaps take a look at Migration Watch.......🙄

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/immigration-system-statistics-year-ending-march-2025/how-many-people-claim-asylum-in-the-uk

will the governments own statistics do then?

How many people claim asylum in the UK?

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/immigration-system-statistics-year-ending-march-2025/how-many-people-claim-asylum-in-the-uk

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 22:45

NotABiscuitInSight · 17/09/2025 19:53

NIMBYISM, yes, but also 4% isn't worth

A) crossing a channel and risking death
B) paying a trafficker and the risks of that
C) not being able to support my family because of the above.

For a 4% increase.

You think they aren’t paying to get across Europe? The last bit is a tiny drop in that ocean. They risk death the entire way, they risk being murdered and dumped by traffickers the whole way.
one guy I spoke to was beaten more than 5 times between Syria and the U.K. he came here as he speaks good English and is a veterinarian in Syria. He hopes to work here once he is granted leave to. People choose here for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with our benefits system.

HappyHedgehog247 · 17/09/2025 22:42

The enemy of the working class is not a man on a small boat. The enemy of the working class are the 1% of billionaires who now own 43% of ALL global capital assets.

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 22:40

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 22:37

Yes. I do. And I’m really fucking sad about it. But I also think that if the will of the country is to submit to fascists and liars, then we as a country will get what we deserve. I actually think the human race as a whole are a fucking mess who will get what we deserve. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Make plans to leave if you can. It isn't going to be pretty when people realise that Reform isn't going to fix anything for them.

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 22:40

BerryTwister · 17/09/2025 18:08

OP we are all competing for resources in this country. School places, housing, GP/hospital appointments, space on the road etc.

It's instinctive to find yourself directing most of your frustration at the person you're competing with, rather than the faceless "organisers".

For example - if you were standing in a long queue at the Tesco till, and someone pushed in front of you, you'd blame that person, not Tesco for their lack of tills.

It's human nature.

Asylum seekers and refugees make up less than 1% of the population of the uk.

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 22:37

NotABiscuitInSight · 17/09/2025 19:55

You can get as ragey as you want but you know that people can vote how they want whether they believe it or not.

Yes. I do. And I’m really fucking sad about it. But I also think that if the will of the country is to submit to fascists and liars, then we as a country will get what we deserve. I actually think the human race as a whole are a fucking mess who will get what we deserve. 🤷🏼‍♀️

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 22:36

Kendodd · 17/09/2025 22:23

Can somebody please explain to me what people trafficking actually is?
People trafficking implies to me, taking somebody and transporting them somewhere they don't want to go.

More here if you want to get the proper legal explanation:

https://hopeforjustice.org/news/new-free-online-training-with-a-uk-focus/

Free online modern slavery and human trafficking training courses

The Hope for Justice UK Learning Academy online portal offers free, interactive courses on modern and human trafficking that are open to anybody.

https://hopeforjustice.org/news/new-free-online-training-with-a-uk-focus

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 22:33

Kendodd · 17/09/2025 22:23

Can somebody please explain to me what people trafficking actually is?
People trafficking implies to me, taking somebody and transporting them somewhere they don't want to go.

Yes, that's a reasonable assumption, but it's my understanding that people (actually, adults) can in fact "consent" to being trafficked. I think the thing that makes it trafficking rather than just people smuggling is because there is some form of deception, coercion or other abuse of power. And with the intention to exploit.

Kendodd · 17/09/2025 22:23

Can somebody please explain to me what people trafficking actually is?
People trafficking implies to me, taking somebody and transporting them somewhere they don't want to go.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 21:58

@MIMITHEONION and I agree on a lot in your post. Hence why I feel the anger is misplaced. By all means question the system, the people in charge. But on a human level, waving a banner in someone’s face saying you’re the scum of the earth and you are not welcome here just isn’t okay

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MIMITHEONION · 17/09/2025 21:45

NRTFT but people are angry with everyone, the individuals making the treacherous journey over here and the govt for not managing the situation much more effectively.
The reason for most people's ire is more a cultural issue than a racist one, as well as quite simply, we don't have the infrastructure to support unlimited amounts of people who are fleeing from whatever they're fleeing from!

Perhaps these people ARE deserving, but if we don't have the means to support them, then we don't have the means!

The support isn't just limited to how much they receive in their hands every week, it is so much more than that.
It is the cost of their accommodation, the admin cost of processing the claims of asylum, the cost of interpreters, health care, and once they have been successful in their asylum claim, the cost of educating them and their children, supporting their need for housing and ongoing health care.
All in a country that is struggling to provide the basics for the people who already call the UK home.
Schools, councils, social care and the NHS are on the brink of collapse from the people who are already here, and still we add more and more people.
If you look around, vitriol is directed at anyone who is seen to be costing the tax payer money, because the cost of supporting the people who are already here is totally unsustainable as it is.

We cannot afford to support ever growing numbers of people who, for one reason or another, cannot support themselves.

Namitynamename · 17/09/2025 21:28

It's more complicated though with things like the war in Syria where the (horrendous) Assad regime was fighting rebels who sort of got taken over by time by Isis aligned groups. Its probably closer to the Spanish civil war where you had fascists fighting an odd mix of anarchists/Communists etc but where the (almost as bad) Communist forces were at times attacking/suppressing the anarchists and other groups. For all the romanticism given to that war it would have been hard, in the ground, to work out who the good guys were and I wouldn't blame young men for fleeing.

You also had horrific treatment of "deserters" from Assad's army (that is men that didn't want to fight, often against their own people). Including Wagner troops filming themselves torturing and beheading young men and using their heads as a football. And fleeing and fighting for the opposite side could easily land you with ISIS. Who are also bad guys. Or, if an Alawite automa6viewes as a traitor.
Eritreans also face compulsory conscription but there isnt really an alternative "good guy" they can fight for

Im not saying we can or should accept everyone. But comparing young men fleeing a bad situation to the second world war is unfair because WW2 was a situation with a much clearer "bad guy" who crucially was attacking from outside. Civil wars are much messier and morally complex (and deadly).

Namitynamename · 17/09/2025 21:25

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 20:42

@OwlBeThere - escaping from wars they don’t want to fight in

Hmmm, do you think it would have been acceptable in WW1 and 2 for young men from this country to have made their way to “safe” economically-prosperous countries, leaving their kinfolk behind and their compatriots to fight in their stead?

It's more complicated though with things like the war in Syria where the (horrendous) Assad regime was fighting rebels who sort of got taken over by time by Isis aligned groups. Its probably closer to the Spanish civil war where you had fascists fighting an odd mix of anarchists/Communists etc but where the (almost as bad) Communist forces were at times attacking/suppressing the anarchists and other groups. For all the romanticism given to that war it would have been hard, in the ground, to work out who the good guys were and I wouldn't blame young men for fleeing.

You also had horrific treatment of "deserters" from Assad's army (that is men that didn't want to fight, often against their own people). Including Wagner troops filming themselves torturing and beheading young men and using their heads as a football. And fleeing and fighting for the opposite side could easily land you with ISIS. Who are also bad guys. Or, if an Alawite automa6viewes as a traitor.

Namitynamename · 17/09/2025 21:18

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 12:19

I simply don’t understand why - and yes, at an individual level, campaigners fight for some pretty nasty characters who have turned up here.

Alarmingly I’ve even seen women defend sexual crimes as being merely misunderstanding of cultural norms here.

Yes but Connor McGregor is also famous for being a boxer and therefore quite popular. I think also some of the "women" supporting him and Andrew Tate on here were actually men in disguise as they are both worryingly popular with a small sub-group. It is still shocking though I agree!

EasternStandard · 17/09/2025 21:08

OwlBeThere · 17/09/2025 19:38

40% of those coming in on small boats are female. 20% are children. It’s most likely to be younger men for two reasons:
they are the ones most likely to be drafted into fight in wars they don’t want to fight in or believe in. They are also the most likely to be killed by the taliban if they don’t submit to their will.
they also send the people most likely to survive the crossing in the boat, and then the other family can be brought over safely at a later date.

makes perfect sense to me,

Is it 40%?

In recent years, women have made up approximately 7-12% of people arriving in the UK on small boats, with figures from the year ending June 2025 showing 83.6% of arrivals were men, 12.5% women

Portakalkedi · 17/09/2025 20:54

Surely the answer is obvious - because that person, assuming you mean an illegal immigrant rather than a genuine asylum seeker, has chosen this country, and paid a lot of money to a criminal. They have passed through other safe countries, but choose to come to the UK as they know they are almost certainly not going to be removed, and will be housed/fed/given limitless free legal help. Nobody should be allowed to do this, in any country. I've lived in outher countries and in order to be able to do so have had to had proof of a job to go to, to prove I could speak the language, to have a medical and health insurance. All fine by me, why should I expect to be looked after at the expense of that country's citizens? Nothing to do with racism at all, more to do with entitlement and flouting the law.

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 20:53

KTheGrey · 17/09/2025 20:48

You cannot generally enter countries legally without a passport. That’s why we have them. It’s what passport means. That’s our normal - far more noticeable on planes than at road borders but Schengen was always the exception rather than the rule. So the small boat is a red herring, but equally many of those small boats sink so don’t let’s pretend they are legally run, insured or registered.

Of course they aren't legally run. The trafficking gangs are criminal operations exploiting desperate and vulnerable people. And obviously you can't usually enter a country without a passport, but that isn't what we were talking about.

The pp stated that the law specifically prohibits people from paying for lifts on small boats. I was querying this.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 20:48

ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmmmmmmm · 17/09/2025 20:41

Is there an ' entitlement ' to translation services imposed on the NHS by anyone, I wonder.

Absolutely.

  • NHS organisations (GP surgeries, hospitals, community health services) are required under the Equality Act 2010 and the NHS Constitution to make services accessible. That includes providing interpreters for patients who do not speak English well.
  • This applies to spoken languages (face-to-face, video, or telephone interpreters) and to British Sign Language (BSL) interpreters.
  • You do not have to pay for interpreting services — it is the NHS provider’s responsibility.

I’m happy to keep researching on your behalf, but I would hope you get the picture now.

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UnhappyHobbit · 17/09/2025 20:48

LakieLady · 17/09/2025 11:40

For what feels like the millionth time, asylum seekers are not entitled to claim benefits.

I personally know asylum seekers, they are not allowed to work. Their housing, bills and a basic living allowance was paid for while their asylum claim went through. Ok so they can’t claim benefits that residents can but public money is still given to them.

KTheGrey · 17/09/2025 20:48

BeHappySloth · 17/09/2025 20:04

As a pp has said, most of that act has been repealed and some bits were never actually implemented.

Can you point to which specific clause in the legislation states that you cannot pay people for a lift on a small boat?

You cannot generally enter countries legally without a passport. That’s why we have them. It’s what passport means. That’s our normal - far more noticeable on planes than at road borders but Schengen was always the exception rather than the rule. So the small boat is a red herring, but equally many of those small boats sink so don’t let’s pretend they are legally run, insured or registered.

MaturingCheeseball · 17/09/2025 20:42

@OwlBeThere - escaping from wars they don’t want to fight in

Hmmm, do you think it would have been acceptable in WW1 and 2 for young men from this country to have made their way to “safe” economically-prosperous countries, leaving their kinfolk behind and their compatriots to fight in their stead?

ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmmmmmmm · 17/09/2025 20:41

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 20:38

Like I say, availability and willingness will vary, that doesn’t mean there’s no entitlement.

Is there an ' entitlement ' to translation services imposed on the NHS by anyone, I wonder.

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 20:38

ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmmmmmmm · 17/09/2025 20:34

As it happens, unfortunately,I lived about 100 yards from Bulgaria's newest migrant reception centre ( Svilengrad,Haskovo oblast) which contained many nationalities,varying from Syrians,Malians,Afghans to Mongolians, and can assure you ,from personal conversations with them,that no interpreting was done there.
And of course, the people the NHS are so keen to interpret for are,in the main,not asylum seekers either.

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Like I say, availability and willingness will vary, that doesn’t mean there’s no entitlement.

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