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Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
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MaturingCheeseball · 24/09/2025 16:15

Yes, I simply can’t fathom why so many shops say they are struggling to afford staff: most Saturday jobs are a thing of the past and the NI costs etc are punitive.

YET in my small town there are I now think SEVEN barbers, all with multiple men working there. And I don’t think the local quite old population has much hair! Ditto three or four car washes - masses of guys scrubbing away.

The authorities seem to turn a completely blind eye to why certain businesses can afford whole legions of staff…

MsJinks · 24/09/2025 14:55

WinterfellsStarbucksConcession · 24/09/2025 14:46

I imagine AI will do away with need for physical interpreters within the NHS in the next few years anyway, already we have Google translate as a useful tool. It’ll save millions, but obviously translators will be out of a job.

As far as the anger directed at individual migrants outside hotels housing them and during organised marches, I agree it’s abhorrent and I shudder to see it in Britain. The rise of Reform is terrifying.
However like previous posters I do think we need to get a grip on migration both legal and illegal. How many undocumented, mainly, young men can the UK absorb peaceably from cultures that have very different attitudes and norms to our own.
It boggles the mind that we now have a situation where on calm temperate days in excess of 1000 migrants are arriving on small boats in one day - that’s the population of an average secondary school or a small village. Many have thrown their documents and phones into the sea and we have no way of knowing who we’re letting in. The arguments about who we accept and who we don’t seem largely moot given that once here few are actually deported (although I think this government is doing slightly better on that front) many launch appeal after appeal costing thousands in legal aid others slip into the black market and remain undocumented, our lack of ID cards and the large-scale nature of this shadow economy is frequently cited as a pull factor to the U.K.

Whilst probably having slightly different views, immigration does need to be handled - and seen to be handled. This gov’t goes about it on ways I don’t always agree with, but goes about it it does, whilst no one seems to realise they are doing a considerable amount, so the rise of Reform, possibly Advance - which are by any metric a terrifying prospect.
Re the black economy being attractive- I still have to be convinced otherwise that the gov’t, of any colour, doesn’t need this to an extent - never much done to break it.

WinterfellsStarbucksConcession · 24/09/2025 14:46

I imagine AI will do away with need for physical interpreters within the NHS in the next few years anyway, already we have Google translate as a useful tool. It’ll save millions, but obviously translators will be out of a job.

As far as the anger directed at individual migrants outside hotels housing them and during organised marches, I agree it’s abhorrent and I shudder to see it in Britain. The rise of Reform is terrifying.
However like previous posters I do think we need to get a grip on migration both legal and illegal. How many undocumented, mainly, young men can the UK absorb peaceably from cultures that have very different attitudes and norms to our own.
It boggles the mind that we now have a situation where on calm temperate days in excess of 1000 migrants are arriving on small boats in one day - that’s the population of an average secondary school or a small village. Many have thrown their documents and phones into the sea and we have no way of knowing who we’re letting in. The arguments about who we accept and who we don’t seem largely moot given that once here few are actually deported (although I think this government is doing slightly better on that front) many launch appeal after appeal costing thousands in legal aid others slip into the black market and remain undocumented, our lack of ID cards and the large-scale nature of this shadow economy is frequently cited as a pull factor to the U.K.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 14:19

Papyrophile · 24/09/2025 14:09

That may be so, but if it was my DH's issue/medication/operation/treatment under discussion I would want a fluent translator with me, rather than trusting to luck. Expecting translation service for free smacks of entitlement.

I think it more likely smacks of lack of funds.

I would pay for a translator if needed, I can afford one.

Many of the people we’re talking about are either newer arrivals without a job yet, or lower paid migrants who likely can’t afford one.

I’m sure those with higher paid jobs and the funds available either would pay for one, or wouldn’t need one.

Papyrophile · 24/09/2025 14:12

Possibly for tourists in resort towns, if only to get them on their way.

Papyrophile · 24/09/2025 14:09

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 13:32

Let’s face it, that’s actually quite unlikely, because many people in Europe have some level of English skill.

That may be so, but if it was my DH's issue/medication/operation/treatment under discussion I would want a fluent translator with me, rather than trusting to luck. Expecting translation service for free smacks of entitlement.

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 13:41

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:18

Ok…and what?
refugees and asylum seekers aren’t the only people who use interpreters. Other kinds of migrants and those who are deaf and deafblind also need them.

There's an argument for providing language interpretation services for asylum seekers/refugees for a limited amount of time, but not for economic migrants or those otherwise expected to support themselves - workers, students, tourists - which I assume those non-refugee deaf / deaf/blind users would fall under.

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 13:38

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:12

Then I dont understand what you’re saying, Spain also gives asylum seekers an allowance, and Refugees in Spain are entitled to same benefits are Spanish nationals once they are given refugee status. Which is the exact same as our system.

Sorry, two different conversation threads, getting confused. The discussion about Brits moving to Spain was originally brought up by another poster, and we went off on a tangent. Recourse to public funds depends on their visa type or immigration status; those with LLR, EU migrants with settled or pre-settled status can access public funds, as can others with NRPF in some circumstances, such as when there's a child involved or they are destitute. Arguably, if you come as a legal migrant with NRPF and can't support yourself, you should return home.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 13:32

38thparallel · 24/09/2025 13:28

and to still be able to attend a medical centre if I needed to.

@SleeplessInWherever you would be able to attend a medical centre in Spain if you needed to but you would have to pay for an interpreter.

Let’s face it, that’s actually quite unlikely, because many people in Europe have some level of English skill.

38thparallel · 24/09/2025 13:28

and to still be able to attend a medical centre if I needed to.

@SleeplessInWherever you would be able to attend a medical centre in Spain if you needed to but you would have to pay for an interpreter.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 13:27

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 13:21

Or maybe I can understand that to truly integrate and be part of society you need to learn the language.

The woman was in her 50s at least. She had health records at the GP surgery and was struggling to communicate about her needs. Obviously I wish her well with her health issues, but had she been here for a while (which I assume but do not know) she probably should have picked up the language.

You don’t know that she isn’t learning it. You don’t know if she has access to any opportunity to learn it.

You don’t know how long she’s been here for, as you said yourself you assumed.

You know nothing about this woman, apart from what you’ve seen of her in a doctor’s surgery and have formed an uninformed judgement on.

You’re doing an awful lot of being bothered about someone you know nothing about.

I don’t know why you’re so deeply bothered by a woman you don’t know a thing about and have no dealings with.

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:24

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 12:14

Maybe she should have learnt the language before moving? Or at least developed a conversational understanding?

It’s very difficult, almost impossible to learn a language without having someone to speak it with. New languages with new sounds require the persons mouth to be used to new shapes and positions, that muscle memory doesn’t evolve without speaking it out loud.
So it’s easy to say learn it before you move, but it’s not that simple.

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 13:21

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 12:53

Maybe?

But maybe you also should mind your own business about conversations with receptionists that you’re not part of, with people you don’t know.

Maybe.

Or maybe I can understand that to truly integrate and be part of society you need to learn the language.

The woman was in her 50s at least. She had health records at the GP surgery and was struggling to communicate about her needs. Obviously I wish her well with her health issues, but had she been here for a while (which I assume but do not know) she probably should have picked up the language.

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:18

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:35

It’s hard to find any definitive figures on how much is spent on interpretation services because different services keep their own records, but good old Google seems to indicate around £100mn a year between the NHS, policing, and DWP. That’s only the direct cost, it doesn’t count the indirect cost such as appointments taking longer due to three-way conversations.

Ok…and what?
refugees and asylum seekers aren’t the only people who use interpreters. Other kinds of migrants and those who are deaf and deafblind also need them.

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 13:12

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:15

You’re referring to migrants, but this thread is specifically discussing asylum seekers, who are supported from public funds as soon as they arrive. Once their claim is processed and if they are accepted as a refugee or given other humanitarian protection, they have the same access to public funds as any other citizen.

Refugees are less likely to work and if they do it’s more likely to be in low paid jobs, so are a net-drain on the economy. There are some exceptions, as there are in everything, and some will be highly skilled and highly paid and net contributors, but for the majority, that’s not the case.

Then I dont understand what you’re saying, Spain also gives asylum seekers an allowance, and Refugees in Spain are entitled to same benefits are Spanish nationals once they are given refugee status. Which is the exact same as our system.

OwlBeThere · 24/09/2025 12:56

Sunnysardines · 24/09/2025 07:47

So 62% don’t speak English well if it’s their second language?

No. 52% use it as their first language, a further 38% speak it well but it is not their first language. Which means 10% don’t speak it well.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 12:53

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 12:14

Maybe she should have learnt the language before moving? Or at least developed a conversational understanding?

Maybe?

But maybe you also should mind your own business about conversations with receptionists that you’re not part of, with people you don’t know.

Maybe.

Cosmicbroccoli · 24/09/2025 12:41

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 12:14

Maybe she should have learnt the language before moving? Or at least developed a conversational understanding?

We don’t know the context of why she is/was here. If you were with a partner got a new job in a different country would you be able to learn the new language before moving? I know I wouldn’t in a few of months, as I have other commitments and family responsibilities.
Or say I was fleeing war or being persecuted - what would I do hold off until I learn the language or evacuate? Where am I going to access English classes or resources to be able to learn in those circumstances?

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 12:14

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 10:20

You did. That’s one woman, with limited language skills.

You don’t know many things about that situation. How long she’s been here, whether she’s waiting for English lessons, whether she’s actually trying to develop her English skills but is finding it difficult, whether someone more fluent usually goes either her.

You’re also not considering how difficult it must be for her to try and meet her basic needs, like a medical appointment, without the right skill set.

Not you specifically, but people do seem very quick to judge situations that they’re not privy to the full information about.

Maybe she should have learnt the language before moving? Or at least developed a conversational understanding?

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 10:25

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 10:22

I have seen comments about people feeling “unnerved” because people around them are speaking different languages to each other.

However even using your example, if I’d just arrived in Spain, and had not yet been able to learn Spanish, I’d hope for some grace while that happened, and to still be able to attend a medical centre if I needed to.

On your first point, I do think context would be relevant. Somebody just out in public chatting with the person/people they're with, fine. Two men hanging around an area with lots of women or children, not so much (and I’d feel the same about men speaking English if they looked leery/dodgy).

Absolutely, which is why I indicated that I support a reasonable cap, not abolition.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 10:22

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 09:08

I may have missed it, but I haven’t seen anybody suggesting that immigrants should speak the language of their host nation all the time, in private and with friends or relatives; only that they learn to do so to communicate with people in the host nation, in public, medical, education settings etc. We spend an eye watering amount on interpretation services, far beyond the time when it would be reasonable to expect an adult to have a fair grasp of the language. IIRC the government was looking to cap the length of time that interpreters can be funded for, but not sure whether that ever happened.

I have seen comments about people feeling “unnerved” because people around them are speaking different languages to each other.

However even using your example, if I’d just arrived in Spain, and had not yet been able to learn Spanish, I’d hope for some grace while that happened, and to still be able to attend a medical centre if I needed to.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/09/2025 10:20

PurpleNurple23 · 24/09/2025 09:12

Didn't I already mention the woman at the GP who struggled with the receptionist because she just couldn't speak English

You did. That’s one woman, with limited language skills.

You don’t know many things about that situation. How long she’s been here, whether she’s waiting for English lessons, whether she’s actually trying to develop her English skills but is finding it difficult, whether someone more fluent usually goes either her.

You’re also not considering how difficult it must be for her to try and meet her basic needs, like a medical appointment, without the right skill set.

Not you specifically, but people do seem very quick to judge situations that they’re not privy to the full information about.

Cosmicbroccoli · 24/09/2025 10:01

Sunnysardines · 24/09/2025 07:47

So 62% don’t speak English well if it’s their second language?

It says 52% speak it as their main language and 38% speak it well despite it not being their main language.
that adds up to the 90% that speak English well
so it would be 10% that do not speak English well.

Cosmicbroccoli · 24/09/2025 09:59

. Tried to delete as I’d missed off what I was replying to

IsawwhatIsaw · 24/09/2025 09:40

Vindaloro · 23/09/2025 09:51

I remember back in primary the Muslim parents wouldn't let their DC socialise with non Muslims outside of school.

Yes, some parents would not allow any socialising outside school.
this is how parallel communities can develop.