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Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…

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AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
Why is the public directing their anger at the individual asylum seeker that arrives at the shore…
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Joeninety · 16/11/2025 21:38

It's hardly ever about individuals, it's about unsustainable numbers. Thought people understood this by now, after 40-50 odd years of immigration abuse ?!

MrsSkylerWhite · 04/10/2025 13:03

PurpleNurple23 · 04/10/2025 13:02

We saw what happened in Manchester the other day didn't we.

Yes.
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PurpleNurple23 · 04/10/2025 13:02

MrsSkylerWhite · 04/10/2025 12:43

I wouldn’t want to be a naturalised citizen if Reform formed a government.

First they came …..,

We saw what happened in Manchester the other day didn't we.

MrsSkylerWhite · 04/10/2025 12:43

PurpleNurple23 · 20/09/2025 17:59

I don't support Reform but given that they've said they'll only deport people who come here illegally and foreign criminals I'm not worried. I'm also a naturalised UK citizen.

I wouldn’t want to be a naturalised citizen if Reform formed a government.

First they came …..,

usernamealreadytaken · 26/09/2025 21:31

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OwlBeThere · 26/09/2025 02:37

SpaceRaccoon · 25/09/2025 13:01

Yep. 600 quid for a GP visit will not win the hearts and minds of the locals:

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx2j3regpdno.amp

People absolutely are angry at them for coming. Read a comments section on Facebook one day on anything even vaguely related to immigrants and the bile spewed is absolutely mind blowing.

that story about the taxi is mental and a crazy waste of public funds, I agree. It’s not the fault of the immigrant though is it? It’s the organisation of things by seemingly incompetent government officials. I’m pretty
sure no one wants to do a 250 mile round trip to see a bloody doctor.

OwlBeThere · 26/09/2025 02:28

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:04

@OwlBeThere do you honestly think that interpreter services are a better use of public money than MPs (the democratic process) or the royal family (our heritage)?

We may have a right shower currently but the alternative is what? A dictatorship? A republican dictatorship? But yay! With plenty of interpreters!

I don’t see how not funding the royal family or crazy expenses from MPs means a dictatorship?
MPs get paid a nice amount of money, £93k basic wage is a lot of money. I don’t even object to them having a place to stay covered if their constituency is a long way from Westminster, but beyond that, they should pay their own way.
I don’t believe we should haves a royal family at all, i think it’s a gross concept and should be scrapped, but at the very least we shouldn’t be paying for them, these people are millionaires, why am i
paying for their wedding security?

OwlBeThere · 26/09/2025 02:21

usernamealreadytaken · 25/09/2025 21:16

So disabled migrants with NRPF can still access public funds?

Yes. Becuase the human rights act says everyone should have access to healthcare, and the NHS has a duty to treat all people equally.

OwlBeThere · 26/09/2025 02:19

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:04

@OwlBeThere do you honestly think that interpreter services are a better use of public money than MPs (the democratic process) or the royal family (our heritage)?

We may have a right shower currently but the alternative is what? A dictatorship? A republican dictatorship? But yay! With plenty of interpreters!

Do I think that interpreters who help ensure people get appropriate and timely medical care so they don’t potentially die Becuase they don’t understand the instructions, are a better use of public funds than Charles’s coronation or some MPs duck pond and chandeliers? Yes. Of course I do. I genuinely don’t understand why anyone wouldn’t think that.

usernamealreadytaken · 25/09/2025 21:16

OwlBeThere · 25/09/2025 01:01

Disabled people are protected under the equality act, and are entitled by law to interpreters and intervenors and any other services they need in order to get the same treatment as everyone else.
the cost of interpreters when put into context against other costs to the tax payer.
£132m the MPs of this country cost us.
The royal family cost us 86m officially , though others argue that it’s closer to 50m when you factor in security and so forth.

So disabled migrants with NRPF can still access public funds?

AnotherNC12345 · 25/09/2025 13:34

SpaceRaccoon · 25/09/2025 13:01

Yep. 600 quid for a GP visit will not win the hearts and minds of the locals:

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx2j3regpdno.amp

But this isn’t an issue with the asylum seeker. This is a process issue. Once again, placing the blame in the wrong place.

The article itself quotes that the reception desk use an automated system. No private taxi would charge you that amount if you pre-booked your own journey.

An example: my workplace booked me a train when I travelled on business (on a route I personally took often). The price on that ticket was £125. A ticket I’ve regularly been booking for £25 return.

  1. why aren’t these appointments taking place within a 10 mile radius. If availability is an issue, why isn’t the government looking at placing the money in to expanding services in that area. Not just for asylum seekers, but for all?
  2. find a more cost effective travel vendor
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38thparallel · 25/09/2025 13:09

SpaceRaccoon · Today 13:01
Yep. 600 quid for a GP visit will not win the hearts and minds of the locals

Why can’t they have their medical records sent to a nearer doctor?

SpaceRaccoon · 25/09/2025 13:01

Yep. 600 quid for a GP visit will not win the hearts and minds of the locals:

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx2j3regpdno.amp

Netcurtainnelly · 25/09/2025 12:05

arcticpandas · 17/09/2025 11:30

I don't think people are angry at asylum seekers for coming. I think they are angry when their housing + benefits are being paid for by the taxpayer.

Also the taxis. Have you heard about the amount of money that is being spent on taxis to appointments for them?

Daygloboo · 25/09/2025 11:48

AnotherNC12345 · 25/09/2025 11:05

Thanks. It’s been really sad to see that the thread took a turn to just general immigrant discussion, away from the actual question asked. The content brought it back to feel like all the other asylum seeker threads already existing which wasn’t the intent.

Yeah. Things often go off in weird directions on MN.

AnotherNC12345 · 25/09/2025 11:05

Daygloboo · 25/09/2025 10:45

I completely agree and think this is the most sensible post I've seen on this subject in ages. Sadly, it's probably human nature to get angry and then look round for the nearest person to blame..Although, weirdly, I do think there is a bit of a tendency in. this country for people to get on their high horse about things, or to be overly dramatic..Im sure qe used to be much more compassionate and sensible...

Thanks. It’s been really sad to see that the thread took a turn to just general immigrant discussion, away from the actual question asked. The content brought it back to feel like all the other asylum seeker threads already existing which wasn’t the intent.

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Daygloboo · 25/09/2025 10:45

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

I completely agree and think this is the most sensible post I've seen on this subject in ages. Sadly, it's probably human nature to get angry and then look round for the nearest person to blame..Although, weirdly, I do think there is a bit of a tendency in. this country for people to get on their high horse about things, or to be overly dramatic..Im sure qe used to be much more compassionate and sensible...

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:22

Whoops !!

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:04

@OwlBeThere do you honestly think that interpreter services are a better use of public money than MPs (the democratic process) or the royal family (our heritage)?

We may have a right shower currently but the alternative is what? A dictatorship? A republican dictatorship? But yay! With plenty of interpreters!

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:04

@OwlBeThere do you honestly think that interpreter services are a better use of public money than MPs (the democratic process) or the royal family (our heritage)?

We may have a right shower currently but the alternative is what? A dictatorship? A republican dictatorship? But yay! With plenty of interpreters!

MaturingCheeseball · 25/09/2025 06:04

@OwlBeThere do you honestly think that interpreter services are a better use of public money than MPs (the democratic process) or the royal family (our heritage)?

We may have a right shower currently but the alternative is what? A dictatorship? A republican dictatorship? But yay! With plenty of interpreters!

OwlBeThere · 25/09/2025 01:01

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 13:41

There's an argument for providing language interpretation services for asylum seekers/refugees for a limited amount of time, but not for economic migrants or those otherwise expected to support themselves - workers, students, tourists - which I assume those non-refugee deaf / deaf/blind users would fall under.

Disabled people are protected under the equality act, and are entitled by law to interpreters and intervenors and any other services they need in order to get the same treatment as everyone else.
the cost of interpreters when put into context against other costs to the tax payer.
£132m the MPs of this country cost us.
The royal family cost us 86m officially , though others argue that it’s closer to 50m when you factor in security and so forth.

OwlBeThere · 25/09/2025 00:50

usernamealreadytaken · 24/09/2025 13:38

Sorry, two different conversation threads, getting confused. The discussion about Brits moving to Spain was originally brought up by another poster, and we went off on a tangent. Recourse to public funds depends on their visa type or immigration status; those with LLR, EU migrants with settled or pre-settled status can access public funds, as can others with NRPF in some circumstances, such as when there's a child involved or they are destitute. Arguably, if you come as a legal migrant with NRPF and can't support yourself, you should return home.

Ah I see. It can get confusing with lots of people talking.

scorpiogirly · 24/09/2025 22:09

AnotherNC12345 · 17/09/2025 10:54

… rather than the smuggling / trafficking gangs that are responsible for the journey?

I think it’s very extreme to put all of the blame and the anger at the individual that arrives, rather than the people responsible for orchestrating the whole process. These individuals are often ‘sold the dream’ and hooked in by organised crime groups who direct them to the UK. I’ve looked at sample routes from different parts of the world (screenshots may be pending) and these are complex and would need local people, as well as law enforcement, customs officers and other government officials to turn a blind eye involved in smuggling across multiple borders.

It’s no secret that these crossings likely cost a lot of money, and I think it would be safe to assume that refugees would often be in crippling debt to the OCGs who will put pressure on them to pay it back, by threatening them and their families and I would go as far as to say they could then be coerced in to further committing crimes when granted asylum in order to pay back their debt.

These OCGs are likely involved in other trafficking / crime, not just of asylum seekers but likely drugs, weapons and sex as they have the connections across those borders.

I think it’s very unlikely that an asylum seeker is sitting there looking at all the European government websites and shopping for a country with the best benefits package and approaching a trafficker with a brochure like they’re picking a Jet2 holiday. But this is the narrative that’s often put us and fuelled in the media.

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a better system and want to control our borders better on a whole, but this sheer anger and blame placed at the human in front of us seems very misplaced, when they were likely manipulated in to thinking they can have a better life in this particular country and not another, and the problem is way way bigger than an individual.

I blame neither the illegal economic migrant or the smuggling gang. The blame lies firmly at the door of the Government, the Labour Government. Who in their right mind would refuse free board, houses, food, health treatment, taxis, electronics, yoga lessons, wigs, dental treatment, and pocket money?

Mind you, I have an unfettered hatred for the illegals who come here and feel free to r&pe women and children.

MsJinks · 24/09/2025 22:00

MaturingCheeseball · 24/09/2025 16:15

Yes, I simply can’t fathom why so many shops say they are struggling to afford staff: most Saturday jobs are a thing of the past and the NI costs etc are punitive.

YET in my small town there are I now think SEVEN barbers, all with multiple men working there. And I don’t think the local quite old population has much hair! Ditto three or four car washes - masses of guys scrubbing away.

The authorities seem to turn a completely blind eye to why certain businesses can afford whole legions of staff…

I don’t know about barbers, but car washes always seem pretty busy - but then there are trafficking or forced labour concerns.
I do understand some people taking cash in hand jobs, though I know it’s a terrible crime on mn, and I’m not saying these are all illegitimate - but they can be an absolute sweat shop, which is worrying - but it really doesn’t seem to be clamped down on.
Though Neither do I see protests there - not that I’d want to, but seems even SYL followers are happy when something benefits them.