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To think this is fraud and do I say something or stay out of it?

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doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:22

I have NC'd for this. A friend of mine NEVER has to pay for work on her house...she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business. She says they are doing the jobs as favours! surely this is fraud! do i stay out of it or say something (who do i even report to!!)She currentky has a landscper in doing the garden...just so happens to be the landscaper who does the work for said business!

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withgraceinmyheart · 20/09/2025 22:38

Elektra1 · 16/09/2025 16:30

Fraud can be both a civil and criminal offence. The burden of proof is higher for a criminal prosecution than a civil claim. Unless the OP’s friend lives in a very large property, the cost of landscaping will not be anywhere near high enough to merit the litigation risk (mainly in failing to recover costs from an impecunious defendant) in pursuing a civil claim. The one time I had a client want to do this, the sum involved was £600k. You’d have to be really going some with landscaping to be in 6 figures.

The police are unlikely to be interested in recommending a prosecution for a low value fraud.

Ah ok. The person I knew worked for a charity so it may be different. The trustees were legally required to report to police and charity commission and to conduct an internal investigation.

The police did prosecute and he was convicted even though the amount was around £3000 I think.

Elektra1 · 16/09/2025 22:30

thatsthatsaidthemayor · 16/09/2025 20:23

Not my circus not my monkey. However, If this was a politician or off shore billionaire I wonder if it would change opinions? People pick and choose when tax evasion is fair or not. The cash in hand builder/ cleaner meh. The millionaire using legal loopholes holes? Scum. Morals are morals.

Using “legal loopholes” is tax avoidance, not tax evasion. And the ability to use those “loopholes” applies equally to you, me, and Jeff Bezos. Tax evasion is unlawful, tax avoidance isn’t.

As a fairly pedestrian example, if I have an income of between £100k-£120k and also have a couple of pre school kids, I can avoid a punitive tax rate by putting more of my income into my pension so as to keep my taxable income below £100k, and retain my free childcare hours. That’s legal, and many people do it. There is nothing wrong with optimising your personal tax position within the bounds of the law.

thatsthatsaidthemayor · 16/09/2025 20:23

Not my circus not my monkey. However, If this was a politician or off shore billionaire I wonder if it would change opinions? People pick and choose when tax evasion is fair or not. The cash in hand builder/ cleaner meh. The millionaire using legal loopholes holes? Scum. Morals are morals.

Elektra1 · 16/09/2025 16:30

withgraceinmyheart · 16/09/2025 13:31

I know someone who was criminally prosecuted for stealing from his employer. He avoided prison time because the amounts (that they could prove) weren’t high enough.

I don’t understand how it’s a civil offence? I’m guessing the amounts are quite high if the perpetrator is having landscaping done.

Fraud can be both a civil and criminal offence. The burden of proof is higher for a criminal prosecution than a civil claim. Unless the OP’s friend lives in a very large property, the cost of landscaping will not be anywhere near high enough to merit the litigation risk (mainly in failing to recover costs from an impecunious defendant) in pursuing a civil claim. The one time I had a client want to do this, the sum involved was £600k. You’d have to be really going some with landscaping to be in 6 figures.

The police are unlikely to be interested in recommending a prosecution for a low value fraud.

Elektra1 · 16/09/2025 15:33

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 15:06

It theft by a person in a special relationship and more serious than normal theft here in New Zealand. Not sure about UK but sure it would be similar. If the firm was trying to recoup tools they had themselves lent employee that would be a civil matter.

No. Theft is theft but the offence of theft applies only to things, not services. It is not theft. It may be fraud but that is fraud by the employee. Companies do not like suing their employees for fraud because (1) it’s bad external PR, (2) it’s bad for internal morale and (3) the legal costs are high and usually the culprit is not going to be good for the money so a judgment would not be enforced (or not in full) and they wouldn’t recover their legal costs. I’ve investigated dozens of these cases and only once in 15 years has the company wanted to pursue it - and then abandoned the claim because the defendant became suicidal.

Bumblebee72 · 16/09/2025 15:18

Peeandbuppycat · 16/09/2025 15:10

My word people, let me clear this up for you.

If a company puts through their books personal expenses but classes them as a business expense - that is fraud.

OP you need to find out whether this is happening. If it is, yes it is very much fraud by reducing their corporation tax bill, reclaiming VAT (if this is applicable) and potentially not reporting or paying any benefit in kind tax!

The OP doesn't need any evidence. Just inform the companies directors. They have full access to the info to investigate if they want to. Either they will take action if this is allowed and not take action if it is.

Peeandbuppycat · 16/09/2025 15:10

My word people, let me clear this up for you.

If a company puts through their books personal expenses but classes them as a business expense - that is fraud.

OP you need to find out whether this is happening. If it is, yes it is very much fraud by reducing their corporation tax bill, reclaiming VAT (if this is applicable) and potentially not reporting or paying any benefit in kind tax!

ThreePears · 16/09/2025 15:06

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

Are you saying that Company A is paying for work to be done that they don't know about, and that the relative who works there is authorising the payments to Company B? If so, then it is the relative who works at Company A who is committing the fraud.

Is it a Limited Company?

SweetnsourNZ · 16/09/2025 15:06

Elektra1 · 16/09/2025 13:12

The posters who think that there would be any sort of criminal prosecution in these circumstances are rather over excited. This is a civil fraud perpetrated by the employee against his or her employer. There is no chance whatsoever that the employer would go to the police about this. I say that as a lawyer who has acted for many companies which have been defrauded by employees fiddling expenses or similar

It theft by a person in a special relationship and more serious than normal theft here in New Zealand. Not sure about UK but sure it would be similar. If the firm was trying to recoup tools they had themselves lent employee that would be a civil matter.

TeaAndTattoos · 16/09/2025 15:02

YABU it’s not fraud it’s only the same as a company doing something free for charity. You need to take your nose out of your “friends” business and keep it in your own. Jealousy doesn’t look good on you.

CicerosHead · 16/09/2025 14:57

A 'friend', you say.. Jesus, I hope I'll never meet 'friends' like you.

samarrange · 16/09/2025 14:25

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 11:04

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

If you are sure about this then you can write anonymously to the financial controller of Company A, with as much evidence as you can muster.

The problem is that you will need to consider the possibility that you will come under suspicion. The financial controller will go along to accounts and ask who placed the order for landscaping (and previous work) at 32 Acacia Road. Word will get to the relative of the householder within Company A, who will probably work out that they were dobbed in by a neighbour, unless you can persuade the FC to portray it as a random spot check — but that would probably require them to pull "every order from week 29" and that would be a lot of work.

So you have a dilemma, trading off your concern for the right thing being done (assuming you are confident in your facts) versus the fact that nobody likes a snitch.

HoppingPavlova · 16/09/2025 14:21

@Burntatbothends This is obviously also illegal under the bribery act

It’s not bribery though. No one is forcing anyone. There’s a choice. If someone doesn’t want that as part of doing business they are free to say no, and take up other work elsewhere. Maybe it’s not an attractive proposition for anyone, in which case no one will agree. It’s obviously an attractive enough proposition if people are agreeing.

starfishmummy · 16/09/2025 14:17

I suspecr there are three possible scenarios here. What they are telling you, what you think is happening and somewhere in the middle is the truth - which is none of your business anyway.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 16/09/2025 13:57

I think this sort of thing is really common. I worked as a cleaner at a dental practice and I charged them £25 ph (self employed). I did a fortnightly clean for them at home 4 hours @£5ph. I’d of justified it as mates rates were HMRC ever to ask me about it.

NotToday1l · 16/09/2025 13:54

RosaMundi27 · 16/09/2025 09:25

Mind your own business.
And stop calling yourself her friend - you've just proved that you're not.

Agree

HearstOida · 16/09/2025 13:53

NNforthispost · 16/09/2025 13:44

This. I can’t see any way it is fraud unless your friend is paying a non variable rate as cash in hand and it’s not going through the books. She’s probably just getting freebies so what does that matter? There’s plenty of times I’ve done bits of legal work in my own time off the clock - mainly to make sure clients don’t get a huge unexpected bill. Especially if they’re a good client. It’s not fraud - just non chargeable.

From what the OP explains, the analogy is not you working off the clock. It’s closer to you doing 10 hours for a legit client, 10 hours for your mum, and billing your company for 20 hours under the client’s name only. Probably not OK where any of us work.

Lolalovesroses · 16/09/2025 13:49

Stay out of it, nothing to do with you and be happy for your friend.

Lovingbooks · 16/09/2025 13:45

Isn’t this just a family member helping her out if it’s his company? I had work done on my garden my friends wouldn’t know who was paying for it or my neighbours. You have zero evidence of anything. What fraud could it be? presumably labour/ materials come from somewhere or are you just guessing that she is not paying and are bitter about it.

Friendlygingercat · 16/09/2025 13:44

I agree with the posters who said to mind your own affairs. I have no idea how you came into possession of these details about the company business finances but your friend has been unwise in trusting you with this info. My family know little about my financial affairs and my neighbours dont even know my name.

NNforthispost · 16/09/2025 13:44

KoiTetra · 16/09/2025 09:27

Why would that be fraud? Have you ever helped out a friend and not expected payment for anything? This is the same thing but on a larger scale.

A company is allowed to charge whatever they want including nothing for a job if they choose to do so.

This. I can’t see any way it is fraud unless your friend is paying a non variable rate as cash in hand and it’s not going through the books. She’s probably just getting freebies so what does that matter? There’s plenty of times I’ve done bits of legal work in my own time off the clock - mainly to make sure clients don’t get a huge unexpected bill. Especially if they’re a good client. It’s not fraud - just non chargeable.

Burntatbothends · 16/09/2025 13:40

HoppingPavlova · 16/09/2025 13:11

yes this. The relative does not own company A...the job is being carried out by company B and Company A pays...unknowingly!

OP, how fo you know that’s the case though? Have you sighted this in the company books personally?

There’s lots of instances where business’s will award work/tenders to people with certain backdoor conditions. For example, we’ll award you the landscaping work at our business if you do some required landscaping at my MIL’s for free. It’s then not a case of the business paying for the landscaping at the MIL’s place, rather the landscaper thinking overall, while sucking up the loss incurred by doing the MIL work they will still come out ahead by agreeing to this. It’s definitely not uncommon. My understanding is that this is only prohibited with government/public agencies awarding work or tenders but it’s not at all prohibited with private companies/businesses awarding work.

I’m thinking you likely have no idea or evidence how all this is actually working, in which case it’s best to remove your beak.

This is obviously also illegal under the bribery act.

HisNibs · 16/09/2025 13:38

Can OP offer a single piece of real evidence that fraud or embezzlement is being committed? Of course not otherwise they would already have done so.

Yes, it could potentially be fraudulent or the relative could be embezzling company funds but that is for the company to deal with. It could also be perfectly above board i.e. the company know it's being done (therefore no embezzlement) and the correct taxes are being paid (not fraudulent). No evidence, no crime.

Everything else here is pure conjecture. The only thing we can be certain of is that OPs friend is not really a friend.

ginasevern · 16/09/2025 13:34

OP, I assume you work for "Company A"? Otherwise what's your skin in the game?

LittleMi55Nobody · 16/09/2025 13:34

doitellthem · 16/09/2025 09:22

I have NC'd for this. A friend of mine NEVER has to pay for work on her house...she has a family member who is high up in a business and so all of the work is put through the business. She says they are doing the jobs as favours! surely this is fraud! do i stay out of it or say something (who do i even report to!!)She currentky has a landscper in doing the garden...just so happens to be the landscaper who does the work for said business!

how is this any of your business ??