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For the love of anything Holy, PLEASE get yourself some good critical illness insurance

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CornbreadCooking · 15/09/2025 00:25

A few years ago we signed up for really good critical illness cover, it’s been a bit of a drag paying for it some months but we kept it going because ‘who knows what the future holds’ DH and I have both been diagnosed with cancer this month and because we have critical illness cover for us both we are eligible for ; lump sum to pay off the mortgage, 2 lump sums (1 each for our respective cancers) and in 6 months when the sick pay runs out our cover will continue to pay the equivalent of our salaries up until retirement age if one or both of us cannot return to work. So 20 years of full salary paid up until pension eligibility. It also covered diagnosis and will pay for potential medical treatment in America if dh’s cancer requires proton beam and we can’t get into the nhs quick enough. It will pay for me to go with him and stay in a hotel whilst he recovers.

I am SO glad we kept the illness cover and I urge you please to look into it. I stumbled on a woman on TikTok who was talking about how important insurance is so I decided to be an adult and get some, and I am so glad I did.

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Kirbert2 · 15/09/2025 00:54

CornbreadCooking · 15/09/2025 00:34

I am really sorry you lost your job because of it. That’s appalling. I know it doesn’t change what happened for you but you can add it on for children so that you can remain able to pay bills etc.

treatment will be hard but quick so we’ll get through it xx

I had no idea that it could cover children too, I always assumed it was just adults for whatever reason. I definitely wish I had it but then it can be so expensive, it's a shame not everyone can afford it.

I'm glad to hear that it will be quick.

CornbreadCooking · 15/09/2025 00:48

Numberedout · 15/09/2025 00:46

So sorry you are going through this x.

I have tried to get health insurance including critical care cover but it's extortionate! I have ME CFS and think that may be the reason why.

Mine was for cancer that excluded a previous cancer I had, cost £60 a month for me which felt a lot at the time !! It is worth it though if you can

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Numberedout · 15/09/2025 00:46

So sorry you are going through this x.

I have tried to get health insurance including critical care cover but it's extortionate! I have ME CFS and think that may be the reason why.

CornbreadCooking · 15/09/2025 00:34

Kirbert2 · 15/09/2025 00:31

I'm really sorry that both of you have been diagnosed with cancer and in the same month too! I hope the treatment goes well for both of you.

Critical illness insurance is great if you can afford it or if it is an adult that gets ill. It was my son who had cancer last year and I lost my job due to it.

I am really sorry you lost your job because of it. That’s appalling. I know it doesn’t change what happened for you but you can add it on for children so that you can remain able to pay bills etc.

treatment will be hard but quick so we’ll get through it xx

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Kirbert2 · 15/09/2025 00:31

I'm really sorry that both of you have been diagnosed with cancer and in the same month too! I hope the treatment goes well for both of you.

Critical illness insurance is great if you can afford it or if it is an adult that gets ill. It was my son who had cancer last year and I lost my job due to it.

Nothankyov · 15/09/2025 00:30

I am so so sorry you’re going through this. I wish you strength. It’s weird because I was just saying to my husband yesterday (after watching something on the news), that when we go back to the UK (as you might have guessed we don’t live in the uk atm) we need to make sure we have both private health insurance and critical care - and think it’s the only way forward.

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