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Ex at door shouting through intercom that I am ripping him off.

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VenusJupiter · 14/09/2025 17:30

I applied for CM for DD . Ex basically asked us to leave and was a complete narcissistic bully when I was staying with him.
He also twisted everything and my mum believed him..

Anyway he has since been at my entrance door( I refuse to let him up) buzzing and shouting down the intercom that I am ripping him off. I take it CM have contacted him.

I will not allow him in and I'm worried he runs off with DD. I'm not allowing him to see her and I'm thinking now to go for full PR.

I can't co parent with him as all he has done is lie to HV, SW and GP etc. They are aware that it's fabricated because all he did was work 24/7 and meet his mate when DD was 2 - 3 months. DD is on her way to being 6 months.

Everytime he has seen us in the street he never acknowledges her and goes straight for me , filming me , calling me selfish.. I don't know what he thinks his filming of me is going to achieve.

Sometimes I feel guilty because she has reached so many milestones , but I really am dealing with a narcissistic man child.

I feel legal action is the only way forward.

He applied for her passport , withheld it from her , refuses to hand it over and also won't give me the seat for her pram to convert it from a basinette to sitting up.

I could go on, but won't. I went through HELL with this so called man.

Now he is saying I'm ripping him off by going to CM.
He hasn't bothered to bring any formula etc for her.

OP posts:
Whateverwillwedonow · 14/09/2025 17:36

I would go to the police.

VenusJupiter · 14/09/2025 17:36

I think it may have to come to that if this continues.

OP posts:
Azandme · 14/09/2025 17:35

Call the police. You are being harassed. He won't leave.

ginasevern · 14/09/2025 17:34

Can't you report him for harrassment?

CasualDayHasGoneTooFar · 14/09/2025 17:32

Record him ranting at you.

Keep it.

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