my Partner is a good partner and a great dad however I am carrying a huge load of our day to day lives. We have a 1 year old and I do all the appointments and admin, all the washing, cleaning and hoovering. He will occasionally do the washing up say once every couple of weeks however he says he doesn’t like to clean as I will criticise him. He will always leave boxers and dirty clothes lying about. He pays for the bills and the mortgage but I pay for all our food and the nursery bill. I organise all the food shppping and meals and near enough everything else you can think of barring a bit of diy here and there. Obviously the way I have worded this post it’s in my favour but that’s because I definitely do a lot more in my opinion. Is this normal or am I doing too much?