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morethanspice · 14/09/2025 05:52

I work in the care sector and payday falls on a weekend day this month. I’m new to this company but a colleague told me our pay would be in on Friday. It wasn’t and hasn’t appeared over the weekend. I’m assuming Monday now but that will mess up my direct debits as they come out of a different account. My manager is on holiday and doesn’t want to be contacted unless it’s an emergency which obviously it isn’t but it’s caused some anxiety for me. Is it unreasonable to want paid on or before the payday or is it reasonable to have to wait in these circumstances?

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morethanspice · 16/09/2025 08:50

Ohthedaffodils · 16/09/2025 08:38

This reminds me of a time I worked as an agency nurse in a nursing home. The carers (all of them) didn’t get paid at all one December. NH owner had jetted off to America for Christmas with their pay.
Nearly all the staff had young children and really needed that money.
The owner was a despicable little man.
My agency paid me. I spent most of my day off the next day phoning ACAS, citizens advice etc but nothing could be done.

They should have been paid 23rd December. I think they finally got paid 15th January.

That’s truly appalling

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Ohthedaffodils · 16/09/2025 08:38

This reminds me of a time I worked as an agency nurse in a nursing home. The carers (all of them) didn’t get paid at all one December. NH owner had jetted off to America for Christmas with their pay.
Nearly all the staff had young children and really needed that money.
The owner was a despicable little man.
My agency paid me. I spent most of my day off the next day phoning ACAS, citizens advice etc but nothing could be done.

They should have been paid 23rd December. I think they finally got paid 15th January.

morethanspice · 16/09/2025 08:21

The manager uses an accountantbut I have checked our contracts and payday is definitely the 14th.In future I will be looking more closely at my payslip. We already get paid two weeks plus in arrears so an extra day is annoying. In other similar jobs I’ve been paid weekly without fail.

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landlordhell · 16/09/2025 06:38

Yes if payday falls on a weekend you should get it before the weekend. I would email your boss and ask for clarification. If for some reason there was a delay/ error the company should make you aware and apologise/ make arrangements to assist you.

winter8090 · 16/09/2025 06:34

morethanspice · 16/09/2025 05:30

So just to update, the payslip actually says paid on the 15th. Contract says payday is the 14th. So this was a deliberate decision to pay us late. I hadn’t noticed this as it’s in small print and also as I had wrongly assumed it would be on or before our contractual payday.

No you rightly assumed it would be there by the due date as it should have been.
I suggest asking why it was late and asking for future pay dates.

winter8090 · 16/09/2025 06:32

YANBU
its a contractual right to be paid by the due date. If this falls on a weekend, it should be early.
Get in touch with your manager.
You are entitled to be paid on time. No excuses.

Bjorkdidit · 16/09/2025 06:22

But if it's in their contract that payday is the 14th, they should be paid by then. It is absolutely not acceptable to pay people late, especially low paid workers, and especially without telling them.

If that was the reason then the manager should have sorted pay before he went on leave, rather than swan off for a nice break while his workers fretted about paying their bills.

Suednymph · 16/09/2025 06:17

morethanspice · 16/09/2025 05:30

So just to update, the payslip actually says paid on the 15th. Contract says payday is the 14th. So this was a deliberate decision to pay us late. I hadn’t noticed this as it’s in small print and also as I had wrongly assumed it would be on or before our contractual payday.

The 14th was a sunday though and if your manager does payroll and was holiday maybe they just paid you on the monday instead so they could have their holiday undisturbed maybe?

Bjorkdidit · 16/09/2025 06:10

Glad you got paid OP. If you or any of your colleagues had bank charges due to this, make sure you ask for reimbursement from your employer.

But make it clear that, even if no-one has been charged, late payment is not acceptable.

It could have knock on effects for people's credit rating, universal credit entitlement or leave them unable to pay for essentials. It doesn't matter that it's only one day, your contract says you should be paid on or before the 14th, so that's what they must do.

morethanspice · 16/09/2025 05:30

So just to update, the payslip actually says paid on the 15th. Contract says payday is the 14th. So this was a deliberate decision to pay us late. I hadn’t noticed this as it’s in small print and also as I had wrongly assumed it would be on or before our contractual payday.

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bridgetreilly · 16/09/2025 01:22

If it’s possible to move your direct debits/standing orders, I always try to set mine up to go out a few days after payday, so I’m not panicking if this sort of thing happens. But I would definitely talk to them and clarify what to expect and point out that it’s not acceptable to be paid late.

MrsMoastyToasty · 16/09/2025 00:00

If you've gone into an unauthorised overdraft because of the late payment then ask your employer to reimburse any overdraft fees.

CheeseWisely · 15/09/2025 22:33

I think it depends on the bank. I bank with the same bank (same branch in fact) as my employer and if our second to last working day of the month payday falls on a Monday it always clears for me on Saturday. Colleagues with other banks get it on the Monday.

LoyalMember · 15/09/2025 21:31

I'm paid on the 28th every month and, if that's on a weekend, it always without fail is paid on the Friday before. I imagine most firms, if not all, do this.

dollyblue01 · 15/09/2025 20:54

It’s probably their bank is different to yours , Halifax , Monzo are early if it falls on a Monday pay day , but NatWest would be after 12am on the Monday morning.

morethanspice · 15/09/2025 20:34

Hi, we all got paid yesterday, a day later than our contract states but just glad I’ve got it. Thank you to everyone who replied, it helped a lot.

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topcat2014 · 15/09/2025 19:12

Any news OP?

StewkeyBlue · 14/09/2025 09:55

morethanspice · 14/09/2025 07:51

I’m not intending to contact him today, he’s on holiday and it’s a Sunday. I agree re moving the payments a few days back. But feel, in this sector which is long hours and low pay the least that could happen is that we are paid by the due date.

Yes, it’s frustrating.

I worked in a sector with similar low pay / anti social hours. Payday was specified in the contract but we usually paid a couple of days earlier to allow for problems / leeway.

Then staff complained if we paid on the stated day rather than the earlier day.

I hope everything works out for you.

morethanspice · 14/09/2025 07:51

I’m not intending to contact him today, he’s on holiday and it’s a Sunday. I agree re moving the payments a few days back. But feel, in this sector which is long hours and low pay the least that could happen is that we are paid by the due date.

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ComfortFoodCafe · 14/09/2025 07:47

No dont contact your manager on a Sunday, theres nothing they can do today. Just see if it goes in tomorrow its highly likely it will and change your DDs so they come out a few days later.

Moonnstars · 14/09/2025 07:44

So it won't help on this occasion but I would after this payment has gone out, change the date of your direct debits so that they are a few days after payday so you know you will have time to move money around.. alternatively move the direct debits or give work the account details for the one these come out of so the money is in the same account that things come out of.

StewkeyBlue · 14/09/2025 07:38

OP I wouldn’t contact your manager about this today, there is presumably nothing they can do on a Sunday.

As this is likely to be an issue in the future is it possible to change the day your DDs go out to give you a few days leeway after payday? The two most recent ones I set up asked me what day of the month I wanted them to go out.

morethanspice · 14/09/2025 07:37

I didn’t ask my manager because my colleague mentioned it to me, I didn’t ask her as I hadn’t thought about it, she said oh well get paid on Friday as it’s always in early if payday falls on a weekend. So that is the norm in this company. And the manager is abroad and there’s no one in charge here.

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Moonnstars · 14/09/2025 07:31

overnightangel · 14/09/2025 06:39

20% of people voting YABU, WTF is wrong with them?

I have voted this way for the OP not to have asked her manager, especially if this was going to be a big concern. They clearly were worried enough to mention it to a colleague, so I would have asked someone more senior to check.
Where I work ours usually gets paid the day before if payday falls on a weekend, but that's with a local authority.

topcat2014 · 14/09/2025 07:20

Sounds like an employer problem. Kick up a fuss on Monday. Payday is part of your contract of employment and not variable