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To think it's impossible to eat a UPF free diet as an ordinary person?

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MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:14

I mean ordinary as in, works full time, earns a decent but not huge wage, has free time but not entire days at a time to dedicate to cooking etc.

I'm on a bit of a health kick, and have turned my attention to eating whole foods and ensuring I'm eating as healthy as possible as we come into winter.

I've had a sourdough starter on the go for a while and decided I'd knock up some bread rolls and soup to have for lunch in the coming week because it's turned cold. Figured it would be a great, low UPF meal. Until I googled the beef stock, which is apparently a really bad UPF! Even the super expensive all natural concentrates are UPF. So unless you can afford to buy and boil a load of beef bones, it seems you're out of luck.

Obviously you can do the normal things like avoiding crisps, protein shakes etc. as they're all full of UPF, but when even things like stock cubes are stuffed full of them, it just seems impossible! AIBU to think it's just become impossible to eat a UPF free diet?

OP posts:
Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:44

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:29

I don't mean to be cheeky, but you are aware that this is quite a privileged comment?
Some people don't have gardens, let alone gardens with blackberries or rosemary in.
Some people couldn't afford to eat 4 poached eggs for one meal.
Some people won't even know what soffrito is.

There are many people who could think of alternatives, though, to suit their circumstances and budget. I don't think the PP was recommending it as the best, most accessible diet for all, more giving examples of UPF free diet. Anyone else is free to take that info and adapt it to suit their circumstances - I don't think it's the posters job to do that for other people every time they post. And anyone who genuinely wants to learn can Google what a soffrito is in the time it takes to post a reply.

For example, just off the top of my head, four eggs could be substituted for two eggs, one slice of bread, an apple and a glass of milk. I'd go so far as to say that'd actually be healthier anyway.
Blackberries could be substituted for bananas, tinned peaches or frozen berries.
Oxtail is fairly cheap, or used to be. Boiler chickens can be available cheap from the butchers for stews, or a high fibre/protein alternative is a stew with a soffrito (celery and onions are cheap) made from tinned beans and a dash of oil. And dried herbs are obviously available more cheaply than fresh.

Seriously, I get it can be frustrating when you're restricted, but it really isn't every posters responsibility to make sure their circumstances are also easily accessible for everyone else. Especially as there was no judgement from her about what others do/don't do. If you genuinely want to learn from others, it can be actually helpful to hear what others do, because you can adapt it to suit you. If you want to, that is.

phoenixrosehere · 13/09/2025 16:44

ChelseaDetective · 13/09/2025 16:24

I disagree. I make soup a lot but never have bones in the house as I eat very little meat and never on the bone.

I don’t like just water (shades of Woolton pie!) so I use miso, Freya or refrigerated bone broth, marmite or yes, a stock cube, (though usually not OXO).

Its all fine. The key is balance overall.

Same, l don’t eat a lot of meat either. I switched to using red and white miso pastes and actually prefer it over the stock pots.

Plus, I don’t use it for just soups. Use the miso for making sauces, dressings, marinades, etc..

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:44

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:40

It's the weird texture and lack of actual taste.
I have baked many different breads in the past and also tried a variety of decent loaves from local bakeries, so it's not as if I only like very processed supermarket loaves.

I get it. I don't like foccacia. Like you I have tried an artisan version and made my own.

HostaCentral · 13/09/2025 16:43

You can do it by eating simply, and buying the "best" ingredients. You can buy fresh stock, fresh egg pasta, you can cook just fish and meat with vegetables and salads. Yoghurt and fruit for breakfast.

I do..... But..... I do also eat crisps and biscuits, because otherwise life would be dull.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:42

Mossssy · 13/09/2025 14:37

Do you live near a co-op? Their in store bakery bread is pretty good. The only additional ingredient is ascorbic acid (vitamin C).
I don't know what other supermarkets put in their in store bakery bread but maybe it's worth checking the ingredients.

With the six hours a week you'll save on the sourdough, you can hunt your own cows and boil their bones.

I don't even need to hunt cows.....they're literally standing in fields 5 mins away! They're too cute to boil though. 😔

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:41

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:38

That’s a valid point. I was just surprised by the number of ‘its impossible’ comments, so I guess the caveat could be ‘it’s impossible on a budget.’

Of course budget affects it, that's the main issue for many folk.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:40

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:37

I think its definitely a marmite food but often its the rye in sourdough that people dislike. Personally I can't stand even the smell of rye. While I know its said to be "healthier" than the same ingredients made into normal bread, even though I enjoy it, I am unconvinced about the health benefits.

It's the weird texture and lack of actual taste.
I have baked many different breads in the past and also tried a variety of decent loaves from local bakeries, so it's not as if I only like very processed supermarket loaves.

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:38

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:29

I don't mean to be cheeky, but you are aware that this is quite a privileged comment?
Some people don't have gardens, let alone gardens with blackberries or rosemary in.
Some people couldn't afford to eat 4 poached eggs for one meal.
Some people won't even know what soffrito is.

That’s a valid point. I was just surprised by the number of ‘its impossible’ comments, so I guess the caveat could be ‘it’s impossible on a budget.’

Thingscouldntgetanyworse · 13/09/2025 16:37

What is UPF? Haha

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:37

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 15:39

No Ocado deliveries anywhere near us, thanks though.
Maybe Sourdough is an acquired taste, but I honestly find it just unpleasant.

I think its definitely a marmite food but often its the rye in sourdough that people dislike. Personally I can't stand even the smell of rye. While I know its said to be "healthier" than the same ingredients made into normal bread, even though I enjoy it, I am unconvinced about the health benefits.

Dogaredabomb · 13/09/2025 16:37

Mossssy · 13/09/2025 14:37

Do you live near a co-op? Their in store bakery bread is pretty good. The only additional ingredient is ascorbic acid (vitamin C).
I don't know what other supermarkets put in their in store bakery bread but maybe it's worth checking the ingredients.

With the six hours a week you'll save on the sourdough, you can hunt your own cows and boil their bones.

You made me laugh out loud 😂

friskery · 13/09/2025 16:36

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 15:49

To me it just ruins the whole point. May as well eat a tin of Heinz for all the effort, just for it to end up the UPF!

The point of cutting down UPF is to benefit your health, not to be the best most pure non-UPF person ever.
You don't get a medal.

LaurieFairyCake · 13/09/2025 16:33

I’ve moved almost entirely non upf in last month.

verycloakanddaggers · 13/09/2025 16:33

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:54

Fuelling your body should of course be cheap and easy!

It can be, if you choose cheap and easy things Hmm

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:31

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:27

Honestly people, try your meals without a stock cube. Chuck some herbs in instead, maybe a bouquet Garni, maybe nothing. Get back to me if you can even taste the difference.

Honestly, I know which meals benefit from addition of a stock cube, and how to use seasonings and herbs and spices, and yes, I can taste the difference.

NapoleonsToe · 13/09/2025 16:29

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:40

But sourdough is better for you and thus the better idea, the entire point is to eat healthily! It's just madness to me that the only option is to invest a ton of time, or money, into something that should be cheap and easy

Sourdough is no better for you than a homemade wholemeal loaf with lots of added seeds, in fact the wholemeal loaf is probably a much better choice. Buy a breadmaker if it takes too to much time.

Just make small changes. I've seen people on here debating which tinned tomatoes arenit UPF. I mean, tinned tomatoes are a good choice, there's no need to overthink it.

Loads of fresh fruit and veg, quality protein and good fats. That's about it, unless you're an influencer or have a book to flog.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:29

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:22

I’m really surprised by the ‘it’s impossible’ comments, of course it isn’t. And regarding spending 6 hours on sourdough, isn’t it obvious to just not eat it if it takes that much time?!

dd has had today -
poached eggs x 4, blackberries from the garden, kiwis and a pomegranate.

she made an oxtail stew with oxtail, rosemary from the garden, soffrito, leeks and butternut. She’s made mash to go with it from potatoes and Kerry gold.

I don't mean to be cheeky, but you are aware that this is quite a privileged comment?
Some people don't have gardens, let alone gardens with blackberries or rosemary in.
Some people couldn't afford to eat 4 poached eggs for one meal.
Some people won't even know what soffrito is.

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:27

Honestly people, try your meals without a stock cube. Chuck some herbs in instead, maybe a bouquet Garni, maybe nothing. Get back to me if you can even taste the difference.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:26

Destiny123 · 13/09/2025 16:23

M&s sell upf stock in a jar and only tiny bit more expensive but yea it's in all sorts once you start looking for it. Bisto old fashioned cardboard square box is upf

No M and S remotely near us, sadly.

OtherS · 13/09/2025 16:25

ChelseaDetective · 13/09/2025 16:12

@OtherS When you say ‘oats with milk’ do you mean just that? I’d love to eat porridge as I like the taste of oats but struggle massively with the warmth and texture of it.

Even the thought of ‘overnight’ oats with yoghurt going claggy and separated in the fridge turns me off.

Just oats with milk could be a go - er!

Oh no, I heat it, sorry! I just said oats rather than porridge as I buy plain jumbo oats rather than a processed porridge. I just put oats and milk into a pan and cook for about 5 minutes. I don't like the thought of overnight oats, though I've not tried it. But cold porridge doesn't sound very appealing! I think that porridge is always going to be claggy, but it shouldn't separate if you remember to stir. Though if you wander off to make coffee / lunch and forget about it, it turns into a solid lump, so that might work if you don't want it to separate!

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:25

Lookingforhomesolutions · 13/09/2025 16:21

I mean this in the nicest way possible but I think the way you are thinking about all of this is a bit irrational/rigid - sorry. To me that is like saying you want to cut down on alcohol but that if you have a glass of wine one night you might as well drink a bottle of vodka after it.

Completely agree!
And, I might get slated for this, but the odd canned item isn't the end of the world either. An average person on an average income, or less, has to make different choices to those with unlimited income and/or time - less UPF is still a good approach, if no UPF seems unreachable/unrealistic. Balance matters.

Gingercar · 13/09/2025 16:24

InfoSecInTheCity · 13/09/2025 14:22

The problem is wanting to eat UPF free in the first place. If you eat a diet that high in UPFs then yes it’s not great but that doesn’t mean that the only alternative is to have none at all. You can just moderate your intake. So buy your bread, get something with whole grains and seeds in it to get more nutritional benefit and accept that it has some preservatives because that’s what allows them to sell it days after it was made.

If you need to use ready made stock in order to then get a whole load of lean high quality protein and a range of vegetables that give you vitamins, minerals and fibre then that’s fine.

Its the all or nothing approach that’s impossible to sustain.

I agree. This is my approach too.

ChelseaDetective · 13/09/2025 16:24

estellacandance · 13/09/2025 16:14

Soup should be made with stock. Cubes are disgusting & full of crap.

Just keep the bones from whenever you have meat, make stock & freeze it for when you want soup. Boiling bones is so easy!

I disagree. I make soup a lot but never have bones in the house as I eat very little meat and never on the bone.

I don’t like just water (shades of Woolton pie!) so I use miso, Freya or refrigerated bone broth, marmite or yes, a stock cube, (though usually not OXO).

Its all fine. The key is balance overall.

Destiny123 · 13/09/2025 16:23

M&s sell upf stock in a jar and only tiny bit more expensive but yea it's in all sorts once you start looking for it. Bisto old fashioned cardboard square box is upf

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:23

Oh and she seared the oxtail in beef tallow bought from Amazon