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To think it's impossible to eat a UPF free diet as an ordinary person?

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MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:14

I mean ordinary as in, works full time, earns a decent but not huge wage, has free time but not entire days at a time to dedicate to cooking etc.

I'm on a bit of a health kick, and have turned my attention to eating whole foods and ensuring I'm eating as healthy as possible as we come into winter.

I've had a sourdough starter on the go for a while and decided I'd knock up some bread rolls and soup to have for lunch in the coming week because it's turned cold. Figured it would be a great, low UPF meal. Until I googled the beef stock, which is apparently a really bad UPF! Even the super expensive all natural concentrates are UPF. So unless you can afford to buy and boil a load of beef bones, it seems you're out of luck.

Obviously you can do the normal things like avoiding crisps, protein shakes etc. as they're all full of UPF, but when even things like stock cubes are stuffed full of them, it just seems impossible! AIBU to think it's just become impossible to eat a UPF free diet?

OP posts:
arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 17:00

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:58

I rarely roast meat, hence that not really being an option for me. Stock cubes aren't the devil incarnate though, they're fine every now and then.

For sure, but like I said upthread, UPFs are a no go now for dd, so stock cubes have gone from my shopping list, and I can’t tell the difference. I think they’re a trick!

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 17:00

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:58

I know, I first had it in Italy and wanted to recreate it, couldnt believe the price of it and it was 1.5x the price at the butchers than in Sainsburys, so Sainsburys got my pennies that day

Oxtail has become more popular, due in part to certain celebrity chefs, sadly that often means price increases. It's not my cup of tea at all, but I know a lot of folk really rate it.

SumUp · 13/09/2025 17:00

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:27

But is it? Who has 6 hours free to make a sourdough every few days?!

It’s easy with a bread maker once you get into a routine with it. It takes 10-15 min per day for a loaf. Or buy one from an artisan bakery - the bakery near me makes loaves that have just flour, sourdough starter and water, a handful of sesame or poppy seeds. They are about £4 but I get one when I want a break.

Oftenaddled · 13/09/2025 17:00

Miso paste is certainly not always UPF, by the way, for anyone concerned about that. For example: https://umami-chef.co.uk/miso-faq-2

Miso - Frequently Asked Questions - Umami Chef

Frequently asked questions about miso and fermented bean pastes

https://umami-chef.co.uk/miso-faq-2

Sourdough4ever · 13/09/2025 16:59

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:35

It's a nightmare. It shouldn't be this expensive to eat real food!

This I 100% agree with. Eating crap shouldn't be cheaper.
But my sourdough only takes less than 10 mins hands on attention, even if I use a no knead method. Most of the time is waiting around for the next stage.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:58

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:55

I know it isn’t, I was just trying to be nice.

but also re the ‘life’s too short to make stock’ type comments. You just take the carcass of whatever meat you’ve had (a roasted chicken, a leg of lamb whatever) and dump it in some water. 2 mins tops.

I rarely roast meat, hence that not really being an option for me. Stock cubes aren't the devil incarnate though, they're fine every now and then.

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:58

Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:51

I know! I couldn't believe it when I dropped by the butchers the other month. I remember when we were first married I'd use it loads because it was so cheap and delicious. I left without it 😩

I know, I first had it in Italy and wanted to recreate it, couldnt believe the price of it and it was 1.5x the price at the butchers than in Sainsburys, so Sainsburys got my pennies that day

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:57

Sourdough4ever · 13/09/2025 16:54

@MyHealthyMission My get around for stock, is making my own. But I don't put any effort into it.
I simply keep the juices from any roasted meat. I separate the fat and the good stuff, but that's about it. I keep the fat for roasting potatoes, etc, and I keep the juices and jelly for stock. I keep it all frozen in small bags, so it doesn't take up much room.

I'd do that if I actually roasted meat - tbh I roast meat once or twice a year. I do cook some meats in the slow cooker, but also not that regularly. I have a well stocked spice, herb and seasoning shelf, and use the odd stock cube when required.

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:56

NapoleonsToe · 13/09/2025 16:47

You can make sourdough without rye, I prefer it without.

me too.

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:55

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:47

It isnt impossible on a budget and no one needs to eat 4 eggs in a sitting, they might want to but its not required for health reasons or anything.

Its much more possible to save money and have cheaper grocery costs by eating a low or lower processed diet. Veg, pulses, lentils, some nuts, some fruit, some tinned fish, some fats. Thats it.

I know it isn’t, I was just trying to be nice.

but also re the ‘life’s too short to make stock’ type comments. You just take the carcass of whatever meat you’ve had (a roasted chicken, a leg of lamb whatever) and dump it in some water. 2 mins tops.

Sourdough4ever · 13/09/2025 16:54

@MyHealthyMission My get around for stock, is making my own. But I don't put any effort into it.
I simply keep the juices from any roasted meat. I separate the fat and the good stuff, but that's about it. I keep the fat for roasting potatoes, etc, and I keep the juices and jelly for stock. I keep it all frozen in small bags, so it doesn't take up much room.

Oftenaddled · 13/09/2025 16:53

Jam is processed food - you're just processing fruit at home, often with the same ingredients as the commercial product. Not ultra processed I suppose. So I'd use that time differently if busy.

Bread is often the only ultra processed food I buy. But I can make soda bread in ten minutes and people with breadmakers seem to find that quick too.

I am as far as I can imagine from a domestic goddess, and not particularly efficient. I don't mean this unkindly, but if bread, soup and jam are taking this much of your time, you need better equipment, different recipes, or just more practice, so don't give up but start looking at where your time is going.

Two hours with them all on the go simultaneously should do it, I would expect.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:53

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:47

It isnt impossible on a budget and no one needs to eat 4 eggs in a sitting, they might want to but its not required for health reasons or anything.

Its much more possible to save money and have cheaper grocery costs by eating a low or lower processed diet. Veg, pulses, lentils, some nuts, some fruit, some tinned fish, some fats. Thats it.

I agree that it's not impossible on a budget, however some folk just don't seem aware that others actually have to budget. Anyway pp didn't take my comment badly, and understood my general point (I hope). 😁

Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:51

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:49

You're completely right.

Except about the oxtail, its quite expensive per kg compared to some other meats.

I know! I couldn't believe it when I dropped by the butchers the other month. I remember when we were first married I'd use it loads because it was so cheap and delicious. I left without it 😩

Antimimisti · 13/09/2025 16:50

It's more realistic and affordable to cut down than to avoid them altogether; especially if you focus on avoiding ultra-processed foods rather than foods which have had minimal processing. In practice, if you cut out all 'junk food' you are most of the way there. Don't fret over having the occasional ready-meal, just don't have one every day.

There are affordable and easy unprocessed options -something like a jacket potato with, say, tuna requires minimal prep and is cheap. An omelette is quick and cheap. Chicken is much cheaper than red meat; you can have it with veg and boiled potatoes, for example.

If gravy is important to you, have it and don't worry - the processed element of a meal, if only gravy, is small.

Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:49

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:46

Yes, there are alternatives, my point was really that some folk are privileged enough to be able to make health the first priority in decision making, when the budget is less of an issue. Others have to make budgeting the top priority.
As for 'if I really want to learn', that's quite patronising tbh, I'm not asking anyone to teach me anything. I'm perfectly able to cook healthy meals, but am not super focused on every single meal being super healthy!

Edited

Yeah, I hear you - I didn't pick that up from what you'd said, thanks for clarifying 😊

itainthalfcold · 13/09/2025 16:49

I agree but I’m not going to lose any sleep over it.

I eat loads of veg/pulses/fruit, cook from scratch (which is often batch cooking or just chucking things on a tray for a tray bake so doesn’t take long) and try and limit upf.

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:49

Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:44

There are many people who could think of alternatives, though, to suit their circumstances and budget. I don't think the PP was recommending it as the best, most accessible diet for all, more giving examples of UPF free diet. Anyone else is free to take that info and adapt it to suit their circumstances - I don't think it's the posters job to do that for other people every time they post. And anyone who genuinely wants to learn can Google what a soffrito is in the time it takes to post a reply.

For example, just off the top of my head, four eggs could be substituted for two eggs, one slice of bread, an apple and a glass of milk. I'd go so far as to say that'd actually be healthier anyway.
Blackberries could be substituted for bananas, tinned peaches or frozen berries.
Oxtail is fairly cheap, or used to be. Boiler chickens can be available cheap from the butchers for stews, or a high fibre/protein alternative is a stew with a soffrito (celery and onions are cheap) made from tinned beans and a dash of oil. And dried herbs are obviously available more cheaply than fresh.

Seriously, I get it can be frustrating when you're restricted, but it really isn't every posters responsibility to make sure their circumstances are also easily accessible for everyone else. Especially as there was no judgement from her about what others do/don't do. If you genuinely want to learn from others, it can be actually helpful to hear what others do, because you can adapt it to suit you. If you want to, that is.

You're completely right.

Except about the oxtail, its quite expensive per kg compared to some other meats.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:48

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:44

I get it. I don't like foccacia. Like you I have tried an artisan version and made my own.

See now, I love home made focaccia, but I can end up putting less than healthy toppings on it!

MonsterasEverywhere · 13/09/2025 16:48

I'd have thought it obvious that most stock cubes would be UPF.

As for the complaint about costs involved with buying non-UPF versions of things, you need to remember that someone, somewhere has to put the time and effort into making the product, so yes, it will cost more.

Almost everything I eat is low or no UPF as most food products contain things I can't eat, so I buy ingredients to make into food. I'm disabled, on a very low income, have difficulty chopping ingredients and mixing things, but I still manage as I have to.

NapoleonsToe · 13/09/2025 16:47

godmum56 · 13/09/2025 16:37

I think its definitely a marmite food but often its the rye in sourdough that people dislike. Personally I can't stand even the smell of rye. While I know its said to be "healthier" than the same ingredients made into normal bread, even though I enjoy it, I am unconvinced about the health benefits.

You can make sourdough without rye, I prefer it without.

soupyspoon · 13/09/2025 16:47

arethereanyleftatall · 13/09/2025 16:38

That’s a valid point. I was just surprised by the number of ‘its impossible’ comments, so I guess the caveat could be ‘it’s impossible on a budget.’

It isnt impossible on a budget and no one needs to eat 4 eggs in a sitting, they might want to but its not required for health reasons or anything.

Its much more possible to save money and have cheaper grocery costs by eating a low or lower processed diet. Veg, pulses, lentils, some nuts, some fruit, some tinned fish, some fats. Thats it.

HostaCentral · 13/09/2025 16:46

estellacandance · 13/09/2025 16:14

Soup should be made with stock. Cubes are disgusting & full of crap.

Just keep the bones from whenever you have meat, make stock & freeze it for when you want soup. Boiling bones is so easy!

Or just buy fresh stock..... Life's too short.

GleisZwei · 13/09/2025 16:46

Slurple · 13/09/2025 16:44

There are many people who could think of alternatives, though, to suit their circumstances and budget. I don't think the PP was recommending it as the best, most accessible diet for all, more giving examples of UPF free diet. Anyone else is free to take that info and adapt it to suit their circumstances - I don't think it's the posters job to do that for other people every time they post. And anyone who genuinely wants to learn can Google what a soffrito is in the time it takes to post a reply.

For example, just off the top of my head, four eggs could be substituted for two eggs, one slice of bread, an apple and a glass of milk. I'd go so far as to say that'd actually be healthier anyway.
Blackberries could be substituted for bananas, tinned peaches or frozen berries.
Oxtail is fairly cheap, or used to be. Boiler chickens can be available cheap from the butchers for stews, or a high fibre/protein alternative is a stew with a soffrito (celery and onions are cheap) made from tinned beans and a dash of oil. And dried herbs are obviously available more cheaply than fresh.

Seriously, I get it can be frustrating when you're restricted, but it really isn't every posters responsibility to make sure their circumstances are also easily accessible for everyone else. Especially as there was no judgement from her about what others do/don't do. If you genuinely want to learn from others, it can be actually helpful to hear what others do, because you can adapt it to suit you. If you want to, that is.

Yes, there are alternatives, my point was really that some folk are privileged enough to be able to make health the first priority in decision making, when the budget is less of an issue. Others have to make budgeting the top priority.
As for 'if I really want to learn', that's quite patronising tbh, I'm not asking anyone to teach me anything. I'm perfectly able to cook healthy meals, but am not super focused on every single meal being super healthy!

Oftenaddled · 13/09/2025 16:45

ChelseaDetective · 13/09/2025 16:12

@OtherS When you say ‘oats with milk’ do you mean just that? I’d love to eat porridge as I like the taste of oats but struggle massively with the warmth and texture of it.

Even the thought of ‘overnight’ oats with yoghurt going claggy and separated in the fridge turns me off.

Just oats with milk could be a go - er!

I know someone who has oats with cold milk poured on for breakfast. Works fine. You could also toast your oats for minimum clagginess.