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To think it's impossible to eat a UPF free diet as an ordinary person?

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MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:14

I mean ordinary as in, works full time, earns a decent but not huge wage, has free time but not entire days at a time to dedicate to cooking etc.

I'm on a bit of a health kick, and have turned my attention to eating whole foods and ensuring I'm eating as healthy as possible as we come into winter.

I've had a sourdough starter on the go for a while and decided I'd knock up some bread rolls and soup to have for lunch in the coming week because it's turned cold. Figured it would be a great, low UPF meal. Until I googled the beef stock, which is apparently a really bad UPF! Even the super expensive all natural concentrates are UPF. So unless you can afford to buy and boil a load of beef bones, it seems you're out of luck.

Obviously you can do the normal things like avoiding crisps, protein shakes etc. as they're all full of UPF, but when even things like stock cubes are stuffed full of them, it just seems impossible! AIBU to think it's just become impossible to eat a UPF free diet?

OP posts:
YourFairCyanReader · 15/09/2025 08:18

Ja1ap1n0 · 15/09/2025 07:28

It is not hard or time consuming or expensive. No you don’t have to put more effort in either you simply use recipes that are quick and easy like we all have to do when we work full time.Everybody can do it and to say otherwise is a complete cop out. If you don’t want to do it or can’t be bothered then that’s entirely your choice but don’t blame that on time, being difficult or expensive.

If people have time to spend hours scrolling on phones they have time to cook properly and to use said phone to find recipes that are quick and upf free. If they don’t want to that’s entirely fine and their choice but it is a choice.

I'm not sure you fully understand what UPFs are. You can be making all your meals 'from scratch' i.e. not ready meals or takeaways, but still eating lots of UPF.

If you eat pretty much any cereal apart from porridge oats or weetabix, any yoghurt apart from completely plain, Philadelphia soft cheese, any 'healthy' snack bars, cooking oil spray, stock cubes as OP said, most baked beans, any baked goods such as fresh croissants or wholemeal wraps, jams, chutneys, condiments like chilli sauce or balsamic vinegar, you're eating UPFs. It's way beyond looking up recipes.

Our food system is so commercialised that it's utterly pervasive, and it is difficult, time-consuming, and sometimes expensive to avoid them.

superbakedpotato · 15/09/2025 07:55

I understand the point of the whole UPF free thing, but some people do take it to the extreme. In my view, if you're mostly cooking your own meals (even if that includes things like stock cubes, gravy granules and the occasional jar or packet of ready made sauce), then you're probably not gonna be that unhealthy. Life's stressful enough half the time, you gotta choose your battles, and for me that means not fannying about making every little thing from scratch.

And sometimes we just need a little treat to look forward to, or cheer us up after a long week! For example, last night after a very healthy homemade Sunday lunch, I ate half a shop bought family sized trifle for my dinner, and I have zero regrets 😂

CaptainMyCaptain · 15/09/2025 07:54

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:27

But is it? Who has 6 hours free to make a sourdough every few days?!

I make my own bread using flour, yeast, salt, a little honey. It doesn't take all that long and you can do other things in the rising stages. Why does it have to be sourdough?

OldChinaJug · 15/09/2025 07:50

Ja1ap1n0 · 15/09/2025 07:28

It is not hard or time consuming or expensive. No you don’t have to put more effort in either you simply use recipes that are quick and easy like we all have to do when we work full time.Everybody can do it and to say otherwise is a complete cop out. If you don’t want to do it or can’t be bothered then that’s entirely your choice but don’t blame that on time, being difficult or expensive.

If people have time to spend hours scrolling on phones they have time to cook properly and to use said phone to find recipes that are quick and upf free. If they don’t want to that’s entirely fine and their choice but it is a choice.

Tbf, it is more effort than sticking some oven chips and frozen battered fish in the oven. It's just not a lot of effort and doesn't take a lot of time. And isn't impossible.

Tbh, the people I don't understand are the ones who wil make a bolognese or something with meat and onions but use a jarred sauce instead of passata and herbs. That one really doesn't make any sense at all. It's as quick to open a jar of passata as it is to open a jar of dolmio.

FlappingMadly · 15/09/2025 07:39

Ja1ap1n0 · 15/09/2025 07:29

Or buy Jason. The amount of money you save from buying crap and over priced convenience foods is massive.

Absolute nonsense. It's no better and will have processed ingredients. Once you get in the groove it's no hassle and the better you eat the more energy you have.

Ja1ap1n0 · 15/09/2025 07:29

FlappingMadly · 15/09/2025 06:47

Don't really know what you want from your post. 'Permission' to eat crisps because it's all useless?
Eat food as much as possible that is recognisably from a farm. Of course pasta, stock cubes will have been processed - maje as msny good choices as possible. Sourdough- knead thoroughly until elastic, refrigerate rise, bake when using oven.

Or buy Jason. The amount of money you save from buying crap and over priced convenience foods is massive.

Ja1ap1n0 · 15/09/2025 07:28

Laurmolonlabe · 14/09/2025 23:14

I did too- there is nothing impossible about cooking from scratch, but the truth is many people don't want to- it does take time, and getting in late, then facing cooking from scratch is more than many people want to do- they look to products to help , and that is where the UPF comes in, everyone then argues about the relative value of different brands/ reading the ingredients.
It's a mistake to say cooking from ingredients is not more trouble and requires more skill, and many people are generations away from doing this- I grew up in the 60's and 70's and my mother rarely cooked entirely from ingredients, my grandmother's also worked, and also did little cooking, saying it is effortless and people used to do it is disingenuous, also many mothers and grandmothers didn't work or worked part time.
We all process food when we cook, but once you rely on packets jars and tins the processing and extra chemicals and processes become a problem, but to beat the UPF problem you do have to put more effort in- there is no way around it.

It is not hard or time consuming or expensive. No you don’t have to put more effort in either you simply use recipes that are quick and easy like we all have to do when we work full time.Everybody can do it and to say otherwise is a complete cop out. If you don’t want to do it or can’t be bothered then that’s entirely your choice but don’t blame that on time, being difficult or expensive.

If people have time to spend hours scrolling on phones they have time to cook properly and to use said phone to find recipes that are quick and upf free. If they don’t want to that’s entirely fine and their choice but it is a choice.

RowanRed90 · 15/09/2025 07:16

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:27

But is it? Who has 6 hours free to make a sourdough every few days?!

You can make sourdough in a bread machine, and base your soup on a chicken

AgentJohnson · 15/09/2025 07:12

FFS! It wasn’t that long ago when ‘ordinary’ people were washing their own clothes by hand, cooking from scratch, making or mending their own clothes and walking to work but hey, you do you.

Once you start making your own stock you won’t ever go back to the cubes. You make a vat of the stuff and freeze it, it tastes soo much better and costs peanuts.

YourFairCyanReader · 15/09/2025 07:04

OP, stick with it! It honestly gets easier. I was despairing a few months ago but I'm on top of it now.
A lot of ignorance on this thread about what UPFs are and what harm they do, ignore.

I spent most of Sunday baking and cooking, but I do that every few weeks and stock up the freezer.

I don't make my own sourdough as it's a faff, I buy supermarket sourdough that's non UPF (can also buy Jason's) but yes that's more expensive.

I make chicken stock from bones and freeze. Make hummus, pesto, wraps, pizza bases, cakes, flapjacks in batches and freeze. I don't make jam as such, just cook down some yellow label Berries with some water and honey (no faff with pectin/temp etc). Throw out the cooking sprays, balsamic vinegar etc they're all UPF.

Some non UPF foods are cheaper than the UPF, some more expensive. Once you've done your food shop a few times it wont take as long as you will know.

Keep going - It's so worth it. You will feel so much better and I have lost weight too.

FlappingMadly · 15/09/2025 06:47

Don't really know what you want from your post. 'Permission' to eat crisps because it's all useless?
Eat food as much as possible that is recognisably from a farm. Of course pasta, stock cubes will have been processed - maje as msny good choices as possible. Sourdough- knead thoroughly until elastic, refrigerate rise, bake when using oven.

coxesorangepippin · 15/09/2025 01:47

Totally agree, it's difficult

Today I've had porridge with milk, sugar. Homemade leek and potato soup for lunch. Processed cheese sandwich on brown. Salmon, rice, green beans fro dinner. Dried dates for snack.

Tintackedsea · 14/09/2025 23:58

I buy beef bones and put them in the pressure cooker/instant pot and freeze them in 250ml ice “cube” trays. It’s not very difficult but also it’s not the be all and end all. Is a run not worth doing if you can only do it once a week? Or a book not worth reading if you can’t read another in a fortnight?

Just do nice things that you want to do. It doesn’t matter a jot if you don’t “make it a habit”.

TrousersOfTime · 14/09/2025 23:52

MyHealthyMission · 13/09/2025 14:54

Fuelling your body should of course be cheap and easy!

OP, do you have any understanding of the history of food? UPFs were basically invented to make fuelling your body cheap and easy (whilst making huge profits for food manufacturers and causing an obesity epidemic). Pre-UPFs people generally spent more time cooking less tasty food. The odd stock cube is probably not the end of the world, the meals or snacks that are 50% plus UPF are much more of an issue.

Laurmolonlabe · 14/09/2025 23:51

I agree it's not hard, but it takes planning and the will to learn the skills.
I think you under estimate how many skills have died out- I noticed most people's baskets were very different from mine even 30 years ago. I live in East London and even Indian shoppers have sauces packets and ready meals these days- it shocked me when I first saw it because usually their baskets were very similar to mine up until 10-15 years ago. As people have earned more they have leaned on processed food, takeaways and restaurants more and more.
The cost of living crisis has just thrown these issues more to the fore.

OldChinaJug · 14/09/2025 23:32

Laurmolonlabe · 14/09/2025 23:14

I did too- there is nothing impossible about cooking from scratch, but the truth is many people don't want to- it does take time, and getting in late, then facing cooking from scratch is more than many people want to do- they look to products to help , and that is where the UPF comes in, everyone then argues about the relative value of different brands/ reading the ingredients.
It's a mistake to say cooking from ingredients is not more trouble and requires more skill, and many people are generations away from doing this- I grew up in the 60's and 70's and my mother rarely cooked entirely from ingredients, my grandmother's also worked, and also did little cooking, saying it is effortless and people used to do it is disingenuous, also many mothers and grandmothers didn't work or worked part time.
We all process food when we cook, but once you rely on packets jars and tins the processing and extra chemicals and processes become a problem, but to beat the UPF problem you do have to put more effort in- there is no way around it.

No one is denying its more effort but not a ridiculous amount.

I gave examples of meals I was cooking this week earlier. None of them will take more than half an hour. The implication that 'cooking from scratch' requires hours and hours of intense labour that no one but the wealthiest and most privileged have the money or time do is a nonsense.

And, tbh, if other people choose not to because they don't want to, that's up to them. But that's not the same as it's really hard for ordinary people to do it.

I don't see that we are generations away from it either. I was born mid 70s. My mum cooked from scratch, my grandma cooked from scratch. I cook from scratch and my adult children cook from scratch. My children do use convenience foods occasionally but they are well aware that they are making a choice to do so and don't think that a ready meal spag bol is the same as one they've made themselves which seems to be a common argument on these types of threads. That there is 'no difference'.

Matchalattecoco · 14/09/2025 23:24

You can buy a pack of frozen and portioned beef stock from M&S or I just buy borough broth brand when it’s on offer.

NamelessNancy · 14/09/2025 23:24

Bay's kitchen stocks are brilliant, but yes, it is hard to reduce UPFs.

Laurmolonlabe · 14/09/2025 23:14

Ja1ap1n0 · 14/09/2025 22:16

Many many people cook from ingredients pretty effortlessly. Our mothers an grandmothers did.

What is hard about chopping an onion, frying it off with garlic , a few tea spoons of spices then adding a chopped courgette and pepper alongside tinned tomatoes and beans for a veg chilli, ditto Dahl or a left over chicken curry?What is hard about frying off garlic and onion in olive oil with a bag of kale and chilli flakes for kale pasta, making shepherds pie …. look at the roasting tin books, they’re piss easy and all from ingredients .

I work full time and manage it.

I did too- there is nothing impossible about cooking from scratch, but the truth is many people don't want to- it does take time, and getting in late, then facing cooking from scratch is more than many people want to do- they look to products to help , and that is where the UPF comes in, everyone then argues about the relative value of different brands/ reading the ingredients.
It's a mistake to say cooking from ingredients is not more trouble and requires more skill, and many people are generations away from doing this- I grew up in the 60's and 70's and my mother rarely cooked entirely from ingredients, my grandmother's also worked, and also did little cooking, saying it is effortless and people used to do it is disingenuous, also many mothers and grandmothers didn't work or worked part time.
We all process food when we cook, but once you rely on packets jars and tins the processing and extra chemicals and processes become a problem, but to beat the UPF problem you do have to put more effort in- there is no way around it.

OldChinaJug · 14/09/2025 22:47

Iloveanicegarden · 14/09/2025 22:40

I've only read the first page of comments but it is clear there is a lot of confusion about UPF and plain old processing - such as slicing/grating cooking etc. In short anything we as individuals do to food. Ultra high processing involves taking any old chemicals, which may or may not have nutritional value or change mouth feel or whatever and turn the resultant product into something resembling real food. Case in point - some 'ready made chips which clearly made from reconstituted potato starch

I agree about the confusion.

Cooking is a process. Every meal you make is processed too one degree or another because you don't eat it as it has grown.

Butter is processed because it's been churned. But you can make it yourself if you're so inclined.

Butter substitutes you couldn't even begin to make yourself.

UPF is full of crap you wouldn't actually ever eat ordinarily and your body neither needs nor knows what to do with it.

OldChinaJug · 14/09/2025 22:42

Plus, you can make your own spice blends and keep them in jars so you don't have to check recipes or measure out specfic quantities each time. None of it is difficult.

Wowwee1234 · 14/09/2025 22:42

R0ckandHardPlace · 13/09/2025 15:00

Why? Bread making isn’t easy, it’s a ballache. That’s why people generally buy it. If you can’t be arsed making bread, and don’t want to eat shop bought, eat something else instead. I don’t eat bread at all. I’m coeliac, and I don’t eat gluten free alternatives because they’re full of shit (and mostly horrible). I haven’t starved to death, and I still eat a full, varied diet.

I'm coeliac and have been making the best homemade gf bread in a dedicated breadmaker. 2 Eggs, 450g gf flour, 40g buckweat flour, 50ml milk, 4 tbls yogurt, 1 tsp yeast, 1-2 tbls sugar, splash cider vinegar, pinch salt. Fast rise.

Iloveanicegarden · 14/09/2025 22:40

I've only read the first page of comments but it is clear there is a lot of confusion about UPF and plain old processing - such as slicing/grating cooking etc. In short anything we as individuals do to food. Ultra high processing involves taking any old chemicals, which may or may not have nutritional value or change mouth feel or whatever and turn the resultant product into something resembling real food. Case in point - some 'ready made chips which clearly made from reconstituted potato starch

friskery · 14/09/2025 22:34

Laurmolonlabe · 14/09/2025 21:57

Definitely there is also a big difference in price. I don't really see how products are helping you cook dal curry, or a chilli- unless you use a sauce which are usually pretty processed, or jacket potatoes. yes there are plenty of non processed options but they mostly more work. Boxes such as Hello fresh are a reasonable gateway- but the flavour sachets are mostly processed and it isn't cheap.
The point I was making is that products don't really help you , you have to start from ingredients which is more time and effort than most people want or are able to put in.
Don't look to changing products, look to starting from ingredients.

You don't need a paste or flavour sachet to make curry or chilli though - cumin, tumeric, garlic, ginger, chilli powder, coriander, paprika. It doesn't really take any longer than using a paste.
I do use chopped frozen onions, garlic and ginger though!

Even if you do use a paste though, lots aren't really UPF.

Ja1ap1n0 · 14/09/2025 22:25

OldChinaJug · 14/09/2025 22:21

I wondered the same.

I've never bought a pre made seasoning mix or packet flavouring for anything with the exception of a 'clean' non upf red Thai curry paste I used a few times.

Me neither. Recipe books and recipes on line pretty much all refer to separate spices .

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