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Rude/Disinterested not to ask about holiday.

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girlfriend44 · 12/09/2025 14:26

If you tell your friends/family your going on holiday, do they always ask how your holiday was when you get back?

Is it disinterested /rude not to ask and not mention it, and is it different with men and women?
Do you expect men to ask less than women?

OP posts:
wheretoyougonow · 12/09/2025 14:36

I agree I think it’s rude. But also very telling. The best people in your life will be happy for your own happiness/success.

girlfriend44 · 12/09/2025 14:32

I always ask people it's polite.

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burndavideatglass · 12/09/2025 14:31

Wouldn't expect anyone to ask nor would I have enough interest to ask anyone either. If they decided to tell me anyway I would just glaze over.

Chompingatthebeat · 12/09/2025 14:28

I dont expect anyone to ask, whatever gender, its kinda boring

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