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To think we need to learn how to debate again

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MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 11:58

There is ever decreasing tolerance for people with different views, People think they have the moral high ground and that their views are the only ones which matter.

This view is endorsed in schools, the work place, the Media (even the BBC has stopped any effort to be unbiased). The more intolerant we are the wider the divide is becoming.

Schools need to be teaching kids to debate, it needs to be part of the national curriculum, schools need to welcome all views equally and discuss them.

Universities and work places need to stop censorship of views.

It is largely the far Left who seem to dislike reasoned debate.

If we taught people how to explain, how to listen to alternative perspectives the world would be much better

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MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 12:11

K0OLA1D · 11/09/2025 12:08

I mostly agreed until you placed blame

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Well debate the purposely placed point

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JHound · 11/09/2025 12:11

It is largely the far Left who seem to dislike reasoned debate.

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octaviaduarte · 11/09/2025 12:11

The left scare me so much. They seem to want so much authoritarianism and a complete clampdown on any kind of dissent or alternative view.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 12:08

BallerinaRadio · 11/09/2025 12:01

This isn't about debate is it? You've made up your mind where the blame lies

On the contrary, it’s precisely about debate. Have you ever taken part in one? If you disagree with (my purposely placed) point debate it, not me!

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didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 11/09/2025 12:08

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 12:06

Maybe I put that in on purpose to prove a point - you’ve made well - so thank you

Great debating champ.

We can't have debates without people recognising facts and reality and those days are behind us.

K0OLA1D · 11/09/2025 12:08

I mostly agreed until you placed blame

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 12:07

Chiseltip · 11/09/2025 12:03

We need to remove the laws around causing offence. The fact that someone can be arrested, never mind convicted, for expressing an opinion, is ridiculous.

Once that is done, then we can start to debate properly.

Totally agree.

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DashboardConfession · 11/09/2025 12:06

BallerinaRadio · 11/09/2025 12:01

This isn't about debate is it? You've made up your mind where the blame lies

Agreed.

Some opinions don't deserve a platform. One could say publicly calling for hotels housing migrants to be set on fire is "an opinion".

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 11/09/2025 12:06

ComfortFoodCafe · 11/09/2025 12:04

All going well till you blamed the left.
its not left, right, centre people its just people in general.

Maybe I put that in on purpose to prove a point - you’ve made well - so thank you

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ComfortFoodCafe · 11/09/2025 12:04

All going well till you blamed the left.
its not left, right, centre people its just people in general.

Chiseltip · 11/09/2025 12:03

We need to remove the laws around causing offence. The fact that someone can be arrested, never mind convicted, for expressing an opinion, is ridiculous.

Once that is done, then we can start to debate properly.

BallerinaRadio · 11/09/2025 12:01

This isn't about debate is it? You've made up your mind where the blame lies

Finteq · 11/09/2025 11:59

I agree with your sentiment but don't agree with blaming one part of society.

Yes we should debate mor and it's a great skill.