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AIBU?

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To think that not everyone is obsessed with making as much money as possible?

54 replies

MyShyShark · 11/09/2025 10:23

It feels like a lot of people assume that financial success should be everyone’s top priority. But not everyone is constantly chasing a bigger salary, a promotion or investment opportunities. Some people genuinely prefer a simpler life, working just enough to be comfortable without the pressure to constantly “level up.”

Obviously, money is important for security and stability but isn’t there more to life than just filling your bank account? Or is that naive? AIBU?

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ErrolTheDragon · 11/09/2025 10:58

YANBU. I’ve actively resisted promotion over the years because I was happy doing the job I do and had zero desire to manage other people. I went half time when dd started school and never went back to full time - I earned enough and work life balance was more important than more money.
DH was a lot happier when he downshifted too.

DaisyChain505 · 11/09/2025 10:46

I am one of these people. I don’t earn as much as I could but that’s because I prioritise actually being happy and having a good work/home life balance.

I couldn’t care less what car I drive and I don’t care for the finer things in life.

my family, friends, pets, nature etc are the things that bring me joy in life and make me feel rich.

Glurgle · 11/09/2025 10:28

Some are, some aren't. Be happy with your own decisions, and try not to judge others!

defrazzled · 11/09/2025 10:25

It's never been my top priority, along with a big house, several fancy cars etc. It mystifies a lot of friends/family but I cba explain myself so I think they all think I am just a bit 'bohemian'