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“Friend” venting to my husband

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ForNavySnake · 10/09/2025 14:55

I have a group of mum friends who I regularly chat with at the school gates. We have a Whatsapp chat and arrange play dates etc, I thought we were pretty good friends. A couple of nights ago me and one of the others had a difference of opinion on something, nothing angry was said, we just didn’t agree. Today she has deleted all her messages from the chat, avoided me at drop off and then I found out she was venting to my husband about “my behaviour” when he picked our daughter up last night. AIBU or is this shady behaviour?

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Pippa12 · 10/09/2025 14:58

How odd! What was the ‘difference of opinion’ about? What did your husband say?

ComfortFoodCafe · 10/09/2025 14:58

I would no longer be her friend.

Juicymed · 10/09/2025 14:57

All sounds a bit silly to me.

A “difference of opinion”…. Now that I’d be curious to hear more about! 😆

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