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Anti immigration and England being 'racist'

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AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 10:59

Do people know that this is not just a UK thing? I see so many people saying they are ashamed to be british etc but this is happening the world over. And it can work both ways! I have close family in Japan and there are protests there too and they are being treated very differently - yes, white english! The right are gaining traction there too. Are the Japanese allowed to be proud of their country and fly their flags? What's people's thoughts on this?

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BadDinner · 10/09/2025 13:29

PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 13:20

White Supremacists are obsessed with Japan

I didn't know that, very useful piece of info. Thanks.

Before the war in Ukraine the fixation was Russia. Seen as a homogenous white country with traditional strong patriarchal Christian values.

Some right leaning Americans joined a relocation to Russia programme. Some have been surprised that the culture is indeed substantially different from their traditional American idea of the WASP.

I think they thought 'white' was the culture.

That would be like me being of mixed Carribbean origin rocking up to Nigeria and expecting things to be similar except for a few language differences.

DoinFineIThink · 10/09/2025 13:26

PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 11:35

"Fighting age men" gives you away.

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Just thought the exact same thing before seeing your comment.

Glowingup · 10/09/2025 13:26

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 11:08

@Idinnaenah I did not call the Japanese racist. I have japanese family

They are though. When I visited China, I saw some of the most explicit racism I’d ever seen, mainly directed towards black and Indian people. I found they treated white people differently but had respect for them but openly admitted to “not liking” black or Indian people. And they repeatedly told me how much they hated the Japanese but I think that goes both ways.

Livelovebehappy · 10/09/2025 13:24

Boomer55 · 10/09/2025 13:10

Many, many citizens, of many countries, are protesting about increasing immigration.

Many countries fly their flags, as a matter of course.

It’s not just in Britain.🤷‍♀️

It’s not racist to be concerned about unknown people arriving here in rubber dinghies.

And it’s not racist to fly a flag if you want to.🙄

Racism, of all types, existed long before any protests and flags.

Agree. It’s telling that there are so many threads atm on anti immigration and flags. I think it’s due to an increasing number of people being very vocal about their concerns on immigration and the boats, and the left hate it. They’re used to being able to just utter ‘racist’ or ‘bigot’ and it closes people down, but this no longer works, mainly because the words are thrown about so much that they are now meaningless. The left just don’t get that just because you have concerns about immigration, it doesn’t mean you’re affiliated to Tommy Robinson. They’re desperately trying to link the two. Posts on here get progressively more aggressive the more people push back. It’s sad that people are told they can’t have their own opinions without being sworn at or name called.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:22

As a side note: as someone who is no fan of Christmas, could the Muslims hurry up and ban it please -as the far right keep on telling us they're threatening to- because I'm sick of having to do the Christmas stockings.

PinkBobby · 10/09/2025 13:21

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 11:14

My point is more - do people realise this is going on around the world? Japan, Australia, I've just seen things are stepping up in France. US, of course.

My family have always been treated well in JP until recently. One of them went to buy pokemon cards the other day and was told by the shop owner they only sell to Japanese 😆

Personally, it’s the fact that it’s happening in other countries that worries me. Some countries are further ahead in this process and I hate to think we might head in the same direction. I have no problem with people flying a flag to rep sports teams or when we celebrate things as a nation or show solidarity with certain causes but I feel like the current wave of flag flying is much more sinister in many cases and is grounded in hatred. And misplaced hatred because immigration is an easy target but isn’t going to magically fix what’s going on in the UK.

Beachtastic · 10/09/2025 13:21

I think the thing is, thanks to the internet and faster transport, the world is changing at an exponentially rapid pace, much faster than we can keep up with. For example, social media and gaming meant that my DH grew up speaking natural English without ever formally learning it in a country far away. TripAdvisor etc means you can plan all kinds of visits to remote places that were once a magical private discovery, only to find the place full of selfie sticks and queues for the car park.

Everything about progress is a double-edged sword. When I was a kid, this is what the local shops looked like. There wasn't much in them; you could count on the fingers of one hand what to expect for Xmas. Up to a point I welcome the mind-boggling array of choice nowadays, but I still get a nosebleed when I walk into Boots and find almost an entire floor dedicated to makeup.

Becoming more and more a global community is to be welcomed, but it also comes at the sacrifice of the local, and I think it's natural to feel a kind of grief about losing familiar surroundings and feeling overwhelmed by change. More controversially (based on my own traumatic experiences of this; obviously, YMMV), I also think it's natural to feel anxious about sharing your home environment with people whose cultural values are different enough to create conflict.

Historically, civilisations around the world have imploded at some point under various stresses. This is the first time global humanity has been so closely connected, and it sometimes feels like a massive endgame... like chucking every known chemical into the same pot, as a crazy experiment, to see what happens next. There is no controlling the outcome -- some kind of transformation will work its way through, but the chaotic process towards what will eventually be understood as progress is not comfortable for anyone.

Anti immigration and England being 'racist'
PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 13:20

JHound · 10/09/2025 12:16

White Supremacists are obsessed with Japan.

Hence Musk’s interest.

He is a weirdo: supporting anti-immigrant protests in a country with almost no immigrants but not too long ago protesting that it should be easier to bring H1B visa holders to the USA and being an immigrant himself.

What a weirdo.

White Supremacists are obsessed with Japan

I didn't know that, very useful piece of info. Thanks.

Whatafustercluck · 10/09/2025 13:18

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:11

Unless I’ve gone mad ALL those things still exist?

Unless I've gone mad, since when is a black cab a culture or a custom, or any number of the other things on that list inherently or exclusively 'British'. The fact is that Britain is a centuries old mash up of influences from all over the world. Even our most popular dish is a curry!

Shakeoffyourchains · 10/09/2025 13:16

Seems to me the real issue everywhere is wealth being funnelled into fewer and fewer hands, leaving the rest of us fighting over what’s left. But instead of dealing with that, every country seems to have picked its own marginalised group to use as a scapegoat.

Still, I’m sure once we’ve stopped the boats and deported every asylum seeker we’ll suddenly have an endless supply of doctors and dentists, millions of affordable homes, the lowest energy bills since the invention of electricity and all our problem will be solved...😅

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:12

JHound · 10/09/2025 12:21

What’s a “fighting age” man? Do “fighting age” women exist?

What is “fighting age”?

I'm 51, and can confirm that that's a good fighting age for a woman. The perimenopause gives you an endless well of rage.

Boomer55 · 10/09/2025 13:10

Many, many citizens, of many countries, are protesting about increasing immigration.

Many countries fly their flags, as a matter of course.

It’s not just in Britain.🤷‍♀️

It’s not racist to be concerned about unknown people arriving here in rubber dinghies.

And it’s not racist to fly a flag if you want to.🙄

Racism, of all types, existed long before any protests and flags.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:09

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:44

Interesting question. Mine was aimed at the fact that there apparently are these special ‘customs’ for the English - as opposed to British- so I was genuinely curious as to what they might be. I was hoping for something ore unique than ‘pub’ or Sunday roast or London taxis but seems there isn’t really anything. Guy Fawkes night - that’s deffo an English rather than British one.

I think one of the problems is that it's difficult to separate specifically English cultural practices from wider British ones, and I don't know why it's even desirable.

Say there's a folk session in a lovely old pub somewhere near the Scottish Borders, say Northumberland. As far as I understand it there's a distinct Border culture that spans both Scotland and England, so some of the songs sung would be from that. Then I'm sure some Scottish ballads from further North would creep in, as well as a lot of folk songs from Northumberland. Some songs from say Norfolk or Essex might be sung, but they would probably be more alien in style than many of the Scottish ones!

Yorkshire has a distinct culture. Essex has a distinct culture. Cornwall has a distinct culture (and doesn't at all consider itself English, although it officially is. Not a single St George's Cross to be seen down here!). They can all be included and celebrated as part of British culture, but English culture seems to more define itself by what it isn't, rather than what it is. Hence, it is a pretty fragile construct.

To conclude: British culture is a culture of inclusion. English culture is a culture of exclusion.

Thank you for attending my lecture 😆

BadDinner · 10/09/2025 13:08

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 11:20

Not me personally - apart from really hard stares! (only recently)

The rhetoric there is they are sick of tourism mainly but also immigration. I get it in a way - their concerns. And perhaps they protest a bit more elegantly than people do here. But it's an issue world over, so maybe we need to look at the bigger picture

So your stance, which you are rather disingenuously attempting to project as just a casual observance, appears to be that because other countries of ethic origin are anti-immigrant or xenophobic, then that means that anti-immigrant feeling is natural, it being a global phenomena and there is nothing to be concerned about and here in the UK we are not exceptional for our anti-immigrant views and perhaps rather justified in them.

It is never just about immigrants though, that is just the cover. Because it were really about a desire to curb immigration, then people who feel strongly about the issue, especially strongly enough to go around tying flags to every available straight horizontal and vertical surface, would take more responsibility about whom they vote for and scrutinise very carefully their foreign policy, and ask themselves the question: Is this party/candidates foreign and economic policy goals aligned with my desire or the parties proclaimed manifesto of reducing net immigration?

If their foreign policy beliefs include that is right and good to provide artillery support to other countries who wish to subjugate people in the middle east, entertaining ideas about taking mineral resources from other countries through upheaval and regime change, handing contracts to firms that exploit people in MEDC and LEDCs, giving subsidies to polluting industries that wreck havoc in environments abroad that allow those people to sustain themselves there, then one has to question whether their party aims are actually truly conducive or in line with stopping the amount of people rocking up and looking to improve their lives here and then if such flag tying people are truly sincere, they would, one imagines, not vote for those people.

But as it is, we're all being asked to believe that the real motive is not racism or xenophobia but simply having a 'sensible conversation' about reducing the numbers of people coming here, when the same persons are breaking their necks to vote for people who promise to continue doing all the above with even more gusto.

PaxAeterna · 10/09/2025 13:06

Well aware that other countries are racist too. I’m in Ireland with the racists and far right using the Irish flag in a divisive way. It was flying (half mast) on every lamp post on the school run today. Which is very annoying as the Irish flag is supposed to represent unity.

I’m still very much pro the Irish flag. I’m just against it being used in this way.

HundredMilesAnHour · 10/09/2025 13:02

I'm a little scared by what is happening here really. DH works in canary wharf where there has been quite a lot of protesting and he is brown. He has had no issues so far though, but yes it makes me a little nervous.

@AngryBird6122 There’s nothing to worry or be nervous about in Canary Wharf (well, apart from being knocked over by a stressed CW worker rushing to get to their lunch if you happen to get in their way). It’s one of the safest places in the U.K. Every inch is covered by cameras and it’s all closely monitored for even the hint of a security threat. I’ve been to security briefings there and even tourists taking photos of buildings are monitored (they could be taking photos for terrorism planning etc).

Yes there were some protests because of the Britannia Hotel (which has been an absolute shithole for many years) being used to house asylum seekers but no one is going to attack a CW worker, brown or otherwise.

SirHumphreyRocks · 10/09/2025 13:01

MiddleAgedMusings · 10/09/2025 11:12

What specific examples do they have of their culture being eroded?
Foreign residents in Japan make up 3% of the population

And for good reason they are called racist - they have racist laws! My friends son is married to a Japanese citizen, they have a daughter and he was (mostly) worked there for decades. Most non-Japanese people get temporary work ongoing with no security. When there are redundancies they literally picked all the non-Japanese first and sacked them - and were upfront about it because the law allows it. His daughter is regualrly bullied because she is "mixed race", which is a dilution of Japanese purity in many peoples eyes.

But beyond that
(a) there is one race - the human race - and if we all got our heads around that then maybe we might improve somewhat, and
(b) I find it curious how often the "well they are racist too" line is trotted out to justify our own racism. After 200,000 years or so practice, you would have thought we might have got better at being human.

TheFrendo · 10/09/2025 13:01

It is not racist to think that immigration is out of control.

It is not racist to deny that diversity is our strength.

It is not racist to think that Islam poses a real threat to us.

Those who dismiss 30%+ of the population as racists or fascists are being divisive.

RubySquid · 10/09/2025 13:00

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 11:23

Er, no. Where’d you get that from??? Do you expect tourists to be fluent in the language of the country that they’re visiting? Cos that would be fairly unhinged, wouldn’t it???

Did she mean tourists or people living here?

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:59

I have the solution I think - let’s make St George’s Day a bank holiday in England ( where I live) like there is for St Paddy’s and St Andrews Day ( sorry Welsh, you’ll have to fight your own corner on this one) stick some flags up then and we all get a day off. Reclaim it from the racists. Win-win! The English get to feel proud of whatever, dress the kids up as knights or Dragons or pots of tea or black cabs etc and we all get a day off. Bosh. Done.
You’re welcome.

KTheGrey · 10/09/2025 12:58

HellsBells13 · 10/09/2025 12:24

As someone with a Japanese fiance I have numerous conversations about immigration. He and his family and friends are sick to the back teeth of Kurds and Chinese. The Kurds causing many societal problems. They want them to be deported . You live in Japan you adhere to their cultural norms. Anyone living over there should not expect society to bend to their will.

This is strikingly odd - I always thought that the UK’s relationship with migration is due to the British empire going about the world and colonising as many bits of it as possible. English is a world language, so more people speak it, making the UK or USA obvious destinations.

I can’t understand what the links are either between Turkey and Japan or between the Kurds and Japan. Do a lot of people learn Japanese?

EasternStandard · 10/09/2025 12:54

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:44

Interesting question. Mine was aimed at the fact that there apparently are these special ‘customs’ for the English - as opposed to British- so I was genuinely curious as to what they might be. I was hoping for something ore unique than ‘pub’ or Sunday roast or London taxis but seems there isn’t really anything. Guy Fawkes night - that’s deffo an English rather than British one.

English exist just as much as Welsh / Scottish etc even though there are British too for all

I suppose you could ask anyone if their customs / culture exists, we can generally see they do for others so it makes sense it does for us too. I don’t think we’re solely immune to having a culture.

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 12:53

Op, you make a very good point. You aren’t being understood by some posters who are mentally stuck in a groove repeating media slurs ‘ thick gammon flag shaggers’ is their mantra, it shows they resort to cheap insult rather than careful thought.

it’s obvious it’s a cultural issue rather than a racial one and it is currently in a heated zone because attitudes are in Need of revision. The word ‘racism’ has been cheapened, it no longer has value or meaning.

Shewasafaireh · 10/09/2025 12:52

Japan is an extremely racist country, I’m not sure it’s the greatest comparison………..

I have nothing against people wanting to preserve their culture and customs (provided they’re not keeping us in the dark ages), but very often that’s just an excuse to be shitty and racist.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 12:50

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:45

ENGLISH as opposed to British. The flags going up around the cities near here are all English l, specifically, not Union flags.

Maybe that's the problem. "Eng-er-land" is something imposed on the much older (and I would argue richer) British islands and culture. Go back to Friesland and Saxony where you came from! 😆