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Anti immigration and England being 'racist'

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AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 10:59

Do people know that this is not just a UK thing? I see so many people saying they are ashamed to be british etc but this is happening the world over. And it can work both ways! I have close family in Japan and there are protests there too and they are being treated very differently - yes, white english! The right are gaining traction there too. Are the Japanese allowed to be proud of their country and fly their flags? What's people's thoughts on this?

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PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 14:06

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 14:00

It tickled my funny bone! I hope it didn’t offend you. But never mind, aye. We all love a bit of profiling of White Supremacists of a Wednesday lunchtime.

Not offended, just found it a strange response. But I think I know now why you responded in the way you did...

QuickMember · 10/09/2025 14:05

I’ve also learned to separate civic nationalists or patriots from ethno nationalists. The latter definitely want me gone!

QuickMember · 10/09/2025 14:04

I sit in the middle. I’m an Indian woman living in England, moved here since I was 1. Experienced racism, as in actually had bottles thrown at me and my family with the p word shouted at us. I know racism towards ethnic minorities exists. At the same time I also see why the English feel threatened and want to preserve their culture. Same with regard to Japan and any other country. When I talk to people out and about, those who want to engage of course, we have a nice chat. Online is a different story. There are a lot of hateful comments and I am sure not all of them are bots. I am worried for the future.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 14:03

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 13:52

All the “very puzzled as to what British culture is” people don’t appear to have been to non British cultures, so think that everything in Britain is actually a worldwide norm. I think they think that everyone all over the world is living the same life. Bizarre.

I think there have been more people asking what English, as opposed to British, culture is. But yours is still a valid question. What would you say is specific to British culture, having travelled?

(I have also lived abroad and I have my own list, but I'll let you go first).

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 14:00

PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 13:58

Why the sarcasm?

It tickled my funny bone! I hope it didn’t offend you. But never mind, aye. We all love a bit of profiling of White Supremacists of a Wednesday lunchtime.

PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 13:58

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 13:45

I love a good bit of fact learnin. 👍🏻

Why the sarcasm?

ClaredeBear · 10/09/2025 13:52

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 11:14

My point is more - do people realise this is going on around the world? Japan, Australia, I've just seen things are stepping up in France. US, of course.

My family have always been treated well in JP until recently. One of them went to buy pokemon cards the other day and was told by the shop owner they only sell to Japanese 😆

I think you underestimate people. Of course they realise it goes on and I for one don’t want us to become the same. Why would you assume people don’t understand what goes on in the world? Most people have a wider lens - perhaps this is something you’ve discovered recently.

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 13:52

2dogsandabudgie · 10/09/2025 13:48

Lots of towns and villages in England have their own traditions. Cheese rolling in Gloucestershire, Whittlesea Straw Bear Festival in Cambridgeshire, Dickens Festival Rochester, Hocktide in Wiltshire plus many more. A lot of them have historical roots.

I'm always amazed that people think we English don't have any customs or traditions. You'll also find that as well as local traditions there will be the more widespread ones like Morris Dancing and Maypole dancing. These last two seemed to be less common in recent years but glad they are now becoming more popular.

All the “very puzzled as to what British culture is” people don’t appear to have been to non British cultures, so think that everything in Britain is actually a worldwide norm. I think they think that everyone all over the world is living the same life. Bizarre.

ilovesooty · 10/09/2025 13:50

2dogsandabudgie · 10/09/2025 13:33

Did I say they were, read the thread, someone asked what English culture was so I responded off the top of my head with some examples.

No, you didn't, and I should have said that. However quite a lot of people who are anti immigration and don't like sharing their world with a range of religions and cultures often imply that they think British traditions are under threat, hence the stuff about, for example, not being allowed to celebrate Christmas because "we're being taken over by the Muslims".

2dogsandabudgie · 10/09/2025 13:48

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:44

Interesting question. Mine was aimed at the fact that there apparently are these special ‘customs’ for the English - as opposed to British- so I was genuinely curious as to what they might be. I was hoping for something ore unique than ‘pub’ or Sunday roast or London taxis but seems there isn’t really anything. Guy Fawkes night - that’s deffo an English rather than British one.

Lots of towns and villages in England have their own traditions. Cheese rolling in Gloucestershire, Whittlesea Straw Bear Festival in Cambridgeshire, Dickens Festival Rochester, Hocktide in Wiltshire plus many more. A lot of them have historical roots.

I'm always amazed that people think we English don't have any customs or traditions. You'll also find that as well as local traditions there will be the more widespread ones like Morris Dancing and Maypole dancing. These last two seemed to be less common in recent years but glad they are now becoming more popular.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:46

EasternStandard · 10/09/2025 13:44

I just don’t see English as negative or exclusionary. Maybe it’s what we have around us. How we view our culture is probably quite fluid and based on interactions we have.

I’m not saying you are wrong in your experience just that I don’t relate to it, English is more positive for me.

So what do you see as the positive aspects of English (as opposed to British or regional) culture?

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 13:45

PandoraSocks · 10/09/2025 13:20

White Supremacists are obsessed with Japan

I didn't know that, very useful piece of info. Thanks.

I love a good bit of fact learnin. 👍🏻

EasternStandard · 10/09/2025 13:44

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:36

I mean, you're welcome to counter my argument....🤷‍♀️

I just don’t see English as negative or exclusionary. Maybe it’s what we have around us. How we view our culture is probably quite fluid and based on interactions we have.

I’m not saying you are wrong in your experience just that I don’t relate to it, English is more positive for me.

HazelBeeZee · 10/09/2025 13:42

An older chap I used to know said we’re quite simple minded beings, and haven’t evolved as much as we’d think. We instantly see other humans who look like ourselves as safe, anyone who looks different to us is unknown. Even though both are people unknown. He gave an example of his own child at a wedding being a bridesmaid, the child was dark haired and had olive skin, there was a bridesmaid with dark hair and a olive tone and a bridesmaid that was red haired with pale skin. Neither bridesmaid was known to the child but the child instantly went to the one who resembled her, and took a dislike to the other bridesmaid that didn’t.
Unless we’re exposed and mix a lot from an early age it’s difficult to break that psychological factor. It isn’t just on race either of course, it includes disability.

The mad thing is we’re all humans on the same lump of rock hurtling around in an unknown universe and yet we can’t just simply get on.

BeardofHagrid · 10/09/2025 13:41

Not being funny but Farridge seems like a Nartzi himself, but also with a forrin name like that he should deport himself xx

R0ckandHardPlace · 10/09/2025 13:41

Wowweee1234 · 10/09/2025 13:31

They do! When people say their culture is being eroded, this is code for being uncomfortable with an increase in different skin colours in a country. Nothing more.

I agree. Ironically, if any ‘foreign’ culture has influenced our own over the past century, I’d say it’s that of the United States, but nobody seems to feel threatened by that.

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:36

EasternStandard · 10/09/2025 13:32

I don’t relate to the negative conclusion.

I mean, you're welcome to counter my argument....🤷‍♀️

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 13:35

@HundredMilesAnHour thank you. He’s not had an ounce of trouble so nothing to worry about really, it was just after I saw some stuff on the news, but then that’s blown up to look more dramatic anyway.

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2dogsandabudgie · 10/09/2025 13:33

ilovesooty · 10/09/2025 12:36

Exactly. How are these under threat?

Did I say they were, read the thread, someone asked what English culture was so I responded off the top of my head with some examples.

AngryBird6122 · 10/09/2025 13:32

Eloeeze · 10/09/2025 12:53

Op, you make a very good point. You aren’t being understood by some posters who are mentally stuck in a groove repeating media slurs ‘ thick gammon flag shaggers’ is their mantra, it shows they resort to cheap insult rather than careful thought.

it’s obvious it’s a cultural issue rather than a racial one and it is currently in a heated zone because attitudes are in Need of revision. The word ‘racism’ has been cheapened, it no longer has value or meaning.

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I don’t word myself very well which is probably part of the problem but yes it’s a bit hard to have a conversation when those are the kind of answers you get! Makes it pointless to have a discussion

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EasternStandard · 10/09/2025 13:32

crackofdoom · 10/09/2025 13:09

I think one of the problems is that it's difficult to separate specifically English cultural practices from wider British ones, and I don't know why it's even desirable.

Say there's a folk session in a lovely old pub somewhere near the Scottish Borders, say Northumberland. As far as I understand it there's a distinct Border culture that spans both Scotland and England, so some of the songs sung would be from that. Then I'm sure some Scottish ballads from further North would creep in, as well as a lot of folk songs from Northumberland. Some songs from say Norfolk or Essex might be sung, but they would probably be more alien in style than many of the Scottish ones!

Yorkshire has a distinct culture. Essex has a distinct culture. Cornwall has a distinct culture (and doesn't at all consider itself English, although it officially is. Not a single St George's Cross to be seen down here!). They can all be included and celebrated as part of British culture, but English culture seems to more define itself by what it isn't, rather than what it is. Hence, it is a pretty fragile construct.

To conclude: British culture is a culture of inclusion. English culture is a culture of exclusion.

Thank you for attending my lecture 😆

I don’t relate to the negative conclusion.

TheNightingalesStarling · 10/09/2025 13:31

Immigration and emigration are a big part of British culture though. From the olden day explorers bringing back artifacts from around the world, and making other bits of land "British", expecting this Commonwealth to help us when we needed it (World Wars, then skilled workers on the post war period, and still now!) But then simultaneously complaining about them doing so.
A few years ago it was "patriotic" to welcome Ukrainians.
People complaining they can't live in their Spanish villa all year round anymore

Far too many people are just blaming the wrong thing really.

Wowweee1234 · 10/09/2025 13:31

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:11

Unless I’ve gone mad ALL those things still exist?

They do! When people say their culture is being eroded, this is code for being uncomfortable with an increase in different skin colours in a country. Nothing more.

2dogsandabudgie · 10/09/2025 13:31

Idinnaenah · 10/09/2025 12:11

Unless I’ve gone mad ALL those things still exist?

I didn't say they didn't exist anymore. The answer was to a pp who didn't know what English culture was!

PaxAeterna · 10/09/2025 13:31

Livelovebehappy · 10/09/2025 13:24

Agree. It’s telling that there are so many threads atm on anti immigration and flags. I think it’s due to an increasing number of people being very vocal about their concerns on immigration and the boats, and the left hate it. They’re used to being able to just utter ‘racist’ or ‘bigot’ and it closes people down, but this no longer works, mainly because the words are thrown about so much that they are now meaningless. The left just don’t get that just because you have concerns about immigration, it doesn’t mean you’re affiliated to Tommy Robinson. They’re desperately trying to link the two. Posts on here get progressively more aggressive the more people push back. It’s sad that people are told they can’t have their own opinions without being sworn at or name called.

The root source of it is far right pundits like Tommy Robinson.

Of course there are those on the bandwagon who have “concerns” about immigration but are not fully far right.

I do agree we need to stop with the knee jerk “racist” reaction though. We need to make people’s lives better. Invest in housing and healthcare, reduce inequality, deal with the cost of living.

Then there will be less reason for people to look for answers in hate.