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Customer demands to charge her phone at supermarket

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Jdot · 10/09/2025 06:54

She came into the supermarket wanted to pay for her shopping on Apple Pay but her phone is dead. I saw her talking on the phone in the store.

Supermarkets and other places that people pay for products and services - restaurants, retailers, leisure places etc are NOT responsible for people’s mobile batteries and them not carrying their physical cards on them.

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BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 08:12

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 08:05

Well yes but the worry about losing my phone, having it stolen, me damaging it by dropping it or getting it wet, it getting hacked, running out of charge, being in a place with no signal etc etc would just stress me out so much it would negate any benefits.

Can’t say I worry about any of that tbh on a day to day basis. If I lose it/get it stolen I’ll get another one. If it gets damaged, it gets damaged. Not the end of the world, just annoying but given how much I drop mine I know from experience they are pretty robust! I even accidentally put mine through the washing machine- came out unscathed!

can’t think of anywhere in the UK where I have had absolutely no signal or no WiFi. you can make payments using you phone without any connection whatsoever.

I found worrying about my wallet and the implications of the admin loss of all my cards/ driving licence etc was far worse.

I do carry a power bank on me if I know I’m Going to be out for a long time. I rarely get caught with lack of charge but it can happen rarely.

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 08:12

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 08:04

The same can be said for a wallet surely? You lose your wallet then you have to cancel all your cards. You lose your phone you just get a new phone and download it all back on to it. No cancelling required. Much better.

No, because you can carry some cash elsewhere and your wallet won't hold all your phone contact numbers and whatever else highly phone-dependent people might keep on their phone. If you lose your wallet, you still have your phone to ring your bank and cancel the cards and to phone anyone you might need to come and help you.

If you lose your phone, but still have your wallet, you have the means to get home or buy anything you need. I personally keep a couple of emergency phone numbers inside my wallet as well.

GCAcademic · 10/09/2025 08:11

CopperWhite · 10/09/2025 08:11

Seriously? You know us women were perfectly capable of travel before mobile phones existed right?

Personally, I never left the house until they invented the mobile phone.

XWKD · 10/09/2025 08:11

Maybe she has a faulty battery. My last phone dropped from 30% to 1% suddenly.

CopperWhite · 10/09/2025 08:11

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:03

Unless they were really rude, then the safety implications of a woman on her own without phone charge for the journey home would be more concerning for me. A little compassion doesn't hurt and phone batteries get zapped with how much the are used in one day for shopping apps, loyalty cards or the 20 million school platforms. You don't know what that phone call was for.

Seriously? You know us women were perfectly capable of travel before mobile phones existed right?

Oneeyedonkey · 10/09/2025 08:10

@Buddrinker84 please tell us about the safety implications of a woman getting home from a supermarket without a phone?

JustMyView13 · 10/09/2025 08:10

Oneeyedonkey · 10/09/2025 07:07

Safety implications really.....really
Are women really incapable of getting home from the supermarket without a mobile phone??!!

Bold comment.
Almost always, when a woman does not complete her journey home safely it is not a lack of capability, but a lack of male ability to control themselves & their urges.

sashh · 10/09/2025 08:07

I was at the hospital urgent care department last week, they had power banks that you could rent. Maybe supermarkets should do the same.

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 08:05

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:59

Each to their own. I think it’s amazing. I don’t need a cumbersome wallet. Everything is all in one place. I don’t have worry about dropping cards anywhere and having a Billion different loyalty cards loose. When I go shopping I only step out with a tote bag now and can’t remember the last time I took a handbag with me.

Well yes but the worry about losing my phone, having it stolen, me damaging it by dropping it or getting it wet, it getting hacked, running out of charge, being in a place with no signal etc etc would just stress me out so much it would negate any benefits.

LeftABit · 10/09/2025 08:05

Obviously supermarkets aren’t ‘responsible’ for charging people’s phones. We all know that but I just don’t see why you are so up in arms about it at all.

Paganpentacle · 10/09/2025 08:05

So.... she had her phone charger with her did she?

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 08:04

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 08:01

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The same can be said for a wallet surely? You lose your wallet then you have to cancel all your cards. You lose your phone you just get a new phone and download it all back on to it. No cancelling required. Much better.

freerangethighs · 10/09/2025 08:03

You can usually charge it enough to pay in under 5 minutes. In my view there's no harm in asking if there's a charging station or similar available as long as the customer doesn't do their dinger if there's not. And while people ideally should be prepared (e.g., carry a power bank & cord) it's possible to be caught out for reasons other than complete carelessness - I had a situation where my iPhone was fully charged and then suddenly dropped to 3%; restarting it took it to 100% then down to 2%. Turned out the battery was faulty and the fault was also causing the battery health meter to read as high when it was really low. Easy enough to fix in a few days with a battery replacement, but definitely took me by surprise!

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 08:01

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:59

Each to their own. I think it’s amazing. I don’t need a cumbersome wallet. Everything is all in one place. I don’t have worry about dropping cards anywhere and having a Billion different loyalty cards loose. When I go shopping I only step out with a tote bag now and can’t remember the last time I took a handbag with me.

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Customer demands to charge her phone at supermarket
nomas · 10/09/2025 08:01

Did she have a charger? I would have plugged it in a socket at Customer Services for her.

Why wouldn’t you? Confused

FlowersandElephants · 10/09/2025 08:00

How was she rude? You haven’t actually said what she said that was rude?

I work in a supermarket and we keep a variety of chargers and have zero issues with people who need 5 minutes charge to pay for their shopping, as long as they stay with their phone or accept that we take no responsibility for it if they choose to leave it charging.

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:59

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 07:56

Oh I would absolutely hate to be so reliant on my phone.
It worries me the amount it intrudes on my life as it is without making it my only source of paying for things.

Each to their own. I think it’s amazing. I don’t need a cumbersome wallet. Everything is all in one place. I don’t have worry about dropping cards anywhere and having a Billion different loyalty cards loose. When I go shopping I only step out with a tote bag now and can’t remember the last time I took a handbag with me.

Chompingatthebeat · 10/09/2025 07:58

Excuse can i charge up my phone for 1 min so i can give you lots of money, who's gonna say no

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 07:56

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:33

The world was different. I don’t even step out with a wallet anymore- no point. My money is all on my phone. If I lost it I’d be in trouble just as I would have been previously if I had lost my wallet so swings and roundabouts.

Oh I would absolutely hate to be so reliant on my phone.
It worries me the amount it intrudes on my life as it is without making it my only source of paying for things.

mamagogo1 · 10/09/2025 07:53

What are the safety implications of not having a mobile phone? I managed quite fine for 30 years, I don’t see the crime figures are any worse now except the rise of phone thefts!

Tiredofwhataboutery · 10/09/2025 07:53

I’ve charged my phone in store before it died between putting in clubcard and paying. So annoying. I apologised and asked them to just hold the shopping and aid go to car and charge but they said they have a wireless charger as it happens all the time. A few minutes and it had enough juice, I paid and left.

It wasn’t a big deal atall.

BorneBackCeaselesslyIntoThePas · 10/09/2025 07:52

Isn’t the problem with customers charging their phones at shops not so much the cost of electricity but they might want to leave their phones while they do more shopping and then it’s a big deal around insurance and potential (or feared) access to the data on their phones

sorrynotathome · 10/09/2025 07:51

NotAMessiahJustAVeryNaughtyBoy · 10/09/2025 07:28

My colleagues and I have just been told that while we are expected to identify shoplifters, we are not allowed to confront them anymore. At all. We are a convenience sized shop with no security guard. We can tell them to go away and they’re banned as they come through the door. Sometimes it works at that time. Sometimes it doesn’t and they kick
off. Last week we were cleaned out of cheese, steak and persil, by 3 different thieving cunts people. On the same day. The fuckers don’t even run anymore, they walk out with a bag full of loot.

We are just as frustrated by this as you are as a paying customer, believe me.

Can you not guide them to a cctv blind spot and accidentally give them a good kicking?

redskydelight · 10/09/2025 07:49

TheBucketWomen · 10/09/2025 07:45

Odd that she carries around a charger with her!

And frankly if you are organised enough to carry a charger about, why not just carry round a portable power bank instead?

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:47

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 07:44

But, in the days before mobile phones, did you not carry an 'emergency tenner' somewhere that wasn't your wallet? And have you not considered that it's a good idea still to do that, in case you lose your phone? Although £20 is a better sum nowadays given inflation.

In the days before mobile phones no I never carried an emergency tenner. And even if I did carry £20 what would I be doing with it? It certainly couldn’t pay for a supermarket shop! I can’t hail an Uber with it. If I was going to get a black cab home I’d just get my card from home once I got back.

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