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Customer demands to charge her phone at supermarket

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Jdot · 10/09/2025 06:54

She came into the supermarket wanted to pay for her shopping on Apple Pay but her phone is dead. I saw her talking on the phone in the store.

Supermarkets and other places that people pay for products and services - restaurants, retailers, leisure places etc are NOT responsible for people’s mobile batteries and them not carrying their physical cards on them.

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Simplelobsterhat · 10/09/2025 07:47

Obviously it makes sense to let her so she can pay you, but I haven't got much sympathy for anyone who just never bother to carry cards or money anymore and only relies on their phone, and then makes their disorganisation other people's problem.

Networks go down, signal is dodgy, phones run out of charge or are glitchy. Why wouldn't you have a back up in most situations?
And if expecting to use my phone a lot or rely on it (eg tickets on an app) , I take a portable power bank.

And a supermarket isn't comparable to places that will only let you use an app/ encourage your tickets to be online because they take multiple forms of payment, and arent encouraging you to only use your phone.

LittleBearPad · 10/09/2025 07:47

Smartiepants79 · 10/09/2025 07:24

I’m surprised at how many people think the shops should just have agreed to this rudeness.
presuming the shop doesn’t have a public place that has public phone charging points then where is the charger supposed to come from? A member of staff’s (paid minimum wage) own, personal charger??

You know chargers last more than one charge and are likely plugged into the shop’s electricity. I’m not sure the angst about personal chargers is justified.

There may have been rudeness in how the request was made. The actual request wasn’t intrinsically rude

TheBucketWomen · 10/09/2025 07:45

Odd that she carries around a charger with her!

Themagicclaw · 10/09/2025 07:45

This happened to me in Asda - I was using their app to do scan and go and my battery drained from 60% to zero in 45 mins. The lady at the checkout said this is a known issue and had no issue letting me charge for the 2mins it took to be able to pay.

LittleBearPad · 10/09/2025 07:44

custodyconfusion · 10/09/2025 07:42

This exact situation happened to me a few weeks ago, phone battery went down really quickly, died just as I was queueing to pay and didn’t have my purse on me

really politely asked the phone shop section if I could plug my phone in for a few minutes so I had enough battery to pay, they couldn’t have been nicer about it and didn’t have a problem

It’s happened to me. My phone went from about 20% to off in minutes. The bloke on the till unplugged his phone (it was charging there) and plugged mine in for a few minutes. Very kind and solved the problem.

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 07:44

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:33

The world was different. I don’t even step out with a wallet anymore- no point. My money is all on my phone. If I lost it I’d be in trouble just as I would have been previously if I had lost my wallet so swings and roundabouts.

But, in the days before mobile phones, did you not carry an 'emergency tenner' somewhere that wasn't your wallet? And have you not considered that it's a good idea still to do that, in case you lose your phone? Although £20 is a better sum nowadays given inflation.

CheeseWisely · 10/09/2025 07:44

Well the supermarket could revert to cash only then people won’t have this problem, or offer a tiny bit of flexibility that allows someone to pay for their shopping that someone else will otherwise have to spend time putting back. Technology and times have changed.

custodyconfusion · 10/09/2025 07:42

This exact situation happened to me a few weeks ago, phone battery went down really quickly, died just as I was queueing to pay and didn’t have my purse on me

really politely asked the phone shop section if I could plug my phone in for a few minutes so I had enough battery to pay, they couldn’t have been nicer about it and didn’t have a problem

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 07:41

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/09/2025 07:39

Maybe they could just add £10 to the bill.
That should be a disincentive to most people - or an incentive to carry their cards as well.

Yes that sounds like a good idea.

RedRiverShore5 · 10/09/2025 07:41

Moonnstars · 10/09/2025 07:34

Surely most people know how charged their phone is and wouldn't rely on it as a payment method if they went out knowing it was low.
Unless the shop has a clear policy regarding use of a shared charger for this reason I would be hesitant to let someone do this. There is the possibility they are chancing it and have a broken phone which they will accuse the shop of breaking claiming the charger is faulty/phone was fine before and also the issue of where do people wait to do this. Are they stood to one side, shopping kept back til they have paid?
It sounds like more hassle for the shop.

Yes, there aren't charging points in supermarkets as far as I know, they would have to use a charger, maybe someone's personal one. If it was a big problem they would provide public charging points near the checkout.

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:40

I am surprised most supermarkets don’t do the emergency power banks where you can hire a battery tbh. I have used them in hospitals whilst waiting for hours.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/09/2025 07:39

Rightandwrong · 10/09/2025 07:01

I'm struggling to think this actually happened.
However as quite a lot of people seem to have no shame these days about behaving in totally entitled ways I suppose it did.
No doubt if customers are allowed to charge their phones in supermarkets then that will result in a rise prices to reflect the cost of the electricity involved.

Maybe they could just add £10 to the bill.
That should be a disincentive to most people - or an incentive to carry their cards as well.

prelovedusername · 10/09/2025 07:38

If a supermarket can charge for a disposable carrier then why not for charging a phone? A £5 fast charge fee should do it.

Motheranddaughter · 10/09/2025 07:37

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:03

Unless they were really rude, then the safety implications of a woman on her own without phone charge for the journey home would be more concerning for me. A little compassion doesn't hurt and phone batteries get zapped with how much the are used in one day for shopping apps, loyalty cards or the 20 million school platforms. You don't know what that phone call was for.

Safety implications? WTAF

Moonnstars · 10/09/2025 07:34

Surely most people know how charged their phone is and wouldn't rely on it as a payment method if they went out knowing it was low.
Unless the shop has a clear policy regarding use of a shared charger for this reason I would be hesitant to let someone do this. There is the possibility they are chancing it and have a broken phone which they will accuse the shop of breaking claiming the charger is faulty/phone was fine before and also the issue of where do people wait to do this. Are they stood to one side, shopping kept back til they have paid?
It sounds like more hassle for the shop.

BananaPeels · 10/09/2025 07:33

CeciliaDuckiePond · 10/09/2025 07:22

Not the first time I have asked this on a thread, but how do you think everyone managed in the days before mobile phones?

The world was different. I don’t even step out with a wallet anymore- no point. My money is all on my phone. If I lost it I’d be in trouble just as I would have been previously if I had lost my wallet so swings and roundabouts.

FableLies · 10/09/2025 07:33

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:03

Unless they were really rude, then the safety implications of a woman on her own without phone charge for the journey home would be more concerning for me. A little compassion doesn't hurt and phone batteries get zapped with how much the are used in one day for shopping apps, loyalty cards or the 20 million school platforms. You don't know what that phone call was for.

Maybe women shouldn't go out alone.

RedRiverShore5 · 10/09/2025 07:32

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:30

The OP mentions restaurants and hospitality too. So, yes my point still stands, safety at the end of an evening is important for women on their own. That doesn't account for rudeness though, that's not on at all.

Well, you have managed to derail the thread

SallySuperTrooper · 10/09/2025 07:31

Oneeyedonkey · 10/09/2025 07:07

Safety implications really.....really
Are women really incapable of getting home from the supermarket without a mobile phone??!!

Who would be holding her hand as she crosses a road, or telling her where the kerb was?!! 🫨
Am assuming she's come by car if a large shop, couldn't she charge it in the car?

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:30

The OP mentions restaurants and hospitality too. So, yes my point still stands, safety at the end of an evening is important for women on their own. That doesn't account for rudeness though, that's not on at all.

Notmyreality · 10/09/2025 07:30

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:03

Unless they were really rude, then the safety implications of a woman on her own without phone charge for the journey home would be more concerning for me. A little compassion doesn't hurt and phone batteries get zapped with how much the are used in one day for shopping apps, loyalty cards or the 20 million school platforms. You don't know what that phone call was for.

What a load of rubbish

LillyPJ · 10/09/2025 07:29

tripleginandtonic · 10/09/2025 07:17

Shops only give email receipts, your card is stored on there in a lot of cases to pay them with. Yes, a little bit of charge time is probably sonething shops are going to have to provide.

Shops usually give paper receipts if you ask. I always ask for paper ones.

NotAMessiahJustAVeryNaughtyBoy · 10/09/2025 07:28

ComfortFoodCafe · 10/09/2025 07:20

Considering how much supermarkets charge these days & their massive profits yabu, and considering most let shoplifters get away scott free yabvu. The woman just wanted to charge her phone for 5 mins & pay!

My colleagues and I have just been told that while we are expected to identify shoplifters, we are not allowed to confront them anymore. At all. We are a convenience sized shop with no security guard. We can tell them to go away and they’re banned as they come through the door. Sometimes it works at that time. Sometimes it doesn’t and they kick
off. Last week we were cleaned out of cheese, steak and persil, by 3 different thieving cunts people. On the same day. The fuckers don’t even run anymore, they walk out with a bag full of loot.

We are just as frustrated by this as you are as a paying customer, believe me.

zaazaazoom · 10/09/2025 07:27

Smartiepants79 · 10/09/2025 07:24

I’m surprised at how many people think the shops should just have agreed to this rudeness.
presuming the shop doesn’t have a public place that has public phone charging points then where is the charger supposed to come from? A member of staff’s (paid minimum wage) own, personal charger??

They had all the charging leads when it happened to me. It makes business sense and took up about 1 minute of their staff's time.

Needlenardlenoo · 10/09/2025 07:27

Southern trains advertise that they have power sockets so you can't get out of your contact less payment - it is in their business interest?

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