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Scouse girls?!

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Cwoffeelover1 · 09/09/2025 20:02

Why are they sooo glam half of them I’ve seen look like actual models and why are they so so thin?

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NotEnoughKnittingTime · 10/09/2025 14:31

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:18

So when you see little girls heading to school with their hair done nicely in braids with ribbons you feel sad? Or is that OK because middle class girls have their hair done nicely for school?

You know what I meant.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:27

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:21

That's interesting because the two most glamourous and well-groomed women I know are a Professor of Microbiology and a Senior Partner of a Law Firm.

There's 'glamorous and well groomed' and then there are girls like in the picture a PP posted.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:23

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:21

Oh, come on. There's a difference between nice braids and 'toddlers and tiaras' full glam. One is age appropriate, one is not (and is catnip for pedos)

I said nothing about tiaras, I said that girls in Liverpool are well groomed from a young age, including wearing nice clothes and having their hair done nicely. Paedophilia is not caused by clothing.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:21

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:14

Oh, that could be possible. I'm not going to lie, though. I agree with them in that case. It does seem to be glamourising something that isn't positive, women whose lives revolve around their looks and spending hours on grooming and makeup. I say that as someone who is very image conscious myself. I think it does women a disservice to think that they won't be judged for living out certain stereotypes. I have seen it in more than one profession.

That's interesting because the two most glamourous and well-groomed women I know are a Professor of Microbiology and a Senior Partner of a Law Firm.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:21

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:18

So when you see little girls heading to school with their hair done nicely in braids with ribbons you feel sad? Or is that OK because middle class girls have their hair done nicely for school?

Oh, come on. There's a difference between nice braids and 'toddlers and tiaras' full glam. One is age appropriate, one is not (and is catnip for pedos)

curtaintwitcher78 · 10/09/2025 14:19

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:11

No, sorry. I will definitely judge women who put artificial beauty on a pedestal and who are vapid and superficial.

Be careful of stereotyping. My niece is very intelligent and ambitious. She just graduated with a first and has a better job than me already. She is also very glamorous. I assume she just gets up earlier than I do. I am always well turned out but next to her I'm a scruffbag. She is not vapid in the slightest. A lot of these young women prefer to impress each other than men.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:18

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 10/09/2025 14:16

I meant they shouldn't be obsessed with their looks etc at that age. If they just wore a dress or football kit I wouldn't care but they shouldn't be bothered by their hair or nails until much older.

So when you see little girls heading to school with their hair done nicely in braids with ribbons you feel sad? Or is that OK because middle class girls have their hair done nicely for school?

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 10/09/2025 14:16

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 13:28

It's not in the least bit sad. Would you say it was sad if a girl only wanted to wear football strips and scruffy old t-shirts? No, because girls (and their mums) only get judged if they like typically feminine things.

I meant they shouldn't be obsessed with their looks etc at that age. If they just wore a dress or football kit I wouldn't care but they shouldn't be bothered by their hair or nails until much older.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:14

5128gap · 10/09/2025 13:49

I imagine they don't like the positivity around something that is essentially associated with WC culture, for whatever reason, either because they are part of the group and dislike the stereotype, or are not and resent the praise of others. So they are suggesting that the posters are patronising rather than genuinely admiring the women. Which is a shame really, as it seems to me (a WC woman, though sadly not a glam scouser) a positive and warm thread in the main, where people are celebrating a culture often overlooked or belittled on MN.

Oh, that could be possible. I'm not going to lie, though. I agree with them in that case. It does seem to be glamourising something that isn't positive, women whose lives revolve around their looks and spending hours on grooming and makeup. I say that as someone who is very image conscious myself. I think it does women a disservice to think that they won't be judged for living out certain stereotypes. I have seen it in more than one profession.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:12

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:11

No, sorry. I will definitely judge women who put artificial beauty on a pedestal and who are vapid and superficial.

And I'll judge women who think they are better than others just because of how much make-up they choose to wear or not wear. Vapid and superficial people are people who think that what you wear determines your personality.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 14:11

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:01

Grim is women judging other women based on what they like to wear and bond over. Grim is "not like other girls" behaviour.

No, sorry. I will definitely judge women who put artificial beauty on a pedestal and who are vapid and superficial.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 14:01

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 13:34

Me neither. How depressing that women 'bond' over appealing to the male gaze and wearing ten tons of makeup. Grim.

Grim is women judging other women based on what they like to wear and bond over. Grim is "not like other girls" behaviour.

5128gap · 10/09/2025 13:49

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 13:28

What do you mean?

I imagine they don't like the positivity around something that is essentially associated with WC culture, for whatever reason, either because they are part of the group and dislike the stereotype, or are not and resent the praise of others. So they are suggesting that the posters are patronising rather than genuinely admiring the women. Which is a shame really, as it seems to me (a WC woman, though sadly not a glam scouser) a positive and warm thread in the main, where people are celebrating a culture often overlooked or belittled on MN.

Skybluepinky · 10/09/2025 13:48

They are all different sizes, no idea why you think they aren’t, a trip to Liverpool would change your mind.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 13:34

NuovaPilbeam · 10/09/2025 07:45

I can see they put in a lot of effort but its not a style that appeals to me - I don't the heavy make up/bleached hair/fake tan look and "looking glam" seems to mean having your bum & boobs out rather than being dressed in a lovely formal outfit.

Fair play to them if they like it but I don't aspire to it at all.

Me neither. How depressing that women 'bond' over appealing to the male gaze and wearing ten tons of makeup. Grim.

Pruveil · 10/09/2025 13:32

PrissyGalore · 10/09/2025 10:22

I agree with all of this. I recently went to a very glam Liverpool wedding and although I’d bought an expensive dress, I felt frumpy. I didn’t wear a hat-mistake! Most of the women wore evening dress and looked amazing. Lots of plumped lips and hair extensions-in fact my dd got asked if her hair was real or fantastic extensions! We have Scouse rellies and they are quite socially conservative. Even well off people clean their own houses as they don’t like the thought of strangers going through their knicker drawer. Their relationships are very close but parents have a lot of say in their kids’ lives and like to live close and long for their kids to move back if they have left for any reason. The people we know are very clannish-lovely-very funny and friendly but very clannish.

Plus, always wear black to a funeral! Friends from Berkshire were coming to Liverpool for a funeral and the 2 women said they were going to wear bright prints to be “uplifting”. I advised against it but they didn’t listen. Then very quickly realised they’d mistake when they arrived at the church!

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 13:30

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 09/09/2025 22:09

Oh I do agree. I have been to Liverpool a number of times. (Only an hour on the train!) and the girls are lush! So glam and well presented and pretty, gorgeous hair, lovely face, amazing clothes, lovely nails, so attractive. 😍

I agree it's the Irish genes. Irish are gorgeous! (I am biased as DH is Irish.) Grin

I disagree that they are sooooo thin though, They have lovely figures!

They just look tacky and overdone, to me. They have so much makeup on that you can't see whether they are goodlooking or not. You see girls like that on any night out in any city.

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 13:28

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 10/09/2025 13:14

That is really sad.

It's not in the least bit sad. Would you say it was sad if a girl only wanted to wear football strips and scruffy old t-shirts? No, because girls (and their mums) only get judged if they like typically feminine things.

AliceMaforethought · 10/09/2025 13:28

chickenroll · 10/09/2025 11:44

Some of the comments on this thread is a bit noble savage

What do you mean?

FlipperSkipper · 10/09/2025 13:25

I’ve never seen anyone wearing their pyjamas in Liverpool, but always see women with rollers in when out shopping on a Saturday. Fair play to them!

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 10/09/2025 13:14

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 13:11

They train them from young, even the little girls have their nails and hair done and their outfits are on point. 😂

That is really sad.

SheherazadesSpringNonsense · 10/09/2025 13:13

MouseCheese87 · 10/09/2025 08:25

I'm from Liverpool. This is a goady stereotype about Liverpool women. It's something I haven't seen since about 2005.

There were four in Zara last Saturday

InMyShowgirlEra · 10/09/2025 13:11

They train them from young, even the little girls have their nails and hair done and their outfits are on point. 😂

TheBirdintheCave · 10/09/2025 13:07

MouseCheese87 · 10/09/2025 08:25

I'm from Liverpool. This is a goady stereotype about Liverpool women. It's something I haven't seen since about 2005.

I brought my husband home to meet my parents back in 2017. The first time we went shopping in town we saw girls in rollers 😅

chickenroll · 10/09/2025 11:44

Some of the comments on this thread is a bit noble savage

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