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To the flag flyers

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AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 16:22

Let me tell you about a guy named Amir…

Amir fled Syria after his home was bombed and several family members were killed. He didn’t come to the UK for handouts — he came to survive. He arrived in the UK through the government’s refugee resettlement scheme with barely anything. No English, no money — just his life.
His first job? Cleaning tables at a café in Leeds. He worked 6 days a week, took evening English classes, and volunteered at a local food bank just to feel useful.

Fast forward a few years — Amir now runs a small catering business with his wife. They specialise in Syrian street food, and it’s actually doing really well. He employs 10 people — all locals — and he gives free meals to NHS staff on Fridays as a thank-you to the country that took him in.

The most British thing about Amir? He watches Match of the Day religiously and complains about the rain more than anyone I know.

Look, I get it — people worry about immigration, jobs, safety. But most refugees like Amir aren’t a threat. They’re people who’ve lost everything and just want to build a life — and when they’re given the chance, they often give back far more than they take.
Isn’t that the kind of country we want to be — one that offers safety, but also benefits from the talents and hard work of those who come here?

If your family had to flee war, wouldn’t you want another country to treat them with basic decency?

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AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 16:45

So do you think we should kick ALL men out then in that case @hamstersarse- they are busy murdering one woman every 3 days - but mostly those are the ones we live with or are related to 🤷🏻‍♀️

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hamstersarse · 09/09/2025 16:39

But most refugees like Amir aren’t a threat.

That should read all not most

That is the problem that people have with uncontrolled immigration. It cannot be most

AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 16:38

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 09/09/2025 16:31

It might be a good idea for all the Amirs to fly the flag. Nothing would make the far right disdain it quicker - so it would become once more what it should be, something for those who love England and want to show that

Yesss!!!!

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BeMellowAquaSquid · 09/09/2025 16:37

Does Amir paint roundabouts with red crosses?

MissMoneyFairy · 09/09/2025 16:37

Do you personally know Amir

HansHolbein · 09/09/2025 16:35

I suppose I could ask ChatGPT.

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 09/09/2025 16:31

It might be a good idea for all the Amirs to fly the flag. Nothing would make the far right disdain it quicker - so it would become once more what it should be, something for those who love England and want to show that

AnneLovesGilbert · 09/09/2025 16:27

Is Amir against the English or U.K. flags in some way? You missed that out if it’s the case. He chose to come here, he presumably accepts our flags.

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 09/09/2025 16:23

What's this got to do with flags?