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Letting children chalk public pavement

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RainbowRanger29 · 09/09/2025 11:45

Hi,

So wondering AITA for allowing my young child (age 5) to draw with chalk on the public pavement?

My child was happy out drawing pictures and writing her name with chalk in the front garden with her little friends from the street. They ran out of space in the garden and continued there colourful chalk drawings along the public pavement outside the house.

No one owns the public footpath (its not anyone's actual property) and they drew along outside around 5/6 houses. They drew rainbows and houses and wrote their names and a hopscotch. Nothing offensive but not exactly amazing art (they are only 5!)

One of the neighbours arrived home and appeared visibly annoyed with the chalk, the kids asked if they like their art and they ignored them, went inside, got their hose and washed the chalk away from the public footpath outside of their house only.

The children were still out drawing and got upset that they had washed it away (mummy didn't they like our pictures? Why are they washing it away? Etc)

We live in the UK and it rains an awful lot! It would have washed away anyway later that evening when it rained ... I think it was mean of them to hose it away in front of the kids (surely they could of waited until the kids had stopped playing?)

Or is it me ... should I have not allowed them to chalk the public footpath?

Is it kids being kids enjoying chalking public areas? I used to do this as a kid and it never seemed to upset anyone? Or is it disrespectful to allow children to chalk on public footpaths outside of other people's home?

Interested on everyone's opinions

OP posts:
BunfightBetty · 09/09/2025 12:35

Happyher · 09/09/2025 12:23

I don’t think you or neighbour are being unreasonable. He didn’t like the chalking outside his house so he removed it without complaining or making a fuss. You perhaps need to teach your child to be more respectful of others

What’s disrespectful about drawing with chalk on a pavement?

HobnobsChoice · 09/09/2025 12:34

I cannot imagine how uptight and miserable you have to be to object to kids playing outside and chalking on pavements. And how black your soul is to go an hose it off. A teeny amount of chalk might get on the soles of your shoes but I assume most people also wipe their feet when they go inside and also take their shoes off. It's real misery guts behaviour.

Perhaps they are my old childhood neighbours who used to complain about children riding bikes on the road and would say we were "whizzing about all over". We weren't screamy kids, it was a residential cul de sac with 3 and 4 bed houses and we didn't ride on pavements, we were 8 year olds on Raleigh bikes with shopping baskets. We didn't dash in front of cars but the very fact we were outside seemed to annoy the neighbours
Some people seem to only find joy in disapproving of other people's fun. I almost feel sorry for them.

Pancakeflipper · 09/09/2025 12:34

One of the few joys during covid involved the children up our road who chalked a weekly 'obstacle' course on the pavement.

Jump 4 times.
Hop over circle etc.....

Hilarious and many adults followed the instructions when going past their house.

Thankfully no one got grumpy about the chalk.

VenusClapTrap · 09/09/2025 12:34

Miserable bugger. It’s the sort of thing my DDad would do, but even he would wait till the kids had gone before hosing it off.

I suppose it’s a life lesson for the kids in how people are different and not everyone is friendly. Tell them not to take it to heart.

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 09/09/2025 12:33

No help to you OP but I let my kids chalk on the pavements when they were maybe 6 and 8, with an older girl let's say she was 10. Came out to find many yards of penises (sp.?) she'd drawn alongside my kids' hearts and flowers. Took DH 2 hours with a hose and broom to remove it all, needless to say dick kid's dick parents didn't come out and help.

Anyway, yeah little flowers and rainbows etc., wouldn't bother me but I can see why it might annoy others.

Livpool · 09/09/2025 12:33

It wouldn’t bother me - I love seeing kids’ drawings in chalk on the pavement. We used to to it when DS was younger in our garden.

I would advise anyone though -not to do it on your house - we have one on our wall and it is there about 4 years later. It’s of me too 😂

Mokel · 09/09/2025 12:32

Kids used to draw hopscotches, targets, on the pavements for many many years. My late DGM did this in the 1930s - though used a stone that made a white line.

Think a late male relative used to draw with chalk or a stone a football goal on a side of an end of terrace.

Bloody over reaction from the people in the OP's post

Poppingby · 09/09/2025 12:32

I think chalking on a public pavement is fine - I personally like to see it - but I also think grumpy neighbours are a fact of life to learn about and no real harm done. Don't let it stop them doing it again though! Maybe a passive aggressive exclusion zone around their house.

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 09/09/2025 12:32

How anyone can be upset by children’s chalk drawings is beyond me. It isn’t graffiti it’s harmless fun that will disappear within hours . There are some miserable bastards out there.

Lonelycrab · 09/09/2025 12:32

Neighbour is a misery guts. Yanbu at all op.

RollAndSqareSausageBroonSauce · 09/09/2025 12:31

I was walking to work early one morning and the small street I have to walk through was completely covered in chalk drawings, from one end to the other; the pavements and the roads, you could barely see the concrete. There was also some ribbons on fences and lampposts. It was fucking fabulous! It was there for several weeks during the long summer dry spell, making my morning a bit less dreary. I was disappointed when it eventually washed away and were back to everything being grey. Personally, I would probably hand them some extra chalk, but perhaps limit their drawing space to your own surroundings if it upsets that one neighbour, eh 🙄

HelpMeGetThrough · 09/09/2025 12:31

Get them to draw a certain flag outside their house.

Ddakji · 09/09/2025 12:31

Happyher · 09/09/2025 12:23

I don’t think you or neighbour are being unreasonable. He didn’t like the chalking outside his house so he removed it without complaining or making a fuss. You perhaps need to teach your child to be more respectful of others

Nah, she’s fine. Sure he can wash it off, doesn’t stop him being a miserable sod.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 09/09/2025 12:31

Chamomileteaplease · 09/09/2025 11:55

I remember doing this as a child.

The only upside to this is that this woman will go down in history in your family as the grumpy neighbour who washed away X's drawing when she was only five. We used to love having villains like this 😄

So do I. Such an innocent past time.
If it was spray paint then the neighbour would be well within their rights to be annoyed, but chalk? Get a grip FFS. And the hosing it off in front of the kids was just mean and petty.

TeeBee · 09/09/2025 12:30

Meh, it will all wash away. Anyone who cares has far too much time on their hands.

LittleBitofBread · 09/09/2025 12:30

Your neighbour is a miserable sod, and rude to boot. If it happens again I'd ask them if they were brought up to ignore people when they speak directly to them.

The kids on my street regularly use the pavement to chalk hopscotch, cricket and other games that are unfathomable to dull old adults like me. They also draw pictures and write their names etc in many different colours. It always makes me smile.

Ddakji · 09/09/2025 12:29

What a total miseryguts. Ignore them (and the people on this thread who are also miseries!).

WalkingWavy · 09/09/2025 12:29

Your neighbour is probably the same type of grumpy git who moans about children spending all their time indoors on devices. I wouldn’t give it another thought

Digdongdoo · 09/09/2025 12:29

Of course kids can chalk pavements! Your neighbour is a misery

BunfightBetty · 09/09/2025 12:29

I’m genuinely surprised that people think this is an issue, and I’m struggling to understand why. I can’t see what harm it does.

If you’re someone who’s said you wouldn’t like it, what is it about it that you don’t like, and why?

JurassicPark4Eva · 09/09/2025 12:28

There's always someone that gets butt hurt over chalk on pavements.

As long as they aren't drawing on people's homes, walls or driveways without permission (or offensive words or pics!), I cannot see the harm.

It'll be washed away in a day or two!

Tessasanderson · 09/09/2025 12:28

There was a video clip going around during covid. A little boy would ride his balance bike past a guys house each day (with his parents). The guy had a big driveway and the boy would often do little circles etc on his driveway.

The guy took it upon himself to draw ever more intricate routes each day in chalk on his drive for this little boy to follow. It was amazing seeing his parents laughing, the child exercising and having fun and no doubt the guy enjoying the fun he was giving the boy.

Contrast this with the soul sucking tossers your neighbours are. In life some people just cant help being tossers.

nomas · 09/09/2025 12:28

I think it's nice to see kids playing outside.

I would far rather see chalk on pavements than dog shit or fly tipping.

GRex · 09/09/2025 12:28

Kids always draw for street parties in our area, total non issue for anyone as far as I'm aware.

I wouldn't like 5yo touching that much pavement only because of the inevitable dog poo. Really it isn't that dusty except on the kids themselves.

Wherehasthecatgone · 09/09/2025 12:26

If it is reasonable to draw in chalk then it is also reasonable to get a hose out and wash it off.

I also would advise them against declaring their names in a public space like that.

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