Due to meet up with a friend and meet her little girl for the first time. She’s around 3 months old.
my son has a cold. No fever, just snotty and coughing and sneezing.
I think it’s common courtesy to let my friend know that my son isn’t well and to let her decide if she wants to meet up with us. We are going for lunch at a restaurant.
my husband thinks I’m OTT. I won’t be offended if she’d rather not meet.
last year my little one had a fever on his birthday and I let another friend who was supposed to be coming with her son ( they were both 2 ) and she opted out of coming. I totally understand.
I would have been a bit put out if someone came to meet my baby and brought a snotty child without telling me.
what does everyone think ?
like I said, my husband thinks I’m being OTT. But he wouldn’t have been the one up all night for days with a sick child ! I know viruses can’t be avoided, but sometimes, when someone is actively ill- you can actually avoid it!