So my partner is going out today with my children to an event, he didn't really mention what it entailed and I said I'd rather do something else together or I may not come if they wanted to go to the event but it seemed to involve atanding all day which isnt great for me physically. Didn't know much of the details of the event but on the morning of going it appears acually quite good now my partner had elaborated on it, he hasnt mentioned the event otherwise, just organisdd and assumed it would happen and spoken to.my children about it...I thought maybe I'd go after finding out the details but unfortunatly second thought I have to look after the pet who is unwell this week and can't be left alone as lethargic, it would be cruel. My partner was indifferent really. I've anxiety this week and its heightened at present more than the normal which I've shared with him but with no real advice or reassurancefrom him...not sure what im expecting I guess. Current anxiety driving factors are pressures from my job and feeling like I am the decision maker/ have to be my partners brain as he doesn't seem to function and think, get tasks done/poor decision making and is on setraline. Anyway so I've just broken down in tears, likely also hormonal.... and my partner asks if and why I'm crying in an insincere tone and then I said nothing i guess as i felt he wasnt being heartfelt and he has just left for the event without another word with my children.. I'm clearly upset, crying and not feeling great.... is that normal or should I expect my partner to have been more loving and concerned, trying to comfort me. This is how he seems to be about anything. If I say he was Inappropriate in a situation he will reply sorry without a second thought if prompted with no substance to his answer and this is on repeat whether its following him raising his voice or snapping at me.I feel almost unloved somehow. I guess the picture is bigger than this post but I've rambled enough.