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It is the 21st Century. This is bullshit!

185 replies

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:44

My daughter started a new school.
She has come home with 3 seperate sets of paper.

Each with 2 pages printed front and back.

2 of the are the exact same.

Why the fuck do I have to wrote out her address 3 seperate times?! Why do i have to wrotes my email 4 times?! Her name so many times..
And on and on.

Im not doing the duplicate one. They can look at the other one.

But seriously its 2025! There should be a better system.

OP posts:
NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:44

What did OP say that was bullying or offensive?

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

awkwardasfuck · 06/09/2025 19:01

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:57

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:52

And maybe you can reflect on some of your behaviour too.

Im fully happy with my response.
I want to confront bullies with as much aggression and fight as possible.

Of course what happens here always happen and they play the victim, but I will keep at it.

Let's make bullies unhappy. Theyre bad people and deserve this and worse.

OP posts:
CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:52

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

And maybe you can reflect on some of your behaviour too.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

OP posts:
Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:48

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

You do sometimes get emails warning you

Nope. Not a thing.

OP posts:
CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

OP posts:
nomas · 06/09/2025 18:44

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

What did OP say that was bullying or offensive?

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:35

Hadn't even noticed. You'd think MN would make a system that notifies your account.

You do sometimes get emails warning you

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:42

Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:36

I mean if for a single nanosecond you're taking any of this without a pinch of salt the size of the Sahara I'd suggest the OP's grammar is the least of your worries

Take it with a pinch of salt by all means but that’s no excuse to pile on the OP with snide posts.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:41

Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:36

I mean if for a single nanosecond you're taking any of this without a pinch of salt the size of the Sahara I'd suggest the OP's grammar is the least of your worries

Are you seriously suggesting I'm a troll.
Read the OP without your typical horrendous bullying mindset and wonder in what Universe someone makes that up?

I just wanted a rant.
And the horror of MN couldn't allow 1 mistype typo to rest.

Thats the issue. That bullies are continuously allowed to parade around without being challenged.

OP posts:
Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:36

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:33

Yes, it is indeed ‘lol’ that your own spag errors are funny to you, but you attack OP for hers.

I mean if for a single nanosecond you're taking any of this without a pinch of salt the size of the Sahara I'd suggest the OP's grammar is the least of your worries

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:35

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:34

OP has so many deleted replies now it's hilarious

Hadn't even noticed. You'd think MN would make a system that notifies your account.

OP posts:
NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:34

OP has so many deleted replies now it's hilarious

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:33

Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:27

lol

Yes, it is indeed ‘lol’ that your own spag errors are funny to you, but you attack OP for hers.

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 18:28

Dontlletmedownbruce · 06/09/2025 18:26

Those minutes filling out forms have interfered with OPs daily quota of aggressive and hostile posting on online forums. Chin up OP maybe you could start some additional pointless online arguments tomorrow to make up the time.

Lol

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 18:28

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:28

Dontlletmedownbruce · 06/09/2025 18:26

Those minutes filling out forms have interfered with OPs daily quota of aggressive and hostile posting on online forums. Chin up OP maybe you could start some additional pointless online arguments tomorrow to make up the time.

And what of your life?
Because you're right here with me.

OP posts:
Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:27

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:23

Are your own grammar errors deliberate?

lol

Dontlletmedownbruce · 06/09/2025 18:26

Those minutes filling out forms have interfered with OPs daily quota of aggressive and hostile posting on online forums. Chin up OP maybe you could start some additional pointless online arguments tomorrow to make up the time.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:26

Ah bollocks responded to the wrong post
😂😂😂

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:26

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 18:23

Also the comment about needing to.pay to get a side of someone that is moderate and normal.
Not representative of any adult I've ever met who works successfully with vulnerable young people for extended periods of time.
Scary.

If you're going to come here and attack my SPAG don't you fucking dare come here with that.

What is to.pay?

OP posts:
Hobnobswantshernameback · 06/09/2025 18:25

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 18:23

Also the comment about needing to.pay to get a side of someone that is moderate and normal.
Not representative of any adult I've ever met who works successfully with vulnerable young people for extended periods of time.
Scary.

Lol