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It is the 21st Century. This is bullshit!

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Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:44

My daughter started a new school.
She has come home with 3 seperate sets of paper.

Each with 2 pages printed front and back.

2 of the are the exact same.

Why the fuck do I have to wrote out her address 3 seperate times?! Why do i have to wrotes my email 4 times?! Her name so many times..
And on and on.

Im not doing the duplicate one. They can look at the other one.

But seriously its 2025! There should be a better system.

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CommissarySushi · 07/09/2025 08:52

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

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😂

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 23:31

OK?

You're the one here who has been actively rude and aggressive, had posts deleted and has even admitted to being aggressive...

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Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

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NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 23:31

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:26

Im not going to respond to tou now because while the others were competent adults who are choosing to be bullies I have deep concerns regarding your abilities.

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OK?

You're the one here who has been actively rude and aggressive, had posts deleted and has even admitted to being aggressive...

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:44

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:43

In September? No new intake?

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Not from externally no.

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:43

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:40

Its not bad at the moment. The department I'm currently in means it's more updating than creating due to ages.

But it's part of the job and the stuff I have to do makes sense has logic and is important to the young person.

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In September? No new intake?

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:40

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:39

Acronyms different . Bureaucracy, planning and documentation is the same

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Its not bad at the moment. The department I'm currently in means it's more updating than creating due to ages.

But it's part of the job and the stuff I have to do makes sense has logic and is important to the young person.

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:39

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

No EHCPs here. That's and England thing.

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Acronyms different . Bureaucracy, planning and documentation is the same

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:31

Lol at the annoyance over forms when your day job is EHCPs

No EHCPs here. That's and England thing.

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

WonderfulSmith · 06/09/2025 19:28

You don’t drink? I stopped drinking until I started teaching….

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No, it's strange reasons but also something Im not interested at present.
No drinking issue though so I may go again.

Honestly, this aside i love teaching. Every day is hard but so brilliant and I've recommended it to many people especially older individuals looking for a career change

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:31

Lol at the annoyance over forms when your day job is EHCPs

WonderfulSmith · 06/09/2025 19:28

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 17:57

I've had a very productive day.
The forms are as completed as they're going to be.
And I don't drink.

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You don’t drink? I stopped drinking until I started teaching….

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:26

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:21

You said its bullying to correct spelling and grammar if meaning is obvious. Ergo teachers are bullies

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Im not going to respond to tou now because while the others were competent adults who are choosing to be bullies I have deep concerns regarding your abilities.

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NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:21

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

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You said its bullying to correct spelling and grammar if meaning is obvious. Ergo teachers are bullies

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:20

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:09

She didn’t actually call them a twat.

And those people were mocking her spelling and yet reported OP for her posts. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

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She did call them a twat. It got deleted for being offensive to another poster

awkwardasfuck · 06/09/2025 19:16

This went well!

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 19:15

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:06

I think you knew the first post often sets the tone for the thread and that you knew exactly what you were doing.

What was the own goal anyway? OP never set herself up as a spelling bee champion in her post.

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You can think whatever you like. It was the OPs aggressiveness that set the tone.

I have no clue what the own goal was either though. That wasn't my post.

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:11

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

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☺️

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:05

Well that means all teachers are bullies then...

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So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

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nomas · 06/09/2025 19:09

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

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She didn’t actually call them a twat.

And those people were mocking her spelling and yet reported OP for her posts. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:07

Unneeded
Yep deffo a teacher

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:07

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:57

Im fully happy with my response.
I want to confront bullies with as much aggression and fight as possible.

Of course what happens here always happen and they play the victim, but I will keep at it.

Let's make bullies unhappy. Theyre bad people and deserve this and worse.

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You're openly admitting to being a vile and rude person now

Excellent

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:06

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

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Lol

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:06

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

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I think you knew the first post often sets the tone for the thread and that you knew exactly what you were doing.

What was the own goal anyway? OP never set herself up as a spelling bee champion in her post.

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:06

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

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Hahahahahaha spoken like a person whose career is working with vulnerable youngsters

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:05

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

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Well that means all teachers are bullies then...