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It is the 21st Century. This is bullshit!

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Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:44

My daughter started a new school.
She has come home with 3 seperate sets of paper.

Each with 2 pages printed front and back.

2 of the are the exact same.

Why the fuck do I have to wrote out her address 3 seperate times?! Why do i have to wrotes my email 4 times?! Her name so many times..
And on and on.

Im not doing the duplicate one. They can look at the other one.

But seriously its 2025! There should be a better system.

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DontbesorrybeGiles · 07/09/2025 14:14

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 21:06

Masterbate.

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At least your phone is no longer autocorrecting anything.

WonderfulSmith · 07/09/2025 14:11

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:16

Not at all. Like I said I believe in meeting adult bullies with maximum aggression at all times

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You are the only person being rude and aggressive. Are you the same person who got upset about receipts”

Hobnobswantshernameback · 07/09/2025 12:35

Told everyone they needed a pinch of salt
swap that for a shovel full

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 12:29

Mentally unwell, troll, bored kid, or just completely vile? Answers on a postcard before this thread gets zapped.

NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 12:27

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Yes you are a complete reasonable person and acting like a mature adult...

Anyway this post will get deleted so no one will know what you said where you call people "sad", "pathetic" and "failed abortions"

CommissarySushi · 07/09/2025 12:27

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Wow. And you think you're not a bully?

Hobnobswantshernameback · 07/09/2025 12:13

"Failed abortion"
okey dokey

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:55

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:54

Catsbreakfast · 07/09/2025 11:50

Are you always this rude and obnoxious? Learn to spell for starters before you lay into people. I feel bad for your daughter. What an example you are setting.

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Yep 24/7 365.
Of course.

Proud of yourself being a bully?

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NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 11:51

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:16

Not at all. Like I said I believe in meeting adult bullies with maximum aggression at all times

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Calling people twats and saying they aren't getting enough action because they pointed out your spelling is atrocious doesn't make you look like the bigger person or the victim...

Catsbreakfast · 07/09/2025 11:50

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:56

And they would be better people than you. Maybe you should aspire to be more like them?

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Are you always this rude and obnoxious? Learn to spell for starters before you lay into people. I feel bad for your daughter. What an example you are setting.

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 11:40

OK then. Not like any SEND professional I've met but scary if true

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:16

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:56

You don't feel embarrassed about how you have conducted yourself or the impression you have given as a trusted member of staff who works with the most vulnerable population?

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Not at all. Like I said I believe in meeting adult bullies with maximum aggression at all times

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NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 11:16

A SEND teacher not wanting to make sure they have all the details is worrying

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:56

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:51

Which is why I use and email only associated with Mumsnet after the hacking.

I change username often
I dont give out to much personal I for at 1 time.

Also nothing I have said here goes against my contract.

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You don't feel embarrassed about how you have conducted yourself or the impression you have given as a trusted member of staff who works with the most vulnerable population?

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:51

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:47

Teacher. Standards.
Particularly thinking about online footprint

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Which is why I use and email only associated with Mumsnet after the hacking.

I change username often
I dont give out to much personal I for at 1 time.

Also nothing I have said here goes against my contract.

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:47

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:43

Yes and I have more than enough experience of lax, useless parents who i believe should be held accountable.

But thats the not way the system is and I am very good at doing my exact job and staying in my lane.

That doesn't mean I dont have opinions on matters.

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Teacher. Standards.
Particularly thinking about online footprint

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:43

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:39

You work in SEND , this is your bread and butter

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Yes and I have more than enough experience of lax, useless parents who i believe should be held accountable.

But thats the not way the system is and I am very good at doing my exact job and staying in my lane.

That doesn't mean I dont have opinions on matters.

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:40

I refer you again to the teacher standards

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:39

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:20

Then thats the patents problem.
If there is a bad outcome.the parents should be held to account for their failings.

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You work in SEND , this is your bread and butter

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Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:20

RhaenysRocks · 07/09/2025 09:43

But people don't. They forget and then we don't have the info that someone has developed an allergy or asthma. Making you put it in from scratch means it's more likely we have the info. See the thread the other day about people being morons. You have to break everything into the most simple steps to try and get what you need.

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Then thats the patents problem.
If there is a bad outcome.the parents should be held to account for their failings.

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RhaenysRocks · 07/09/2025 09:43

Pavingprincess · 05/09/2025 21:04

And they send it every fucking year. Just ask me if anything has changed. I say no. Neither me nor the school office have to do anything more! Oh but that would make too much sense for them so no

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But people don't. They forget and then we don't have the info that someone has developed an allergy or asthma. Making you put it in from scratch means it's more likely we have the info. See the thread the other day about people being morons. You have to break everything into the most simple steps to try and get what you need.

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 09:39

NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 09:36

I didn't say there was?

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NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 09:36

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

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I didn't say there was?

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 09:23

Good lord just follow the teaching standards , I beg you