Hi guys,
I broke up with my long term partner three years ago. It was not an amicable split. He was a narcissist. He was a master gaslighter and controlled me. He had two affairs. He would call me awful names, tell me I was worthless, convince me I had said things when I hadn’t, make me cry and laugh and walk away, shout at me in front of the kids, the list goes on! I tried to stay friends with him but he remained verbally abusive and sent awful texts to me. It’s his birthday soon. I have sorted things for the kids to give him, I haven’t bought him a card but should I send him a text wishing him happy birthday? I really don’t want to but I don’t want to seem like a bitch. Thanks in advance.