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AIBU to be angry that my husband threw out a bunch of my things?

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Booklovingmummy · 05/09/2025 13:45

I guess just that, he threw out a bunch of my things without permission and I am so angry and upset. It's bad enough he regularly throws away the children's things without considering their feelings but it feels like he's gone too far. He says he's always throwing stuff away and no-one notices (which isn't true they do). I don't trust him not to throw anything else away.

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PigletSanders · 05/09/2025 13:59

ShortColdandGrey · 05/09/2025 13:59

My uncle used to do this all the time to my aunt and cousins. They never felt safe leaving the house because he would just go through their stuff and throw things out. It is bloody rude and controlling.

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Bloody rude and controlling is right. Who the fuck does he think he is?

PigletSanders · 05/09/2025 13:59

Not that it makes any difference, your husband is outrageous doing that, but what were the things?

ShortColdandGrey · 05/09/2025 13:59

My uncle used to do this all the time to my aunt and cousins. They never felt safe leaving the house because he would just go through their stuff and throw things out. It is bloody rude and controlling.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 05/09/2025 13:49

Why does he do this?
Is he very tidy and you're not good at chucking stuff out?
Maybe he doesn't like living in a mess.

Or could you just say to him that you're going to take articles that are no longer needed to a charity shop?

AdoraBell · 05/09/2025 13:46

YANBU. Throw some of his things out.

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 05/09/2025 13:46

What was it?

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