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Aibu to message my friend?

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Roundmirrors · 05/09/2025 13:40

My best friend went into labour 5 days ago messaged me to say it was all happening, very exciting, she was about to go into hospital etc etc... we have been through thick and thin together and besties since we were little.
It's now 5 days on and I still haven't heard anything more. I have messaged her, but she hasn't read my message (it has been received). I'm really worried about her/baby.
Aibu to consider messaging her family members to check everything is ok? The more time passes, the more worried I am. It's just so unlike her to not message... 😢

Sorry title is wrong! Should say 'message my friend's family'!

OP posts:
Aquickturn · 05/09/2025 13:42

presumably You have her partner’s number?

Aquickturn · 05/09/2025 13:42

Absolutely do not message her
Message ONE family member

sheknowsitstoolate · 05/09/2025 13:41

I’d send a message x

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